Let's Talk Game w/ Women

Forgot this one:

G: My Ex had a Porsche

Me: My Ex had no gag reflex

G: O_O

Me: :slight_smile:

Yeah, that did not go over well, but at this point I no longer cared.

Point is, you can get away with the most outrageaous stuff, if you can pull her back in.

[quote]MaximusB wrote:
I am more of an observer, let someone else make the mistakes, I learn from them, I got the message and pay no price. [/quote]

What price?

She says no.

Big deal.

Edit: plus, its no fun that way.

[quote]Goodfellow wrote:

[quote]optheta wrote:
Im curious how many guys on T-Nation got Game when it comes to women? Were you a natural or did you read up on it and learn it through going out alot and getting better?

And how many of you got no game and just sort of fell into your relationship or whatever you have at the moment?

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I’ve only been single over the past couple of months (before that I was in a 5 year relationship and before that I was a shut in) but I’ve started to come to the conclusion that the more I avoid girls when I go out, the more they want to talk to me (and grope me)? I’ve LET girls give me their phone numbers over the past 3 weeks just so I don’t feel bad about completely shutting them down.

Also, is it just me or is everyone a total ho-bag and just has one-night stands every other weekend? [/quote]

You must be a brad pitt looking motherfucker, if you get numbers by ignoring them completely.

[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:
I have no ā€œgame,ā€ and never attempted to have any.

Just go with your strengths.

Of course, I have historically attracted very good looking crazy girls, so don’t listen to me.[/quote]

Most guys that get into the PUA or Game stuff are not the guys that get hit on by women usually.

The last woman you want to fuck is a slag.

Told one of them where to go tonight and the look on her face as I was with another woman was priceless.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]MaximusB wrote:
I am more of an observer, let someone else make the mistakes, I learn from them, I got the message and pay no price. [/quote]

What price?

She says no.

Big deal.

Edit: plus, its no fun that way. [/quote]

Wait til a chick tries to play you to make you jealous, or thinks you’re Capt Save-A-Hoe.

[quote]Anonymity wrote:
I have 0 natural game.

I have done the whole PUA thing though. Basically went through a several month period where I would just blatantly tell women all the dirty shit I wanted to do to them after about 10 minutes of conversation. Had an unexaggerated 100% hit rate, slept with 4 women in 5 weeks. Got 2 different women to dump their ā€œboyfriendsā€.

Got into a serious relationship with a 9/10. She ripped my heart out.

Now I’m an emotional wreck because I realize the ease it takes to fuck random women who are already in ā€œrelationshipsā€ and know it will be most likely be done to me.

Now I can’t even bring myself to sleep with women I have in the bag basically. I have passed on 3 different sure-fire one-night stands in the past couple months(they were all 6’s at best).

Emotionally fucked.

Don’t have desire for a relationship of any sort anymore.[/quote]

This is pretty sad. Some guys can get want they want pretty easily and the other one are bitter about it. I thought I was on one side and it seems I have always been on the other. I am one of those guy that can ask and get. I am not happier on this side, mainly because I have a hormone problem from space, so I don’t see the point in doing it.

I don’t think this would make me very happy in the long run if I did it and I didn’t have this problem. I could do it for my ego. I don’t think this is a good thing either because the bigger ego you have the higher you can fall from. It leads to suffering.

Anyway I don’t think doing this kind of stuff is the goal in life. It is weak and pointless. I will probably do it someday given that I am weak like everyone.

Also guys needs to look at themselves. We think it is sad that alot of womens would cheat with any douche who tell her crap on the street, but every guy has this harem desire,looks at porn and would like to have sex with any good looking woman he see.

I think the answer is to keep your seed to yourself and cultivate your sexual energy in more productive ways. Most guys have no idea how more energetic and happier they would feel if they limited their semen emission. Controlling your semen emission is what separate boys from the real mens. Has anyone ever wondered why monks are abstinent?

[quote]MaximusB wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]MaximusB wrote:
I am more of an observer, let someone else make the mistakes, I learn from them, I got the message and pay no price. [/quote]

What price?

She says no.

Big deal.

Edit: plus, its no fun that way. [/quote]

Wait til a chick tries to play you to make you jealous, or thinks you’re Capt Save-A-Hoe.
[/quote]

Lol. Funniest thing I’ve read all night.

Because I’m sure that’s never happened. Lol.

(And I’m sure it didn’t work out well for her.)

If by ā€œGameā€ you mean that I am not socially inept, have people skills and am able to start up/hold a normal conversation then yes, I have that.

I got no game, unless drunk.

