[quote]Schwarzfahrer wrote:
Enjoy it while you can, religion will surely take it away in a couple of decades, just like they did in Europe and the US.
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I don’t know about that.
I was raised strictly Catholic and it did regulate some women ( not the men ) with the sexual appetite back then.
From what I understand now, it is pretty much the opposite of what you are saying.
I am under the impression religion has had no hold on the Brazilian population, but I could be wrong.
[quote]Alpha F wrote:
LOL at Cortes showing up with the eye candy shop!
Awesome, my brother.[/quote]
Heh. Push sounded sad. What was I supposed to do?
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Nutso wrote:
And that’s not good?
I think I’m beginning to understand where you’re coming from but can you clarify more?[/quote]
If not, there must be a way to use this to your advantage, the sheer balls that a deaf guy would hit on them…
If you carried an IPad around you could hit on girls and you could work magic with it, insert pictures and whatnot and the best thing would be they would necessarily would have to become part of your world, if only because of the unusual form of communication.
Also, if you have a pause before you react, you are less likely to come up with something stupid.
This could so totally work…
Get a tablet PC ----> learn to type fast----> pull entertaining pics and gifs from the series of tubes ----> Learn to insert them lightning fast -----> play that thing like a piano ----> after some ugly crashes get laid a lot ------> post success story on Roosh V or SoSuave ----> BECOME A LEGEND !!!
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That is… Pretty awesome actually. If I ever find myself through some unforeseen series of unfortunate events both single and deaf, I am so utterly doing this.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]batman730 wrote:
It cannot be a trick that you put into effect when you are trying to date someone you like. It is simply a way of being that, in my experience at least, is hard won by inches over years of learning to see what is, hold to your centre and let go of the rest, in real time. It requires a significant amount of courage, honesty and, in my case, failure and disappointment to get to square zero. It’s not something you can “do” on Saturday because you met a girl you’re into on Wednesday. It’s something you need to live and breathe regardless of whether anyone’s watching. Even then you can only create a mental environment where incremental change can take place but you can’t really cause it to happen. I make my position on this as clear as I know how to back on page 6.
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Wow, somebody else that gets it.
Again, my compliments to you, sir.[/quote]
Appreciated and likewise.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
I’m dying here. I mean I’m absolutely dying. Do you people realize that Japan and Brazil are at opposite ends of the earth and how much I hate to fly?
But I gotta go anyway.[/quote]
A couple of those lovelies that I was talking about are going back to Brazil for the holidays.
It’s unreal how long their trip is.
And this is from someone for whom it takes 24 hours to get home.[/quote]
Well let me know if they need any sort of further assistance over here… I mean, who knows…
[quote]Chushin wrote:
And your motive would be? :-)[/quote]
Do I really need one?
[quote]batman730 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Nutso wrote:
And that’s not good?
I think I’m beginning to understand where you’re coming from but can you clarify more?[/quote]
If not, there must be a way to use this to your advantage, the sheer balls that a deaf guy would hit on them…
If you carried an IPad around you could hit on girls and you could work magic with it, insert pictures and whatnot and the best thing would be they would necessarily would have to become part of your world, if only because of the unusual form of communication.
Also, if you have a pause before you react, you are less likely to come up with something stupid.
This could so totally work…
Get a tablet PC ----> learn to type fast----> pull entertaining pics and gifs from the series of tubes ----> Learn to insert them lightning fast -----> play that thing like a piano ----> after some ugly crashes get laid a lot ------> post success story on Roosh V or SoSuave ----> BECOME A LEGEND !!!
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That is… Pretty awesome actually. If I ever find myself through some unforeseen series of unfortunate events both single and deaf, I am so utterly doing this.[/quote]
I play rugby with some deaf guys, and when we go out they can often kill it with the ladies. A pretty common way for them to communicate with non-signing hearing people is to write messages in text on their phone screen and pass the phone back and forth.
I know one guy who has an interesting move where he’ll go up to a guy and a girl at the bar and give his phone to the guy. While the guy is busy typing out a message or whatever, my buddy will start hitting on the girl. That strategy cracks me up.
[quote]timbofirstblood wrote:
[quote]batman730 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Nutso wrote:
And that’s not good?
I think I’m beginning to understand where you’re coming from but can you clarify more?[/quote]
If not, there must be a way to use this to your advantage, the sheer balls that a deaf guy would hit on them…
If you carried an IPad around you could hit on girls and you could work magic with it, insert pictures and whatnot and the best thing would be they would necessarily would have to become part of your world, if only because of the unusual form of communication.
