What is intolerant and “phobic” are those who are afraid of the decisions of liked-minded people as myself, who can see this nonsense for a silly choice and whose decisions rest on basic biology and 4,000 years of Judaeo-Christian teachings.
Oh Jewbacca my well learned friend…if only it where a choice…sigh.
AT what point in your developement did you decide to be “straight”?
As the only known transgender/genderfluid person that is out and about on this site, I will finally chime in.
I, like many other non-straight people out there knew at an early age we where and are different.
It may have been playing with the girls instead of the boys. It may have been something as simple as a fascination with the clothing.
It may have been watching the 1976 Olympics and Nadia, wondering why I would not be growing up to be a beautiful female gymnast.
In 8th grade, I watched Ms. X (same age) walk into science class with a pair of beautiful breasts she seemingly had grown over the summer.
The boys where goo-goo over it, but my reaction was one of …sigh, I hopefully will have a body that beautiful one day.
We do not fully understand the complex nature of the genes involved, nor how gene expression works and transfers as everyone starts as having two X (female) chromosomes which one then converts over to a Y chromosome.
If you where to follow a philisophy such as Taoism (which I do), you understand that by nature there is a Yin and a Yang, and within both is the seed of the other. Similar to what you find in the human body. A male not only has a large amount of Test, but also a small amount of estrogen as well. A female then has the Estrogen/progesterone as dominant, with a small amount of test.
I bring this up because as a general overview, there is a larger amount of male to female (XY back to XX) transformations, then there are female to male (XX to XY) transformations. So the underlying thought is that there is a disproportionately larger amount of the “other” hormone within the base hormone that could cause the person to have the feelings that they do.
In a lot of instances, using the Yin/ Yang dicotomy…at a certain point you have Maximum density which at a certain point converts back over to the minimum of the other. Think of the cycle of the moon. Once it hits Full, it has no choice but to convert over towards new moon status.
What I am getting at is a lot of males will over-compensate for the feelings they have internally. They will do this by becoming Hypersexual, Strong(er), Bigger and try to be Tough(er). They do not want to be perceived as frail, meek, wierd…an outsider et al.
While overcompensating, they/we/I actually diminish our self worth. We have that public narrative about the fagman, lesbo et al not being as apt to provide in society as well as the straight community does.
This has hurt society through history. It is a known fact that both Leonardo and Michealangeolo where homosexual. Think what the world would have lost had these two not existed. Hell, Jesus surrounded himself with long haired hippy gypsies for fucks sake.
Also, there is a difference between what you perceive in the head as far as your body and your sexuality. While for the most part, possibly like Janae I enjoy the fruits of my physical labor… I too feel like I am in the “wrong” body. This is known as body dysphoria. What you live in and perceive is not what you feel you should be in. I hope that she will chime in here at some point.
As far as my sexuality goes… I have had relations with both sexes ( being polite here) and have enjoyed the experience with both. I am attracted to a certain “energy” not a specific gender. I do have a specific body type that I am attracted to, such as Dana Lynn Bailey. If i happen to come across a male with that same body build, then yes i would be attracted to it.
But like many things it still goes much deeper than that…
Also, I am really surprised at how civil this entire thread has been.
Is it because this is “KROC” that we are talking about, and not some “trailer trash” Jerry Springer kid ? maybe, but I would hope not.
Is it because we now have 2 people of prominence in our little world that we are aware of who are out and about ? i would hope not.
Please, feel free to ASK QUESTIONS and I will do my best from My Perspective to answer them. Brutal honesty seems to be my hallmark.
Remember though that this is My life Experience and Perspective. Yours will differ based upon Religious upbringing, Scientific backround,
personal experience and so many other factors…
I do believe that we are a little less bigoted than we have been. I cannot believe for the second time in a week I am agreeing with Beans, but stranger things have been known to happen.
anyway…
lets see where this thread continues on to . … …