[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]furo wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
I’m now officially in my 30s.[/quote]
Congrats on making it! You don’t sound enthusiastic and I’m sure it must be a bit stressful, hitting that milestone, but some people don’t hit it so I guess that’s a plus lol.
How are you feeling about it? Has it made you rethink anything about the direction of your life? Any revelations? Anything bothering you?
What did you do to celebrate?
And, of course, belated happy birthday![/quote]
Thanks.
My parents and my sister, her husband, niece and nephew met me in Chicago for the weekend. We went to the Field museum for awhile, then had a small birthday celebration and dinner. I spent more time with the kids the next day, but most of that was in the hotel or in the trains, since it was too rainy and stormy to go anywhere.
After they left – and because there was still a high winds warning in effect – I parked and wandered around Magnificent Mile, had a great cup of coffee at some place, and spent the rest of the afternoon evening hanging out at some nice artisan cocktail bar where the bartender/owner was just showing off and sharing things with us. It was a nice quiet intimate evening with just a couple people and the bartender.
I enjoyed that a lot, just as I enjoy anyone who’s talented at something and likes to share it with people.
My girlfriend and I will be celebrating our respective birthdays when I visit her in January. Hers is in December.
Overall though, there’s a lot of mixed feelings. I’m actually feeling pretty down. I did some research and I guess this is pretty normal, and a lot of the things I’m feeling are on several lists out there. There’s the feeling that “I thought I’d have done more by now”, mixed with “now I have to be serious and settle down”, mixed with regret about some things I wish I’d done. Really it’s a lot of negative self-judgment about things, and I’m not quite sure why. Being aware of it doesn’t mean it’s easy to stop doing though.
On the other hand, I am finding some of the truisms out there to actually be true, like how you don’t really regret the things you did, just the things you didn’t do.
But overall I’m still feeling down. Too tired to train today, but that has more to do with the 3 hour drive home late last night.[/quote]
Sorry to hear you are having a tough time with it. I have no experience of anything like that, so I can’t really offer you advice, though I’m sure it’s something that will get better with time as you get used to the idea. There are plenty more such milestones ahead!
Good luck.