[quote]grew7 wrote:
You use the Internet as a life-ruining tool.
In other words…
A+++++ EXCELLENT SELLER WOULD BUY FROM AGAIN[/quote]
HAHA! Is he selling an Elmo TMX? I’d like two please.
This is why you ABSOLUTELY DO NOT tell someone your passwords or make it something easy to guess. Fraud is much harder when someone can log into your email and call you on it.
[quote]Plisskin wrote:
Norwell Bob wrote:
grew7 wrote:
You use the Internet as a life-ruining tool.
In other words…
A+++++ EXCELLENT SELLER WOULD BUY FROM AGAIN
Best post ever.
I’m going to have to agree with this…
Excellent.[/quote]
agreed. awesome
I hope the professor confronted her about the “death”. The look on her face when she’s shown the email message would have been hilarious.
Hopefully, she didn’t figure someway out of it.
I am allnatural…and I am an asshole.
“Keep Firing, Assholes!”
Even without knowing the Mitch details, I still don’t think you were too much of an asshole. This broad sounds like she needs a big reality check, especially if she’s such a liar.
I cannot stand people who lie indiscriminately about anything and everything. Any bitch who lies about her family dying to get out of taking part in her education deserves just about anything that happens to her. What an idiot.
Your insecure actions defined you as the asshole. You had no right to send her teachers the information. Her actions in school are none of your business, so yea you were a big asshole there.
It’s your own fault for logging into her stuff. You don’t and shoudn’t trust her anyway…good riddance.
Move on, and next time be open with your new girl and pay attention to your woman by giving her warm and loving comments, and showing support.
Damn that sounds gay…but it works.
Also, who HASN’T used a relative dying or sick as an excuse when you fucked up in college or missed a paper, test etc.?
[quote]Rockscar wrote:
Also, who HASN’T used a relative dying or sick as an excuse when you fucked up in college or missed a paper, test etc.?[/quote]
Ummmm … me. Also, I would hope, the VAST, overwhelming majority (like 99%)of the readers of this website
Whether or not she deserved that kind of burn, I have to admit that you pulled off a good one.
[quote]Rockscar wrote:
Move on, and next time be open with your new girl and pay attention to your woman by giving her warm and loving comments, and showing support.
Damn that sounds gay…but it works.[/quote]
YEs I realize the insecurity in my actions, I have many insecurities that I believe need to be addressed before getting involved with anyone again. Also, I will most definitely do what you suggested.
Good job on the e-mail burn; classic!
My breakup with my high school girlfriend gave me much the same perspective as you are attaining. We dated on and off for about a year after high school, and in the end she fucked me over peretty good. After I got over the initial hurt and rage at being betrayed and put it in the perspective of our relationship as a whole, I realized that she just served me one more turd sandwich than I served her. I was no paragon of a boyfriend during our relationship by a long shot and, having seen some of my worst traits in her actions (and realizing I was at least partly responsible), started to reevaluate the man in the glass.
It’s no overnight journey, but you seem to have the wheels to get you there. Again, good luck man. PM me if you ever want to hear long, drawn out anecdotes from the dating past of a married thirty-something.
P.S. I will here apologize in advance for any of my future posts containing Mitch/camping references. Remember, it’s not a rip on you, just a perfect example of the games girls (not women) play that is site-specific.
[quote]Rockscar wrote:
Also, who HASN’T used a relative dying or sick as an excuse when you fucked up in college or missed a paper, test etc.?[/quote]
I’m with Rockscar on both of his posts.
You’re not an asshole for doing the E-mail thing, but rather I think you are an insecure, petty and vengeful wanna-be-man.
A real man does not do things that way…what she does is her business and you’re letting yourself get sucked back into her drama by involving yourself like this.
Pointless. Worthless. Petty.
Oh, and I’m an asshole too…been called one all my life. 
[quote]AlphaDragon wrote:
Rockscar wrote:
Also, who HASN’T used a relative dying or sick as an excuse when you fucked up in college or missed a paper, test etc.?
I’m with Rockscar on both of his posts.
You’re not an asshole for doing the E-mail thing, but rather I think you are an insecure, petty and vengeful wanna-be-man.
A real man does not do things that way…what she does is her business and you’re letting yourself get sucked back into her drama by involving yourself like this.
Pointless. Worthless. Petty.
Oh, and I’m an asshole too…been called one all my life. ;)[/quote]
Thank you for this post, I am petty, insecure, and vengeful. These are some the things I plan on working on before I even think about getting into another relationship.
[quote]Digital Chainsaw wrote:
P.S. I will here apologize in advance for any of my future posts containing Mitch/camping references. Remember, it’s not a rip on you, just a perfect example of the games girls (not women) play that is site-specific.[/quote]
Go ahead and make any reference to Mitch/camping, I let that shit go and deserve to be picked on relentlessly for my lack of balls in that situation. Benefit of the doubt my fuckin ass.
