Maybe he doesn’t know about you…I doubt it. Either way, kick his ass. Everyone says you don’t feel better after whooping some dude’s ass that’s boiking your girl. Bullshit. You’ll feel better.
And for God’s sake, piss in her hair!
oh my god. This is better than daytime television!! Can’t wait to see what happens
So young and dumb, to much drama. Just leave her and be done with it, nothing Good will come from trying to get revenge.
You were played, playa, learn from it and move on.
Phrack,
Be a T-Man and confront her, maybe along the lines of TheCuda’s suggestion. What you are talking about sounds like a badly written soap opera.
But, out of curiosity, who are you, really? I don’t believe someone actually just joined the T-Nation and THIS is their first post ever in the T-Forums, that THIS is all they have to talk about on a site devoted to working out.
yorik: your post is ironic, so ironic that at first I thought you were putting us on. “Revenge is a dish best served cold” means that revenge is best when you plan it calmly, rather than pop off and get revenge while you are still angry. Presumably, while you are still hot with anger you cannot enjoy your revenge as much. (The irony is because the saying comes from the same source as your handle.)
Phrack, if you REALLY want something creative, then go for Cory’s. Otherwise, man, just confront her; get it out in the open, and then walk away like she doesn’t mean a thing anymore.
Good luck.
Phrack,
If you are for real, and I am not sure that you are, get the facts first!
How do you even know that this is an actual boyfriend? Maybe its a brother in law, or friend of the family. I know it looks bad, but you do not know for sure, so do not jump the gun!
You need to do more “follow up” work. You need to actually see, or have someone take pictures, of them actually embracing as a “couple”. Kissing holding hands etc.
Secondly, when it has been conclusively proven, which it is not now, you need to simply break up with her. Save the theatrics for sit-com TV.
If you drop her off somewhere something bad could happen to her. This kind of trouble you do not want! You can be held liable both criminally and civilly!
If you break up with her and let her know that you know what she has been doing, that will be enough to put her into shock and ruin her year. Do not go overboard my man! Resist the temptation and you will never regret it. Do something foolish and you will regret it the rest of your life.
Finally, keep in mind that everything happens for a reason. Don’t be vengeful, be happy that you found out what she was like before you got married!
Best Of Luck,
Zeb
lol this is funny shit. althought it seems like it might be a good plan to ditch her out in BFE, i would have to agree with wide and fuck her in the ass or the wedding pic theme. don’t PH on dude he probably doesn’t know about you or he wouldn’t have left a message. she wanted to cheat, if it wasn’t this dude it would be some other one. i think taking a pic of them in the act would be great. send it to her family, put it on the windows of all her co workers cars, if she is in college spread it around campus, via email, photo copies, get creative. do what ever you can to let everyone know she is a cheating slut. she can not be trusted so don’t even think about getting back together. but you do really need to catch them in the act or at least kissing something more than her just coming out of his place. if all else fails tell her that you have aids and have had it for 3 years and just now found out and that she probbly has it too.lol
Kill her and eat the body.
In Calgary area, this happened. What the guy was just put up her picture or her name eveywhere. I mean every other telephone pole, light pole, phone booth, bulletin boards, you name it. For about 8 months he and his buddies kept it up. Included with the pic was “Amy Smith has genital warts on her mouth”, “Amy Smith is a slut”, “Amy Smith has AIDS”, or something equally repulsive. From what I understand, that plagued her to the point that she had to move far away.
Now that is revenge.
Be a bigger man. Time to pull up your big boy panties and dump her ass. Why anger and violence? You found out before you married this slut. You got off cheap. Don’t make a lifelong mistake for a tramp. Move on.
I vote for Doogie, or Corey’s suggestions.
Something that will really mess her up is humiliation. Others are right, you leave her out somewhere she’ll just call the dude up, and nail him to feel better about herself… good job, nothing accomplished.
Humiliation is the way to go.
My vote is for Cuda’s idea. Nice touch!
How about a local park… And when you hand her the ring case, instead of having a ring in there, have a note that says “Get the ring from your other boyfriend.” Then drive off.
To expand on DAN C’s advice: bag up all of her shit (I mean ALL of it) and give it to Goodwill.
When she comes home and sees everything gone, tell her what you did and for her not to worry. Then say, as you’re handing her the Goodwill receipt, “at least you get to write it off your taxes.”
i think it would be to hard to do all that in front of family. especially if it is at his place, he can’t just kick them out right after he is done.lol
invite them all to a resturant and start up a nice tab tell everyone drink up order all you want and charge that to her. then give the big speach and walk ou.lol
phrack, yes it is… when emotionally
and physically invested in that person for three yrs i understand the anger. like they say revenge is best served cold or revenge is sweet… but jail is cold and hot,cold being the cell, and hot being your ahole ripped by some
mofu who is bigger than you… do yourself a favor walkaway and take care
of yourself and lift weights if that dont help, see a shrink
good luck
This is the kind of situation where you leave her somewhere and then later find out that what you actually saw was her with her gay cousin who was helping her plan an extra special surprise birthday party FOR YOU.
“I say, we kill him. I say we hang him then we kill him. I say we hang him, then we tatoo him, then we kill him” (From the gang In the biker bar in Pee Wees Big Adventure)
Bro, if this is for real, then it’s really messed up. You need to find a way to really fix this chick, I cannot argue with that. I don’t think you have to be a bigger man and all that stuff. The only caution is for you to really think this thing out, find a way to really nail her ass, but don’t do it in a way that makes you out to be the bad guy, or causes you to debase yourself, or get yourself thrown in jail. Sending photos to her parents or that wedding story, while very funny, will only wind up hurting you more in the long run. Get her, and get her good, just make sure in your quest to destroy her, do not destroy yourself. A really good movie to rent would be the count of monte cristo. It deals alot with how a persons desire for revenge can and usually does result in a person destroying themselves along with their enemies.
I agree with ZEB’s post. You know for sure that these two are sleeping together, and not just arm in arm?
The thing about dropping her off is that it results in a “WTF?” reaction. You should first make sure that this is an actual affair (and not her gay best friend from high school) and then confront her with it.
All this stuff about “gather her family together” is wack. You’ll just be makinbg an ass out of yourself, too.
Take the moral high road, don’t stoop to violence or humiliation. That stuff is the wrong way to go. Also, it can come back to bite you in the ass. Be the bigger person, if possible.
When getting revenge, you must make it known to the person who is doing it and what it is for.
Shank, echo…echo…echo…I own the Count on DVD, and I read the book. How did his quest for revenge destroy him? He got his family back and killed the people who betrayed him. But I hear what you’re saying as that is just a movie and not reality. You have to let it go eventually or it will destroy you, but in the movie he carried out his revenge and THEN let it go. I’m sure more often than not it would be healthier to let it go sooner than that, but it made for a damn good story.
Just out of curiosity, how many of you can say that you have been betrayed badly enough that it caused/causes significant anger and thoughts of revenge? I’m wondering if this is a normal thing that everyone goes through.