Looking for Advice - False Rape Accusation

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

You take 1 or 2 precautions and your chances of being falsely accused plummet. [/quote]

like what?[/quote]

some folks might not like the answers, but…

  1. Avoid 1 night stands with questionable people or while intoxicated.

  2. Avoid casual sex with women you meet on tinder or some guys party or Craiglist or adult friend finder… (I think you get the idea)

3.) Novel concept, know the girl for more than a hour before fucking.

I’m sure they’re others, but I’m only posting because the Raiders game is interesting.

They just won actually!

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what about the case of William mcaffery who was ‘convicted’ and sentenced to 20 years even though he didn’t even touch the girl?[/quote]

What about the case of OJ Simpson who murdered his wife and got away with it?

I’m not familiar with William McCaffrey’s case. I assume this is what you’re talking about? William McCaffrey sues New York City for $30m over false rape claim | Daily Mail Online

It looks like he got screwed over by some cunt and the criminal justice system. I hope he gets (if he hasn’t already) the $30MM in damages he’s suing for.

It’s interesting you picked this case; however, because it opens a hole in your premise that a false accusation carries no penalty:

“Peguero, 28, of Union City, New Jersey, was sentenced last year to up to three years in prison after pleading guilty to perjury for framing McCaffrey.”

I was traveling for two weeks and haven’t been on TNation in that time. This is one of the first forum posts I browsed.

Oops.

Years ago, a friend of mine was accused of sexually assaulting his live-in nanny while his wife was out of town on a business trip. He refused to say anything to the police, was arrested and this was duly reported in the local paper. Several months later, the nanny admitted that she had made up the charges as a way to get money from my friend.

I’m not sure if she was ever charged with anything, but the charges against my friend were dropped. At that point, though, my friend was already out several thousand dollars in legal fees and his reputation was trashed in the community. He and his wife took new jobs in another state shortly afterwards.

While many of us may have anecdotal stories like this, I don’t think it really says anything about the prevalence of the problem of false rape accusations. I also think that, as others have said, a bit of common sense could have prevented most of the problems you hear about.

In my friend’s case, he got the nanny through an agency that places recent high school graduates from small towns with families in other parts of the country. It’s a good deal financially for people with two or more kids, but you don’t really know who you’re bringing in to live in your house. In addition, most families don’t have separate living accommodations for the nanny, so the nanny ends up sleeping in a guest bedroom and sharing the same bathroom (this was the case with my friend).

I know other people who have hired nannies this way, and they said it was like having a teenage daughter in the house. In my friend’s case, he was also a pretty eccentric guy, and he compounded the problem by talking to the nanny about her boyfriends and sex.

The common sense recommendations by usmccds423 for single guys are pretty good, and should prevent 99% of the problems that could occur. I would add the following for married men with young children:

  • Do not hire a live-in nanny unless you can afford a professional and have separate living accommodations for her.

  • Do not hire teenage babysitters through the internet.

  • Have your wife present on all playdates with your kidâ??s friends (kids learn about inappropriate touching in school and some have active imnaginations).

In any event, if someone is so afraid of a false rape accusation that he avoids all social contact with women, then he needs professional help. I keep thinking of RP McMurphy’s line to Billy Bibbitt in One Flew Over the Cuckooâ??s Nest: “You should be out in a convertible bird dogging chicks and banging beaver”.

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

You take 1 or 2 precautions and your chances of being falsely accused plummet. [/quote]

like what?[/quote]

some folks might not like the answers, but…

  1. Avoid 1 night stands with questionable people or while intoxicated.

  2. Avoid casual sex with women you meet on tinder or some guys party or Craiglist or adult friend finder… (I think you get the idea)

3.) Novel concept, know the girl for more than a hour before fucking.

I’m sure they’re others, but I’m only posting because the Raiders game is interesting.

They just won actually!

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what about the case of William mcaffery who was ‘convicted’ and sentenced to 20 years even though he didn’t even touch the girl?[/quote]

What about the case of OJ Simpson who murdered his wife and got away with it?

I’m not familiar with William McCaffrey’s case. I assume this is what you’re talking about? William McCaffrey sues New York City for $30m over false rape claim | Daily Mail Online

It looks like he got screwed over by some cunt and the criminal justice system. I hope he gets (if he hasn’t already) the $30MM in damages he’s suing for.

