Well then, to answer your query as honestly as I can…
…I dunno. I mean, I’m a psychotic. I’d probably have started yelling and breaking things and then got so pissed off with myself for yelling and breaking things that I needed to go sit quietly and think of puppy dogs and kittens for a while.[/quote]
That’s okay, I understand. My brother has had psychotic episodes for about 20 years now. You could say it’s something I’m very familiar with. To be honest, I doubt I’d have a favorable reaction, much like yourself.
[quote]Der_Steppenwolfe wrote:
@ the OP: How hypothetical is this question anyway? As in have you done this yourself?[/quote]
Did I join a dating site while I was married? No.
Someone that my husband and I both know was the subject of my post. He never did join, as far as I know. Not that I really pursued the issue. It was hypothetical in the sense that I was asking you (other posters) what you would hypothetically do if this was you or you knew someone in that position.
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If that text is real (like you said), she should find out who the guy is texting. [/quote]
It was a male co-worker. However, nothing was done or is being done about what happened so it’s not really my concern now. Was really just curious to see if my reaction was in the majority or if I was being unreasonable. I’m really not pursuing any more info on the topic.
[quote]TDub301 wrote:
The only question I’d have is the motivation. He said he wants to troll, and it wouldn’t surprise me to see people who have fun trolling in general and would start a gay profile for that purpose.
But if it’s out of character to do something like that, then big questions start to arise.
If the intention is just to get a few laughs at gay guys’ expense and the individual isn’t actually trying to find a side-piece or come out of the closet, I’m not sure why it would be an issue.[/quote]
I’m not even entirely sure. I think it would have been as a joke but who knows? It’s certainly not out of the normal realm for this person to joke around and be silly but…well, I’m not sure. lol Sometimes you just never know what people are doing.[/quote]
It all sounds pretty shady to me either way.
Although, trolling as… I don’t know…maybe as an Ermine, is pretty cool. At least it was a long time ago :)[/quote]
I know! That was back when it was fun here. Not so much anymore. Every now and again I poke my head in and sometimes debate a training log but then…ya, I just end up leaving for my groups on facebook and you know what? It’s not even fun there. It’s depressing, really.[/quote]
It was a lot of fun back in the day. Hope you are doing well Princess.