I’ve been betrayed in the past and honsetly it was all I could do not to resort to violence. Having been through it just proves to me that it can be done and in the long run (longer than just the ass kicking) avoiding it is the best way to go.
why not just ask what the message on the phone was about.
it shouldn’t be that hard to tell if she was lying.
and this one’s a repeat…but if you found a place REALLY out of nowhere like you said…
- she can’t find her way out
- the guy (after she called him) can’t find him
- s/he calls the police
if you’re lucky they’ll find her, if not, you’ll have some explaining to do.
If she chooses, she can accuse you of kidnapping [a felony]. do whatever you feel you need to. sorry to hear about your situation brotha, hope everything works pout well.
peace,flash
In the voice of Tom Leykis, DUMP THAT BITCH!
After re-reading your first message, how is it you were able to survive a month without her suspecting you knew she was cheating!? I would have been so angry I couldn’t see straight.
I just got to know how this turns out. Please don’t leave us hanging very long.
Lol John K.
Yeah they were planning to get him on an epsiode of Queer Eye for the Straight Guy.
Doogie’s advice all the way. Spitting in her face before you walk away would be a nice touch too.
My 2-cents
If it were me, I’d get a picture of the “other” guy or his house/apt and make it the ‘desktop wallpaper’ for her computer. Then, I’d leave an audio message for her (do a simple recording of why you think she’s a tramp on your PC) and have the message invoked via a batch file, so just as she’s trying to figure out how the fuck her “boy toy” got onto her desktop, she’ll be listening to you breaking up with her. Remember to turn the volume way up, so everyone else hears, too!
If that’s a no go for any reason, or you need to see her expression when she realizes what the hell is happening, then just do it to your own computer, ask her to turn it on (make up a reason)
and, by all means, make it a kodak moment (or even better…digi-cam it).
This way, you can share the whole thing with your buds at T-Mag.
And yes, I work with computers and I do this sort of thing to people all the time (not for shit like this, I confess). And it carries no real drawbacks. Legal. Vengeful. Fun for the whole forum. And VERY embarassing for the tramp.
The other ideas here just carry too much risk…or make it too hard for you to go through with. Besides, she might decide to fill your next girl in on what you did, and screw you over again. So keep it simple but effective.
Either way, let us know how it all goes down, bro. My first g-friend did this shit to me, and I just stopped talking to her cold…kinda wish I’d done something to get ‘even’ but I was too devastated. Live and learn, eh?
Be pretty funny if you dump her and screw her over really good, and then come to find out later that they were planning a surprise party for you.
I’m telling you, after tell other people about my idea, we all agree that you’ve got to make yourself look like the nice guy and make her look like the bitch.
If you pull some jackass move, then nobody will feel sorry for you and they’ll all be glad she was fucking some other guy (assuming that it’s not a surprise party for you - as ironic as that could be) since you’re a prick anyway. Now, make her look like a bitch in front of her friends…ah, that’s the revenge that keeps on giving.
Here’s another fun one. Try to get some evidence of this. Get it on camera or something, preferably video camera. Then go to Christmas at her folks. For her present, just give her a tape that you made for her. Put the tape in for everyone to see. Let the first few opening scenes be all about how she means so much to you and how you are so happy with her. Make the whole thing look like you’re heading toward asking her hand in marriage. Then right at the end of the video, be like “but I guess that all had to change when you decided to start fooling around on me. Maybe all you’re dreams can come true next Christmas.” (Oh, make sure you’re heading for the door at that point.) You’ll still be the asshole, but then everyone knows that she’s been sleeping around. Then once a year, everyone will get together and remember the year that she looked like a bitch.
i don’t know how you could hold it in brah. i swear, i would have done some crazy shit by now if i were you. and you guys were talking about marriage? WTF? yeah man ditch that bitch ass trick. you probably can tell, i’ve been crossed before… fuck them bitches, you deserve a lot better.
peace
So where is Phrack, I SMELL BS!
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This is not a good plan. It’ll scare the shit out of her, possiby think something happened to you, but it wont give her any idea as to what happened and why. If she doesnt know why, the plan is useless.
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It’s unsafe. If some wacko walking down the same path decides he wants his way with her, she’s defenseless. Don’t say you’re blind with rage either. 'There’s a reason you’ve got brains, and that is just an easy lame excuse. Assum responsibility.
Simply put, it’s not good revenge.
She HAS to know exactly what’s happening and WHY it’s happening.
Additionally, it should be incredibly humiliating and embarassing, NOT dangerous and just leave her thinking something happened to you without ever crossing her mind you know she cheated.
I understand your situation, but if you REALLY want a plan, do it right. If your dog peed in the sofa, are you going to leave it outside until he learns his lesson? If you do, you WILL find your dog ran away after a day or two being outside. He NEVER learned what happened, and he sure as hell doesnt know why you put him outside. All that happened is he got confused and ran away to look for some food. Just like with your plan, you’d missed the whole point.
What if your girl and her new “friend” decide to get revenge for your revenge. Maybe her new guy can whip your ass…You’ll probably feel pretty stupid getting your ass kicked by the guy your girl cheated with. Since you were together 3 years, she probably knows “intimate” detail about you and your life. Do you want her to tell everyone she knows, including your friends, all of this information about you. She could fu** with your job, house and car. Broken windows, slashed tires, sugar in the gas tank…prove it was her. Let me guess…If they do any of those things, you’ll do something else to get them back. Round and round it goes. Act like a man and get over it. She’s not the only piece of ass out there, and any future girls will run from you if they find out you still have crazy issues with your x.
I will say though, the idea posted about bangin’ her in the ass until she asks why was pretty funny.
The weakness that you’re exhibiting in planning this lame revenge is what caused her to find a real man to begin with. Grow up and move on.
BenTyson:
I don’t think you can use that as an excuse for someone to cheat. That’s a cop out. I do agree that he should just move on without here though.
First, do more research to verify that you have been wronged.
Second, I don’t like the abandoning in the wilderness idea (too many things could go wrong)…but if you ARE going to do this…why not get a little hot and heavy with her first, and then run to the car with all of her clothes?
Third, if it were me…I’d go ALL OUT. I’m married now, so it’s different. But if I came home and found my wife in bed with somebody else, it would be a double homicide, suicide. (Originally, I had written more after the last sentence, but I will spare you all from the gruesome details).
Fourth, I would find out if the guy KNOWS what he is doing. If he does, I’d find some way to hurt him bad, and then not get caught. Or, I’d try to provoke him to the point of attacking me…(maybe without him knowing my identity)…and then beat the crap out of him in “self defence.”
Whether or not it was “more” wrong for your GF to cheat on you than for that punk to take advantage of the situation…the lack of respect from that guy warrants a severe beating.
Maybe act out physically against the guy and socially/emotionally against the girl? If you happen to have any interesting pictures of her, you could always distribute them on the net…
That’s my $0.02…well…more like $10.00…probably shouldn’t have typed so much…sometimes I get carried away. There goes my lunch break, but it was worth it…
Update please
maybe he went thru with it and is in jail.lol
You just got to move on. Was with my girl for 6 years and found out. That evil bitch offered my boy some, It fucked me up. But it went further than that the computer told of her other shinanagens too. It sucked. I made a CHUMP ass mistake and still talked to her for about a year, but the pain NEVER went away…So finally i just let it be. Its a blessing in a way. If I had married her and found out it would have been nasty. Same goes with you. Just avoid the temptation to hit it. Shit at least you didnt have any kids with her. Mike.