It’s interesting you picked this case; however, because it opens a hole in your premise that a false accusation carries no penalty:

“Peguero, 28, of Union City, New Jersey, was sentenced last year to up to three years in prison after pleading guilty to perjury for framing McCaffrey.”

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‘up to three years’… she’ll likely be out in a number of months after spending time in woman’s prison, which is not nearly as bad as men’s prison.

and there is actually widespread speculation about the O.J. case. a lot of people actually believe that it was his son who dun it

[quote]OldFatGuy2 wrote:
In any event, if someone is so afraid of a false rape accusation that he avoids all social contact with women, then he needs professional help.
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indeed. I don’t know where anyone got the idea that this is what I was doing… i suppose completely misrepresenting my stance makes it far easier to refute.

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
i suppose completely misrepresenting my stance makes it far easier to refute. [/quote]

But if your stance is to be afraid of women… well, you’re really missing out on some wonderful stuff.

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
‘up to three years’… she’ll likely be out in a number of months after spending time in woman’s prison, which is not nearly as bad as men’s prison. [/quote]

At which point she will have all of about zero opportunities in life because of her stupidity.

I’m pretty sure prison sucks, period.

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and there is actually widespread speculation about the O.J. case. a lot of people actually believe that it was his son who dun it[/quote]

A lot of people think former President Bush ordered the 9/11 attacks too…

How about Rhiannon Brookers, Walkway? I see you didn’t comment on her 3 1/2 year sentence.

Look, the point is- False accusations are common. Too damned common.

That’s why are there entire organizations DEDICATED to getting falsely imprisoned people out of jail.

What I want to know is, what makes you think false rape accusation is a special butterfly?

And, you know this, how?

[quote]Stinkfist wrote:

And, you know this, how?[/quote]

Orange is the new black, dawg. Everyone’s watching it man!

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]OldFatGuy2 wrote:
In any event, if someone is so afraid of a false rape accusation that he avoids all social contact with women, then he needs professional help.
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indeed. I don’t know where anyone got the idea that this is what I was doing… i suppose completely misrepresenting my stance makes it far easier to refute. [/quote]

Well, you wrote in your original post that you are a virgin. In a subsequent post you wrote that you live in fear of women. Isn’t it logical to assume that you’re avoiding any kind of social involvement with women that might lead to a sexual encounter? If that’s not the case, then why don’t you clarify what your stance is?

Of course, your original post has already been shown to be a lie, so maybe everything you’ve written here is a lie as well.

[quote]magick wrote:
Look, the point is- False accusations are common. Too damned common.

That’s why are there entire organizations DEDICATED to getting falsely imprisoned people out of jail.

What I want to know is, what makes you think false rape accusation is a special butterfly?[/quote]

Its in some of the “Going Mental” talks with Paul Elma and Dr Tara Palmatier, but he claimed that false rape convivtions are the bread and butter of such organizations.

That’s it–we should all die dickless!

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:

You take 1 or 2 precautions and your chances of being falsely accused plummet. [/quote]

like what?[/quote]

some folks might not like the answers, but…

  1. Avoid 1 night stands with questionable people or while intoxicated.

  2. Avoid casual sex with women you meet on tinder or some guys party or Craiglist or adult friend finder… (I think you get the idea)

3.) Novel concept, know the girl for more than a hour before fucking.

I’m sure they’re others, but I’m only posting because the Raiders game is interesting.

They just won actually!

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WOW

She is so ugly I can’t believe it. I would never EVER touch her, even if she was the last women on earth. Even if I was the most ugly, poor, uncharming or you name it guy on earth and she was my last option I would never consider this possibility. And she accused her BOYFRIEND of raping her to pass her exam!! For the most unhonorable and passive agressive thing people worry about. I feel like puking.

[quote]BrickHead wrote:
That’s it–we should all die dickless![/quote]

Look at this women at the top of the page! LOOK. I am completely honest when I say I would rather be dickless than be with her.

[quote]OldFatGuy2 wrote:

Well, you wrote in your original post that you are a virgin. In a subsequent post you wrote that you live in fear of women. Isn’t it logical to assume that you’re avoiding any kind of social involvement with women that might lead to a sexual encounter? If that’s not the case, then why don’t you clarify what your stance is?

