Careful, you’re veering into misogynist territory there.
Yeah, kind of. But a weirdo in the good way, because the norm is fucked.
I think its uncommon for most men, particularly married men, to find women (or their spouses) worthless.
Fact is that by nature of existing, women are born with value whereas men aren’t. Sperm is cheap; eggs are expensive.
Truly, I think society - and feminists specifically - did wrong by women when they started having women be cherished for everything that wasn’t child-rearing. Its not to say that women are only useful for breeding, but that women are responsible for bringing the entire human race into life… like what the fuck else do y’all need??
Motherhood should be peak aspirations for women. The rest is just secondary.
I don’t think I can speak to this on a grander scale. Some womencan’t have children. Where does their value lie by this standard? I still think women contribute to a great extent beyond motherhood. I think they are important in many ways outside of the home. But I can say for myself motherhood is the most important thing I’ve ever done. My husband and my children are the most important parts of my life. My job is what I do to allow me to take care of my children and contribute to my home. I agree, for me, everything else is secondary.
I judge someone’s value based off of what they contribute to society.
Whether man or woman.
I believe creating a great next generation is paramount, and everything else is secondary.
So if one cannot, or does not, produce another generation - I hope they choose to contribute to society in other ways.
Many don’t, and so long as they aren’t a draw on society - they’re fine by me.
But those that actively take from society and do not contribute - I have no respect for such people.
Same goes for anyone creating offspring that will be a net negative to society. We have enough ‘eaters’ in this country.
To be fair, that all came from a woman who had the benefit of aquiring a college education, lives a comfortable middle class lifestyle, works at a job that she enjoys, has two wonderful children, and has a stable marriage to a kind, compassionate and hardworking man. It’s hard to be bitter or complain when you have that many advantages.
This has been an exceptional conversation. I love anything that helps me to bring into focus all the things that I have to be grateful for. Thank you for that.
See @Andrewgen_Receptors . I can be grateful.
This may be the case for you and some other women out there, but you lot are the exception.
This is simply not enough for the average woman in the US.
I blame part of this on social media exposure, and part of it on an ingrained behavior that most women seem to exhibit.
Adam and Eve were in literal paradise without a care or worry in the world. The only rule they had was “don’t eat the apple” and that just wasn’t enough for Eve.
Theres another story of women shopping in the Husband department store that mimics this same behavior. They start shopping on the ground floor. Every floor they go up has higher quality husbands, until they hit the last floor which inhabits 0 husbands and 3+ million women looking for just a little bit more.
Its not common for a woman to be happy/content/grateful for what she has. Today, that behavior less common than it ever has been before.
I like when they henpeck the husband into “cutting down that goddamn tree”. He doesnt know what he’s doing, but its man shit and he’s supposed to be a man.
So off he goes, and ends up opening up his femoral artery or parting his corpus callosum.
Now the rich widow still needs that damn tree cut down. Even moreso now that looking at it triggers memories of her former husband pumping his lifes essence (no, the red stuff) out all over the yard, or convulsing in a spray of brain goo, spastically gripping the throttle of the chainsaw as it flings his vitals into the azaleas.
Thats where me & the boys come in. Real men who know how to make her forget all about that nerd and his external ovaries.
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