[quote]Rockscar wrote:
Also, who HASN’T used a relative dying or sick as an excuse when you fucked up in college or missed a paper, test etc.?[/quote]
ME. I have an associates, and am deep into getting my bachelors. I have only actually missed 3 classes. Once I was in a hospital bed, one time I had training, and I called the teacher, and the third time I woke up late.
How many can say that?
I would also like to chime in and say that what you did stevenF, the email thing, was low. I don’t say it was wrong, I say it was low. VERY low. Yes, she lied to her teachers, and yes, she deserves what happened. BUT she TRUSTED YOU with her passwords. and you validated that trust. Think about that. Granted, she violated the trust that you placed in her, but for you to be the better person, you can’t do the same. Plus, she may drop out of school now. Do you really want that? Really?
What happens if she drops out. can’t you see her, five years from now, living on welfare, in some trailer park, with a shitty old vehicle. Probably either addicted to drugs, or addicted to anti-depressants, a heavy drinker and smoker, with several kids she didn’t really want, with a husband with less then a GED that works a dead end job, he probably beats her. She may be missing several teeth, and wear those one peice dresses. All because you had to have your vengeance.
I would tell her parents as well, if they are helping her with tuition that may cause them to stop. (kidding)
[quote]BarneyFife wrote:
I would also like to chime in and say that what you did stevenF, the email thing, was low. I don’t say it was wrong, I say it was low. VERY low. Yes, she lied to her teachers, and yes, she deserves what happened. BUT she TRUSTED YOU with her passwords. and you validated that trust. Think about that. Granted, she violated the trust that you placed in her, but for you to be the better person, you can’t do the same. Plus, she may drop out of school now. Do you really want that? Really?
What happens if she drops out. can’t you see her, five years from now, living on welfare, in some trailer park, with a shitty old vehicle. Probably either addicted to drugs, or addicted to anti-depressants, a heavy drinker and smoker, with several kids she didn’t really want, with a husband with less then a GED that works a dead end job, he probably beats her. She may be missing several teeth, and wear those one peice dresses. All because you had to have your vengeance.
I would tell her parents as well, if they are helping her with tuition that may cause them to stop. (kidding)[/quote]
Barney, she’ll be allright my friend.
Allright, there’s a little more to this whole Mitch thing. Before the camping thing, I had seen that she emailed him to hang out like 3 or 4 times. She claimed her friend(who is promiscuous) wanted to hang out with him and just wanted her to come. blah blah blah. Gave her the benefit of the doubt on that one. Then the whole camping lie thing that I called her on, which I should have most definitely dumped her for. Then, after all that lying she did and the decision whether or not to dump her, she STILL talked to the kid about hanging out. I DID dump her then, and she managed to convince me shortly after that she’d never talk to him again and she only wants me and I, like the fucking pussy I was, believed her. Then this whole breakup thing, I didn’t trust her so she couldn’t be with me, then she didn’t have time for me because of school, and then she started talking to him again. All in that order. Then the email thing with the teacher happened. The end. This was my first serious relationship and I will take away a lot from this and try to learn from it. First, I need to find my balls… has anyone seen them?
[quote]Rockscar wrote:
Your insecure actions defined you as the asshole. You had no right to send her teachers the information. Her actions in school are none of your business, so yea you were a big asshole there.
It’s your own fault for logging into her stuff. You don’t and shoudn’t trust her anyway…good riddance.
Move on, and next time be open with your new girl and pay attention to your woman by giving her warm and loving comments, and showing support.
Damn that sounds gay…but it works.[/quote]
Well, At least your not totally pussy whipped. Ha! Ha!
[quote]StevenF wrote:
AlphaDragon wrote:
Rockscar wrote:
Also, who HASN’T used a relative dying or sick as an excuse when you fucked up in college or missed a paper, test etc.?
I’m with Rockscar on both of his posts.
You’re not an asshole for doing the E-mail thing, but rather I think you are an insecure, petty and vengeful wanna-be-man.
A real man does not do things that way…what she does is her business and you’re letting yourself get sucked back into her drama by involving yourself like this.
Pointless. Worthless. Petty.
Oh, and I’m an asshole too…been called one all my life.
Thank you for this post, I am petty, insecure, and vengeful. These are some the things I plan on working on before I even think about getting into another relationship. [/quote]
Just to be clear, man:
I’m not justifying nor saying what she did is correct or justified (it isn’t), but rather pointing out (rather bluntly, as is my way) my obesrvations in hope that you will take them in the correct manner.
I don’t rip on people, but rather I tend (moreso these days) to bluntly make them accountable for their own thoughts and actions, all in the hope they will take them to heart and in effect, make conscious effort to change (or at the least to see their own shortcomings), as I do for myself.
Sugar coated words don’t carry the weight of the bitter truth, IMHO.