Mole Question

[quote]debraD wrote:
OMG we’re mole twins!

I thought about getting it removed before out of fear of cancer but I have a lot of moles and I don’t know where’d I stop. Sorry Anonym, I guess we can never be :frowning:

That said, I work with a woman who has a big distracting one on her chin and that has to go! I don’t understand why she doesn’t. It’s so hard to not look at it. She is youngish and single and looking fro a man too. That’s different than on your ass though. IMO.[/quote]

Not just in your opinion.

Once you see a mole on someones naked ass, you are already somewhat invested.

Plus, I would have an erection son, (RSD reference, yay) so I would have other priorities

[quote]debraD wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:
Oh and if you really don’t like it, just get a cool tattoo around it/over it/ amongst it. You’ll be just fine. I’ve never kicked anyone out of bed for a mole. I don’t think a guy would either.[/quote]

OMG PEOPLE?!?! Can they tattoo OVER a mole??!

I COULD GET THE RHCP SYMBOL OVER IT
[/quote]

Tattoo on your ass?

Do you REALLY want a tramp stamp?[/quote]

I thought tramp stamps were lower back/whale tail region? I dislike most tattoos though so I share your REALLY??[/quote]

Well, technically you are correct, but everything in the general ass or pubic area does not scream “mother of my children”.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]debraD wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Spock81 wrote:

[quote]theBeth wrote:
Oh and if you really don’t like it, just get a cool tattoo around it/over it/ amongst it. You’ll be just fine. I’ve never kicked anyone out of bed for a mole. I don’t think a guy would either.[/quote]

OMG PEOPLE?!?! Can they tattoo OVER a mole??!

I COULD GET THE RHCP SYMBOL OVER IT
[/quote]

Tattoo on your ass?

Do you REALLY want a tramp stamp?[/quote]

I thought tramp stamps were lower back/whale tail region? I dislike most tattoos though so I share your REALLY??[/quote]

Well, technically you are correct, but everything in the general ass or pubic area does not scream “mother of my children”. [/quote]

I can see that, however “mother of my children” shouldn’t be what you’re thinking about when staring at said ass, I reckon.

That would have been useful knowledge when I was younger and having to have the ‘hell no I don’t even want kids!’ talk with boyfriends. I should have just had a tramp stamp.

[quote]debraD wrote:
Oh Anonym, I guess we can never be :-([/quote]

Jimmies Status:
- Not Rustled
- Forever Rustled

Sigh…

I don’t share the virulent abhorrence of ass tattoos being voiced here…but I do think there is something sexy about embracing what you see as physical imperfection and just leaving it alone.

[quote]anonym wrote:

[quote]debraD wrote:
Oh Anonym, I guess we can never be :-([/quote]

Jimmies Status:
- Not Rustled
- Forever Rustled

Sigh…[/quote]

Just so you know, I used the term rustled my Jimmies in a meeting recently and got some strange looks.

[quote]theBeth wrote:
I don’t share the virulent abhorrence of ass tattoos being voiced here…but I do think there is something sexy about embracing what you see as physical imperfection and just leaving it alone.[/quote]

There is no abhorrence.

Horses for courses.

Damn! it’s her ass. if she wants a tat and you don’t like it carry your sorry self down the road cause you’re not worthy of her anyway. it’s like my friend’s shirt says "GOD loves me AND my tattoos!

[quote]silverblood wrote:
Damn! it’s her ass. if she wants a tat and you don’t like it carry your sorry self down the road cause you’re not worthy of her anyway. it’s like my friend’s shirt says "GOD loves me AND my tattoos![/quote]

Damn! Its my money and my sanity and if I want to keep it I will take a cold hard look at any woman I am going to invest in.

If she does not like it she is not worthy of me anyway and as my friends t-shirt says “you dont like it? Suck my balls”.

[quote]anonym wrote:

Umm, I’m gonna go ahead and suggest lopping it off.

No, I would not like it. One bit. While in a vacuum it’s not something I would consider to be a deal-breaker, I’d most certainly classify it as “something I tolerate (i.e., repress any knowledge of)” and would thoroughly expect it to manifest as yet another reason to break up if the relationship starts going south.

And it’s certainly not an endearing imperfection that would make me love someone more for being “more real” – that’s what catching your SO farting in their sleep, waking up with eye boogers or shitting all over the bed after anal is for.

