You said you don’t think sex should come with responsibility on people yet others should be responsible for providing contraception and sex education. So either way there is responsibility on people who have sex or others who must make sure such people do not procreate unintentionally through education and technology. Sex also results in childbirth and can spread disease and has consequences on social life. So how does “no responsibility” square away?
All serious societies have regulated sex, for good reason, and of course that was woven into religion in some, but not all, cases. England, and if I recall correctly, pagan Germanic societies had legalized revenge killing for male home wreckers. I highly doubt that had anything to do with gods, but rather defending families and keeping social order.
And yes, the “double standard” was always pushed on women, for good reason.
In the bad old days, a man would approach one’s daughter or wife with serious risk. Now daughters “own their sexuality,” which really means they can screw whoever they want and introduce men into family bloodlines no matter how poor of a fit such men and their families might be for others.
Post-America is a goofball country and matriarchy by proxy. So I don’t expect people to take things seriously, including sex. It is now viewed as little more than a game of hide the weenie, with disastrous results over 60 years. So anyone who thinks, “Bro, it’s just fuggin’,” has not looked into the matter. (I remember I told this to someone and he said, “Maybe you’ve never done it for pleasure. Yeah, every time tight-ass Brickie went horizontal he did so with the intention of having a kid. JFL!)
Moving on.
Fellas, imagine we devolved from the aforesaid pro-social measures for dealing with interlopers and laying down the smack on anyone who screws with our families to the current day in which some of the most “alpha”, attractive, and wealthy men are publicly punked by their women and male interlopers: Johhny Depp, Ben Affleck, Will Smith, Brad Pitt, Tom Brady and others.
Tom Brady: Wife left because he didn’t want to quit work just yet. Literal lulz.
Johnny Depp: Wife defecated on his side of the bed.
Will Smith: Wife publicly said to him she got “entangled” with another man and shows no remorse. She “wanted to feel good” (her words) during a rough time between the two. Publicly herbed by Chris Rock about this blunder.
Brad Pitt: Wife said he was a “bad influence” on kids, if I recall correctly.
We seem to take this stuff like battered dogs. A huge chunk of the US male population is suffering from mommy syndrome, more or less. Couple that little male authority all over, Is there any wonder much of Gen Z is soft?
Below: Woman in “short” publicly ridiculing on the most popular podcast her ex bore friend who flailed to the floor after getting hit in the head in the ring. She would have preferred him to give the finger after getting the daylights knocked out of him. I’m sure she knows what it’s like.
Not funny.
@anna_5588 @jshaving thanks for the posts. I will likely respond later.