I think we all been around not-so-nice women before. I sure have ranging from the stereotypical in high school and clique-y sorority girls in undergrad and grad school. I’ve also been through really bad dry spells in these periods too. But I’ve also had respectful women around me, and also around men who respect women.
Incels fall into the trap that they do because they don’t have the latter - just an echo chamber of themselves. That’s what I think separates you from GB. And considering that you’re happily married with kids, you’re far from “inceldom”
However, what was concerning for me was that you posted a video of an Alt-Right guy talking about his perspective of Incels and name-dropped him like he was an expert, and then claimed that you had no idea he was an alt-right guy.
I’m pretty sure that’s what people were referring to when they called you a misogynist.