[quote]AdamC wrote:
No don’t worry i’m not looking for one!
Is anyone here a male escort, or know one or ever considered being one?
I once worked with a guy for a short time who was doing it on the side and SAID he was making good money. He wasn’t a particularly good looking or charming man.
I also met a Swedish guy on my travels who was doing massage and making great money. He was working out of a room in a backpacker hostel near a lot of office blocks. Women were queuing up for 15 minutes of his time on lunch breaks. He didn’t even know how to give a good massage as such…not that he gave me one! I mean he wasn’t qualified. Of course the fact that he was a swedish model might have had something to do with the demand for his services!
I’m a bit strapped for cash at the moment and can’t seem to find a well paid job. I think it might be fun to try it. I mean, how bad can it be to be paid for your company? What do you reckon?[/quote]
Ha, I love this question.
Not so long ago, a friend of mine asked me what I thought about the whole thing of being a male escort, and having sex with several different women. Now, he’d been asked this by another guy, who’d been doing the job for some time and wanted someone else to accompany him in case of trouble, with money, other men, etcetera.
He brought me into contact with this guy(since I also found this very interesting - that didn’t meant I was going to do it, but I wanted to know more), and he explained to me the following :
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He made 150 euros(or dollars, same thing)the first hour, and 100 hour the second.
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On average, his clients were around 42-45, but he said he’d gone up to over 60, on one condition … :
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That he chose his own customers. Of course, he HAD to. If he couldn’t “perform his job”, he couldn’t get paid, so the woman had to be at least somewhat attractive.
(he also said when he was on steroids none of this was a physical problem)
When asked how he did this, he said “after they open the door I tell if it’s going to work or not”.
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Most of the clients he had were brought to him by mouth-to-mouth advertising.
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There are more guys doing it than we know, at least here(Belgium), but presumably this applies to most places. He named a few guys and I was very suprised to hear that I knew a few, some which I have trained with.
He kept this secret to most people, since he wanted to have a clear name. You couldn’t tell this by any way of seeing him either, at least I couldn’t.
He was just some guy, not particularly handsome or ugly or well-dressed, but he said he puts on more of a show for the job.
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Here’s where I found it TREMENDOUSLY interesting, don’t know about you : some women don’t want to meet up for sex at all, they just call him for a good conversation, and perhaps they cook him food and tell him all their secrets. For the same price, of course.
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The ugly part : he was “pimped” on a few forums, and had to go sell himself in pair-clubs and brothels.
Now, on his lucky days, prostitutes from female brothels called him to be spoiled themselves. These women were of course usually good-looking and experienced themselves.
He told me a lot of more stuff of that world as well.
Of course there’s also the moral dilemma, and whether or not you know it, but you do start feeling somewhat like a whore.
Also, it really influences your communication with women if you’re constantly trying to sell yourself(to older women, that is), and this I assume is a really, really hard part.
Anyway, it is good money, and setting up one or 2 nights a week for “company”, whether or not with sex, is a good deal if you can choose your own clients and not be morally shaken.
