[quote]Grimlorn wrote:
To the OP. If you want to learn how to fight then take boxing or Muay Thai. A striking art is going to be fine in most situations for self defense barring weapons. Just make sure you’re sparring regularly. You won’t learn to fight if you’re not sparring. [/quote]
Fight? Funny… I’ve only been in a handful of them – so I’m no expert – and they all turned into really sloppy sumo after about 3 seconds. People that want to duel will square off and continue to punch or kick if that is their training. People that want to assault you throw a punch or two then grab you so you can’t hit back, if you’re still standing. Course, YMMV. So are we talking about duelling or assaulting here?
I never even got remotely close to doing a kick in any of them (and I got a 2nd degree Black belt in TKD, did kickboxing tournies for a few years, so I’m a pretty passable kicker too. Whether that type of kicking will stop someone is one question, my point is that picking up a foot that high was at no point a good option. You can’t absorb real powerful hits so well perched on one leg.) Not too much punching either (and I did boxing for a couple of years too and love it dearly.) The encounters ended with either me TKO-ing the guy with a hard throw (few times), a choke and one time I busted the guy’s arm really good. Sparring helped me think on my feet, but virtually none of those tools transferred directly… Striking arts, by and large, are great for starting fights where you can throw the first punch or 5, but not so good if the other guy starts. Sparring is easy. Hitting someone back who’s hellbent on beating you to a pulp is harder than you think, and kicking them ain’t gonna happen unless it’s a fluke.
– jj