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I am a virgin yes, but it’s not for fear of a false rape accusation, though the more research I do, the more I become afraid of it lol…

I fear the power that society has given to them, specifically the ability to claim any man has raped them, and the likelihood that that man will spend years in prison despite a complete lack of evidence.

women are being brainwashed into believing that they are helpless victims, and all men are out to rape them, hence the prevalence of the asinine claim that 1 in 5 women will be raped/sexually assaulted while in college. women believe this shit, and adjust their behavior accordingly.

also, women can name any man the father of their child, and that man then bears the responsibility of proving that he is not. If he fails to do so in time (if he never receives the notice), he is on the hook for child support. (see paternity fraud). over 150,000 men in texas are being forced to pay child support for children who have been biologically proven to not be there’s.

women yield tremendous power in our society. they can absolutely destroy a man’s life through many different avenues.

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

I fear the power that society has given to them, specifically the ability to claim any man has raped them,

women are being brainwashed into believing that they are helpless victims, and all men are out to rape them, hence the prevalence of the asinine claim that 1 in 5 women will be raped/sexually assaulted while in college. women believe this shit, and adjust their behavior accordingly.

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Just how many women think, behave, and desire to do this sort of shit?

And although I am certainly not pro-feminist, I am also not naive to the fact that men have sexually and morally degenerated over time. The things that I WITNESSED, EXPERIENCED, and heard of in my high school years were abominable, and I lay full or partial or associated blame on friends, parents, the media, and actually, YES, in some cases, some stupid women as well.

We’re talking about fourteen to sixteen year old women blowing or screwing three to seven (maybe ten, I don’t recall some situations accurately) separately or in a group in one night. Throw alcohol and drugs into this mix and one can see how god damned dangerous these types of situations can be for all involved: parents, onlookers present, people in the homes that don’t even know what’s going on behind closed doors.

One night, when we are at the home of a particular loser that I naively befriended in high school, someone who I thought was “cool”, there were several teenaged men and one fourteen year old whore present (at least someone who lived like a whore, though not for monetary, but social, gain) doing her weekend thing for the loser who was her “boyfriend” and all his friends present. I didn’t take part.

Instead, I remained calm, and offered to drive her home at the end of the night though the other scumbags presents had no idea of my intention during that ride. During the ride, I lost my temper, and asked this girl, “What the fuck is wrong with you?!” (Keep in mind I was only seventeen at the time but I had this underdeveloped moral compass in my head telling me that this whole scenario was fucking insane!) The girl burst out in tears, and I can’t recall exactly what was said, but she did say that what she was doing wrong.

The girl never was in the company of this miserable group but its member wound up being infuriated with ME because I supposedly ruined their chance of ever getting a perverted romp with this pathetic girl again. This shows the extreme objectification and sinister ways of these boys who viewed this girl as nothing but a fuck toy regardless of the emotional damage and psychological manipulation they inflicted on her and the possible ramifications of parents, and possibly, the police, finding out. Or possibly a disgruntled brother, cousin, or father who would have loved nothing better than to cave their heads in.

I bumped into this woman three years later and she told me she had to seek psychotherapy because of the emotional trauma induced on her.

Take a look at some of the pro-trolling or “prank” videos on You Tube, in which some filthy men flirt with women while their men are present (and interestingly enough it usually men who appear cordial and harmless), flat out ask women for sex (how this is not considered harassment is beyond me), call ordinary women hookers, ask women if they want to see their genitalia, strip naked in front of women, and even uninvitingly put their hands on women. Some troller on there even goes further with his antics after being told by women they are taken and have husbands (luck he is that they are not nearby during his pranks).

I can go further, a lot further, but the point is that for every scheming female crying rape falsely, there is one disgusting man that would love nothing better than to actually disrespect, manipulate, or actually rape a woman.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]magick wrote:
Look, the point is- False accusations are common. Too damned common.

That’s why are there entire organizations DEDICATED to getting falsely imprisoned people out of jail.

What I want to know is, what makes you think false rape accusation is a special butterfly?[/quote]

Its in some of the “Going Mental” talks with Paul Elma and Dr Tara Palmatier, but he claimed that false rape convivtions are the bread and butter of such organizations. [/quote]

Really?