[quote]Professor X wrote:
X-Factor wrote:
I’ve had black friends that I called “my nigga” before, which they did’nt give one shit about because we were tight (mostly an old best friend), as a black man, do you think it is unacceptable for me being white to do this? Or is it fine because there is no racial attatchment to it. Also why can black guys call me white boy and cracker and it’s “ok” to them.
I am often amazed at the disconnection many “non-blacks” seem to have towards issues involving race in this country. I can only imagine this exists because the experience of any racist views expressed towards non-whites is such a rare occurrence that the issue itself seems completely alien.
CULTURE is the basis for how most people treat other people when it comes to close relationships or friendships. I have white friends that I would “dap” instead of shake their hand because, one, they understand what it means, and two, they are from a similar background and wouldn’t react like some others as if they wouldn’t know how to respond to anything other than a formal handshake.
What about someone of another race using it to describe someone in a joke?
Wouldn’t that depend on the joke and the individual? If it were actually funny and not blatantly offensive, there would be no problem. Obviously, someone who is not black would have a larger hurdle to jump in terms of using a word that has such a history behind it. Again, the fact that this needs to be explained at all is what has me shaking my head.
Mine is prolly retarded, I don’t understand the whole racially motivated thing that well so i’m prolly just ignorant, just wanted your views.
Honestly, what is there to not understand?[/quote]
Well it’s not so much a lack of understanding but rather a hope to have greater understanding. Me being a white immigrant to north american probably has different views on the subject than a black “native” (i’m assuming) american. You can’t expect me to understand what I have’nt experienced and I do not think it is appropriate to pretend to understand either. I’ve had this discussion whith numerous people who were non-white that I did and did not now previously. All of which was accepted openly, there was an inital shock that I would discuss such a topic but they were generally open about it. I really think that anybody knows how they “should” react to these things, it is just one of those life challenges that is completely independant from the next person’s.
PS. And that includes whites I’ve been harassed by groups of blacks and indians and tried to be mugged, pulled a knife on. I’m not saying it WAS racially motivated, i’m just saying I was white, in a project where 98% of the people were non-white, and I was not dressed very ganster. All those things made me a target. Luckily when most people hear an irish accent you are granted some kind of immunity. Prolly because you sound kind of islander at first, and for some reasons carribeaners, and jamaicans love the irish. Maybe because we were once slaves to the english also.