[quote]Apoklyps wrote:
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If you don’t believe it, that’s fine. TBH, I probably wouldn’t have believed it a couple of years ago. This kind of situation is the type that’s a more recent development for me, so it’s not one I’m all that used to having yet.
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I think you missed the thrust of what I was saying: not that I don’t believe you, but instead wondering what the motivation is on their end and speculating that Daddy Moneybanks for each of them is probably not too happy, and that it’s that sort of “rebellion” thing. So I actually think it’s entirely plausible that you’re not getting played.
[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
Go with the one that likes anal, not the one who just does it cuz you want to. I made that mistake years ago and regret it every day.[/quote]
This just might be the best advice ever given on any subject in the history of the interwebz, ever.
[quote]jasmincar wrote:
As if this thread is really for you to get advice from people on the internet who don’t know you or your life . It’s just you trying to get your weekly ego boost from the internet. You are kinda like Blubber, whose posts are actually only indirect ways of affirming that he is big or that he is rich.
GTFO with this I’m a trophy BF, I am this and that blablabla.[/quote]
Yeah I pretty much thought the same thing reading this. How is any of this a problem. Oh no! Two incredible choices! What to do…
Seriously though OP, there is an easy fix to this: start being real around girl number 1 and see if she likes you for who you really are. She might drop her own masks or she might dump you. Either way you will know and you owe it to her to try if she’s been this good to you so far. Then if you’re still not feeling it, move the fuck on. And next time just be who you are upfront and avoid this whole charade. Women will always find out the true you eventually. They are absolute masters at that, for sure…
[quote]MinusTheColon wrote:
I guess that the part of this doesn’t pass the smell test to me is that there are these two attractive and wealthy women who are both super-into a tatted-up, gym-rat student. That, and that the type of person in this situation isn’t the type to post on an anonymous forum to get advice.
The only explanation I can think of is that both are rebelling from their parents? I sorta wonder how the OP gets along with Momma and Poppa RichGirl1.[/quote]
If you don’t believe it, that’s fine. TBH, I probably wouldn’t have believed it a couple of years ago. This kind of situation is the type that’s a more recent development for me, so it’s not one I’m all that used to having yet.
As for all the guys who think I might be getting played by #2:
I wouldn’t necessarily disagree. Maybe she is and maybe she isn’t. But that’s not the reason why I came to the decision I made. I don’t think it’s right to waste the time of an awesome gal when I’m just not feeling it (and haven’t really ever). Perhaps based on your experiences, it’s a stupid decision. That’s not an unreasonable conclusion. If I come to regret it, I see it as a learning opportunity for next time. I’m not afraid to be single again, as I know there will be plenty more opportunities in the future to do things right. Thanks for your insight.[/quote]
Generally speaking, I feel like as long as you’re not in denial about anything and recognize the risks and pros and cons, then you can decide what’s best for you. It seems like you’ve gotten enough feedback to see the situation from all the angles you need to see it from.
And you’re right, there’ll be more if you don’t end up with one of these 2. I’d always urge anyone to make decisions with this in mind, especially when you’re still pretty young.