Also, if you have a pause before you react, you are less likely to come up with something stupid.
This could so totally work…
Get a tablet PC ----> learn to type fast----> pull entertaining pics and gifs from the series of tubes ----> Learn to insert them lightning fast -----> play that thing like a piano ----> after some ugly crashes get laid a lot ------> post success story on Roosh V or SoSuave ----> BECOME A LEGEND !!!
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That is… Pretty awesome actually. If I ever find myself through some unforeseen series of unfortunate events both single and deaf, I am so utterly doing this.[/quote]
I play rugby with some deaf guys, and when we go out they can often kill it with the ladies. A pretty common way for them to communicate with non-signing hearing people is to write messages in text on their phone screen and pass the phone back and forth.
I know one guy who has an interesting move where he’ll go up to a guy and a girl at the bar and give his phone to the guy. While the guy is busy typing out a message or whatever, my buddy will start hitting on the girl. That strategy cracks me up.[/quote]
Well, I’ll have to step up now and do this approach. Really got nothing to lose.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[…] I assume you have SOME motive, be it to meet hot women or just to be a nice person to others.[/quote]
Don’t we all? lol
Are they really brazilians or are they just spending some time here?
[quote]Brant2 wrote:
The good point about getting an educated chick is that they’re quite hard to come across here, and they tend to be great women as a whole and turn out to be great partners when times get tough.
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Chushin,
I am not saying you should trust Brant2 because I don’t know him, but I was impressed he could recognize this and I assume he will therefore be in a position to appreciate a quality women.
That and the fact he said he was tired of the “sex-bullshit” comment probably indicates he doesn’t just want to get into their pants.
Based on those two solid facts, I think you should consider giving him your friends phone number.
Slight topic change.
There’s actually a lot of information out there on how to go from meeting a girl cold, to getting her in bed.
There’s some information out there on how to go from meeting a girl cold, to actually starting a LTR.
There’s even some information on how to get out of the friendzone.
However… there seems to be almost nothing on how to build an emotionally intimate relationship, without being friendzoned. Keeping the sexual tension stoked while also building trust and a sense of comfort between the two of you.
I’m surprised that I can’t really find any information on how to do that. I’ve been fairly successful at doing that on many occasions, but I certainly can’t be the only one.
(Sometimes that’s backfired though, when the girl’s in a relationship and she realizes she’s missing major emotional components. Not that she left to be with me, but I know one girl annulled her marriage after a few conversations with me, another two or three left multi-year LTRs, and one got divorced. I’m not happy or proud of any of that. I just enjoyed their company.)
It’s almost like a lot of the information out there completely neglects actual, genuine, emotional attraction. How to build that, how to maintain that… and how to do it without getting friendzoned.
Anyone else have experience with this? or seen where anyone’s talked about it?
[quote]LoRez wrote:
Slight topic change.
There’s actually a lot of information out there on how to go from meeting a girl cold, to getting her in bed.
There’s some information out there on how to go from meeting a girl cold, to actually starting a LTR.
There’s even some information on how to get out of the friendzone.
However… there seems to be almost nothing on how to build an emotionally intimate relationship, without being friendzoned. Keeping the sexual tension stoked while also building trust and a sense of comfort between the two of you.
I’m surprised that I can’t really find any information on how to do that. I’ve been fairly successful at doing that on many occasions, but I certainly can’t be the only one.
(Sometimes that’s backfired though, when the girl’s in a relationship and she realizes she’s missing major emotional components. Not that she left to be with me, but I know one girl annulled her marriage after a few conversations with me, another two or three left multi-year LTRs, and one got divorced. I’m not happy or proud of any of that. I just enjoyed their company.)
It’s almost like a lot of the information out there completely neglects actual, genuine, emotional attraction. How to build that, how to maintain that… and how to do it without getting friendzoned.
Anyone else have experience with this? or seen where anyone’s talked about it?[/quote]
Angry Chicken talked about that in a big thread in SAMA. It was very valuable and I wished I saved all his posts. I do understand where you’re coming from, and it is very frustrating. I would like to know as well.
[quote]batman730 wrote:
I brought this up in another thread tonight.
I honestly believe that genuine game in any area of life is just the happy byproduct of having reached a certain level of self actualization where you honestly know who you are and what you’re about and feel relatively secure in that. I’m not meaning to be trite or to suggest people don’t consciously try to develop life, relationship and interpersonal skills that don’t come naturally to them and simply be “themselves” however lame and ineffective that may be.