I’ve seen a TON of moles I’ve considered off-putting (and not a single one I’ve considered “attractive”… but I’ve never seen a scar that grossed me out.

If you hate it and it makes you self-conscious, get rid of it and rock the scar like a champ.[/quote]

Ummm, yea. Totally agree here.

Take it from someone who has had a couple of unsightly moles removed form his chest…I feel so much better for it and the scars are hardly as noticeable.

Clearly this has made you self-conscious, OP, and it’s not something that’s hard to fix.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]silverblood wrote:
Damn! it’s her ass. if she wants a tat and you don’t like it carry your sorry self down the road cause you’re not worthy of her anyway. it’s like my friend’s shirt says "GOD loves me AND my tattoos![/quote]

Damn! Its my money and my sanity and if I want to keep it I will take a cold hard look at any woman I am going to invest in.

If she does not like it she is not worthy of me anyway and as my friends t-shirt says “you dont like it? Suck my balls”.[/quote]

take a look but if you only judge by the tat you can’t see past your balls.

[quote]silverblood wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]silverblood wrote:
Damn! it’s her ass. if she wants a tat and you don’t like it carry your sorry self down the road cause you’re not worthy of her anyway. it’s like my friend’s shirt says "GOD loves me AND my tattoos![/quote]

Damn! Its my money and my sanity and if I want to keep it I will take a cold hard look at any woman I am going to invest in.

If she does not like it she is not worthy of me anyway and as my friends t-shirt says “you dont like it? Suck my balls”.[/quote]

take a look but if you only judge by the tat you can’t see past your balls.[/quote]

I dont.

I see a lot of other things too.

I just dont agree with the " you cant judge a woman by her…" spiel…

I can.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]silverblood wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]silverblood wrote:
Damn! it’s her ass. if she wants a tat and you don’t like it carry your sorry self down the road cause you’re not worthy of her anyway. it’s like my friend’s shirt says "GOD loves me AND my tattoos![/quote]

Damn! Its my money and my sanity and if I want to keep it I will take a cold hard look at any woman I am going to invest in.

If she does not like it she is not worthy of me anyway and as my friends t-shirt says “you dont like it? Suck my balls”.[/quote]

take a look but if you only judge by the tat you can’t see past your balls.[/quote]

I dont.

I see a lot of other things too.

I just dont agree with the " you cant judge a woman by her…" spiel…

I can. [/quote]

Are you going to judge me by my tramp stamp, Orion? Does the Bible verse further up make things dichotomous or just classy trash?

[quote]theBeth wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]silverblood wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]silverblood wrote:
Damn! it’s her ass. if she wants a tat and you don’t like it carry your sorry self down the road cause you’re not worthy of her anyway. it’s like my friend’s shirt says "GOD loves me AND my tattoos![/quote]

Damn! Its my money and my sanity and if I want to keep it I will take a cold hard look at any woman I am going to invest in.

If she does not like it she is not worthy of me anyway and as my friends t-shirt says “you dont like it? Suck my balls”.[/quote]

take a look but if you only judge by the tat you can’t see past your balls.[/quote]

I dont.

I see a lot of other things too.

I just dont agree with the " you cant judge a woman by her…" spiel…

I can. [/quote]

Are you going to judge me by my tramp stamp, Orion? Does the Bible verse further up make things dichotomous or just classy trash? [/quote]

By your tramp stamp alone, no.

If it is part of a larger picture, hell, yes!

Also, it would depend what you actually would want out of me.

Horses for courses, as I posted.

Count me as one who would not care one bit, provided there are no large black hairs sprouting out of it. Those should be tweezed if they exist.

I do agree about some moles on the face. Sometimes, depending on the placement, shape or size, they can be either highly unattractive or they can add sexiness. I’ve got a neighbor who has a couple of projectile moles on her chin that are highly distracting when talking to her. She is otherwise super cute and would look so much better without them. The type of moles she’s got would hardly leave a trace if removed.

I came here ready to discuss chemistry. I am officially 6.02x10^23 times more disappointed then I ever thought I could be.

[quote]xjusticex2013x wrote:
I came here ready to discuss chemistry. I am officially 6.022x10^23 times more disappointed then I ever thought I could be.[/quote]
Had to.