All but one of my major (not many) LTRs I met online.

luckily, I am now married, don’t have to have game :wink:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Cortes wrote:
Make no mistake, looking like Gael Garcƃ??ƃ?­a Bernal will be of more service to you in picking up women than any strategy that could ever be cough cleverly marketed. If you look like more like Carlos Slim, then you’d better have his money, because no ā€œGameā€ on earth is going to help. [/quote]

Oh yes it will.

My brother is around 150 kg, also nearly 2 m tall, which helps I guess, but he pulls more women than an entire football team.

Well, almost.

If you dont believe that, if you are ever in London contact a guy named Yash (?) or Krauser PUA, you can google that and pay them to demonstrate it.

You will come out of this a changes man, your whole reality opens up when you see what actually is possible for a pudgy guy unshaved guy with a T-shirt and shoes that look like they come from a second hand store.

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You’re probably right., now that I think about it. I have lost perspective.

In Japan, having ā€œGameā€ meaning being white, male and Western. I’ve seen unfamous Danny DeVitos here walking around with 10s.

I happen to be good looking AND I have money. And Japanese girls are NOT shy about letting Western guys know how they feel about them. I go through life on a pretty much constant ego high.

*edited typo

Hmmm… Interesting topic. Game is dependent on mood for me. If I’m in the mood, things go really well, but the second I stop feeling it for whatever reason, it must show or something because women start hating me at that point. Or maybe I just become a dick lol.

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]MaximusB wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]MaximusB wrote:
I am more of an observer, let someone else make the mistakes, I learn from them, I got the message and pay no price. [/quote]

What price?

She says no.

Big deal.

Edit: plus, its no fun that way. [/quote]

Wait til a chick tries to play you to make you jealous, or thinks you’re Capt Save-A-Hoe.
[/quote]

Lol. Funniest thing I’ve read all night.

Because I’m sure that’s never happened. Lol.

(And I’m sure it didn’t work out well for her.)[/quote]

Dont get cocky, most women are better at this than we are at age 13.

<---- Serious.

You will get played, but, knowing that, you can prepare.

Humour is the key. Make her laugh, and it’s game over.

[quote]jehovasfitness wrote:
I got no game, unless drunk.

All but one of my major (not many) LTRs I met online.

luckily, I am now married, don’t have to have game ;)[/quote]

Oh yes you do, see ā€œAm I allowed to stroke it to porn threadā€.

More important than for me, because I can stand up and leave without leaving half my stuff behind.

OMG, so excited that someone wants to talk game with us women! I’ve been waiting for just this very invitation. :slight_smile:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
OMG, so excited that someone wants to talk game with us women! I’ve been waiting for just this very invitation. :)[/quote]

We’ll start talking with you, but will suddenly cease responding for 2 days before nonchalantly dropping back in like it was no big deal.

[quote]Cortes wrote:
Call me old fashioned, but i’ve always believed that if you start a relationship by deliberately manipulating your partner’s emotions and she is easily manipulable, it’s probably not a relationship worth much of a damn anyway.

I never had any problem with the tried and true method: Take pride in who you are, be confident, be genuinely interested in her, and pay attention to details. If I thought for a second she was following some formula to try and get me to react in a certain manner, I’d kick her ass to the curb forthwith. [/quote]

God yes. This, this! ^^

Same goes for women. If you have to play stupid games to get him, he is not going to be worth having. As orion points out, you will have to continue playing games into perpetuity, if you can even keep him. He is likely to wander off with the next woman who is cooly aloof but - wait, there’s the look-up-from-under-the-lashes-and-then-touch-her-hair thing! Maybe not so aloof after all! It’s dumb, yo.

[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
OMG, so excited that someone wants to talk game with us women! I’ve been waiting for just this very invitation. :)[/quote]

We’ll start talking with you, but will suddenly cease responding for 2 days before nonchalantly dropping back in like it was no big deal. [/quote]

It keeps you all on your toes and increases my allure.

Edit: and here I am agreeing with you while you’re in the middle of negging me! Next time THREE days.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
OMG, so excited that someone wants to talk game with us women! I’ve been waiting for just this very invitation. :)[/quote]

We’ll start talking with you, but will suddenly cease responding for 2 days before nonchalantly dropping back in like it was no big deal. [/quote]

It keeps you all on your toes and increases my allure.

Edit: and here I am agreeing with you while you’re in the middle of negging me! Next time THREE days.[/quote]

I got my negging out the the way in the Women’s Right to Vote thread. See, you didn’t even know I’d been gaming you this whole time. (~_~)b