I just believe there’s a place of detachment (for lack of a better word) where you’re simply not overly emotionally invested in what other people do or think or what happens around you. This isn’t an over the top, in your face thing. You need people to like and approve of you if you hope to succeed and be happy. There’s just a place where your emotional well being is not tied up in whether this or that individual approves of (or has sex with) you. You take responsibility for yourself and your physical and emotional survival. You evaluate people (including yourself) and situations dispassionately according to your own values and instincts. You are aware of what you bring to the table, both strengths and weaknesses, and you are always actively looking to find ways to improve and bring more. Basically you own all your shit and leave others to own their’s or not.
You simply cannot fake this. You cannot read a book or go to a seminar and then just decide to do it. It takes time and discipline. A person who has had some success with this process will naturally begin to exhibit certain desirable traits and behaviours, some of which tend to be associated with game. They will be good under stress and at ease in unfamiliar or challenging situations. They will seem confident and attractive. They will be their own breed of cat, whatever that may be. These behaviours are, as I said, just a byproduct of this person’s internal way of being. If you find one of these people and try to mimic their traits and behaviours in some sort of a formulaic, paint by numbers system, you MAY become somewhat proficient with diligent practice and begin to reap some of the external rewards (i.e. getting laid).
However I think you will more likely come across as stilted and wooden and your game will likely fall apart when you’re under real stress. Worse, even if you do learn to act like you have game you will miss out on the real benefit of being a genuinely happy, effective internally motivated human being who isn’t jerked this way and that by every current of events or emotions that happen to swirl around them from moment to moment. Women will tend to find this guy attractive because he has real value. If you try to do this so women will be more attracted to you, you have completely missed the point.
TL:DR - Inner peace first, game will follow on it’s own.[/quote]
This Batman here is the real deal.
If you ever write a book, I will buy it.
[quote]Nutso wrote:
[quote]Lanfair wrote:
So you could actually get implants and hear but you don’t like noises? Wow, that’s very interesting. I’m not judging you or anything, I just never really thought about it like that. From my perspective (and I think most people’s), losing one of my senses would be debilitating, especially sight or hearing. I never really considered that to someone who is used to not having one of those senses, the sudden shock of gaining hearing or sight might be overwhelming and a nuisance.
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I could hear with my regular hearing aids although not perfect as like a hearing person. Cochlear implant would help me hear more and better. I am profoundly deaf.
It’s just that ever since I was a kid, I hated wearing hearing aids. I just never got used to all these sounds even though it plays a key role in communicating with hearing people. I just chose to stop wearing them.
Lemmie ask you this - which would you rather be: blind or deaf? ;-)[/quote]
OGMOGMGOGM! HEY I took sign language and Deaf studies in school. Not that you care really, LOL.
I almost never meet Deaf people so I don’t really get to use it all that often…
Sometimes I meet Deaf people and I get so excited to sign I get all nervous and my fingerspelling turns to shit and ya.
My fingerspelling sucks when I am not nervous actually, HMm. OH WELL.
Yayyyyyyyyyyy I am excited about this for no reason!!
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
OGMOGMGOGM! HEY I took sign language and Deaf studies in school. Not that you care really, LOL.
I almost never meet Deaf people so I don’t really get to use it all that often…
Sometimes I meet Deaf people and I get so excited to sign I get all nervous and my fingerspelling turns to shit and ya.
My fingerspelling sucks when I am not nervous actually, HMm. OH WELL.
Yayyyyyyyyyyy I am excited about this for no reason!! [/quote]
Haven’t you been reading this thread? MAINTAIN YOUR FRAME!
Haha, check your PM.
[quote]Nutso wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
OGMOGMGOGM! HEY I took sign language and Deaf studies in school. Not that you care really, LOL.
I almost never meet Deaf people so I don’t really get to use it all that often…
Sometimes I meet Deaf people and I get so excited to sign I get all nervous and my fingerspelling turns to shit and ya.
My fingerspelling sucks when I am not nervous actually, HMm. OH WELL.
Yayyyyyyyyyyy I am excited about this for no reason!! [/quote]
Haven’t you been reading this thread? MAINTAIN YOUR FRAME!
Haha, check your PM.[/quote]
No I haven’t been reading this thread because I have a really short attention span and a lot of these posts are wayyy too long, ha-ha.
ANYWAY, my PM’s don’t work for now, but now I am very curious about what your PM said. 
I’m still really excited about this!!!
Have you read When the Mind Hears?
I had to spend like 10000000000 hours answering questions about every little second of the DVD version of it.
I DID NOT COMPLAIN THOUGH! I was very grateful for all that I learned.
THe Deaf community was the greatest little world I was ever invited into sigh