[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
im a virgin
24 y/o[/quote]
And you were giving advice to me on women? Smdh [/quote]
it’s by choice[/quote]
the choice of all womankind!
ZING!!!
Actually, most of my regrets regarding women relate to things I DID do, not things I DID NOT do… I think back on some of the times and feel dirty, that my fiance deserves better, and occasionally catch myself just shaking my head in disgust or cringing at the thoughts of some of the things I did (and I wasn’t even a scott-la-rock-superhoe). Granted, most of my regrets coincide with utter drunkeness, so making sober decisions would certainly help.
[quote]1 Man Island wrote:
Actually, most of my regrets regarding women relate to things I DID do, not things I DID NOT do… I think back on some of the times and feel dirty, that my fiance deserves better, and occasionally catch myself just shaking my head in disgust or cringing at the thoughts of some of the things I did (and I wasn’t even a scott-la-rock-superhoe). Granted, most of my regrets coincide with utter drunkeness, so making sober decisions would certainly help.[/quote]
It’s a safe bet your fiance has similar stories, I wouldn’t sweat it if I were you.
[quote]1 Man Island wrote:
Actually, most of my regrets regarding women relate to things I DID do, not things I DID NOT do… I think back on some of the times and feel dirty, that my fiance deserves better, and occasionally catch myself just shaking my head in disgust or cringing at the thoughts of some of the things I did (and I wasn’t even a scott-la-rock-superhoe). Granted, most of my regrets coincide with utter drunkeness, so making sober decisions would certainly help.[/quote]
I’m interested in knowing why you feel this way. I ask because I’ve always been able to separate casual sex and actual relationships. Is it because you consider casual sex somewhat taboo, or because you engaged in it while intoxicated? Just asking. If it’s too sensitive, you don’t have to reply. 
OP. A couple of thoughts here.
Sounds like to me that the girl you were having this conversation with is a least honest. There are women that will lie through there teeth about sexual history.
Also, it would seem to me that she was inviting you to sexuals. Sweet sex time.
Maybe I’m too old, or defective, but I don’t understand this hook up culture. I always held the idea that I’m just going to see what happens with a woman, if it turns into something more ok, if not oh well. I’ve never purposefully made an effort just to get laid. My number is less than 10, over 20 years, but 11 of those years were long term relationships.
I remember when i was 24 I was trying to bang this 21 year old and she told me she’d fucked 15 guys, i knew it was probably double that, she was a serious whore, i knew i’d just be number 31 and i’d be wasting my time for anything more.
Pro tip: Girls always know their “number” so if they tell you a precise number they are probably telling the truth. If they give you a vague number, you should probably at least double what they tell you. For instance, if she says 13 the number is probably thirteen. If she says about thirteen or she says 12 or 13 then her number is at least 26.
My experience though is most girls are quite honest about how many guys they’ve been with. I had a girlfriend once who told me a number in the mid thirties. I can’t remember the exact number she said. We’ve remained in contact and I know she’s at least doubled that number in the years since. That includes five years she spent with one guy during which thine the penis never once went inside the vagina. He had some weird fetish thing going on but the bitch won’t tell me the sorted details so I’m left wondering. She won’t tell me the details about the chicks she’s been with either. Damn it.
[quote]CLINK wrote:
Quality, not quantity.[/quote]
Indeed. Personally, I’m a lifelong subscriber to the “only the 10s, 9s and 8.5s even count” school of thought.
[quote]Heliotrope wrote:
Quality and quantity!
You don’t have to consciously and willingly choose to join the masses of sexually frustrated guys that dream and wish they had more sexual experiences.
Approaching and getting experiences with as many women as you can on as many levels as you can including sexually, within reason of your personal philosophy and resources, is one of the most important and empowering things a man can do.
The greatest regrets in life are never what we did but what we didn’t do or risk and try to do.
Seriously what guy looks back on life and regrets the fucking he did?
How many look back and wish they had had not just better but also more sex?
There’s a fine line between true love, sex addiction, and being pussy whipped and surfing that razors edge is among the peaks of life and neither better nor worse than the slopes and valleys of nourishing stimulating excitement of being ever on the prowl for casual sex until that next peak arrives!
Both can and should be sought and experienced with gratitude and wonder!
Even the torturous and dangerous experience of a super sexy and dangerously controlling woman trying to pussy whip you is as grand an adventure as any in life!
Having as much casual sex as possible in between the search for crazy and dangerous life altering explosions of intense sex that rides that true love sex addiction wave is the greatest fire of motivation a man can find.
As to myself I can’t possibly remember all the women who have graced me with intimacy and the act of trying to remember them all and browsing through those memories each and every day and searching evermore for them again in the future is among the greatest treasures of being alive!
Of course this is beyond politically incorrect and this type of thinking and living is disastrous to a man that doesn’t learn to manage his personal resources and relationships around a definite chief aim and central focus but never the less there is definitely room in an astute mans life for both quantity and quality of sex, family, and never ending female companionship. And striving to be a man capable and worthy of such is the essence of life itself.[/quote]
Great post!
in my opinion, a guy actually knowing his exact number, if its a lot of partners, is kinda creepy and makes him seem like a narcissistic sociopath, i have a friend that literally has an excel spreadsheet of every girl hes hooked up with, what he did with her, and whether he wore a condom, also logging his STD tests (all clean so far), his personality is literally exactly like dennis reynolds on its always sunny in philadelphia, dont get me wrong, im not being judgmental, ive been with a lot of girls myself, but he cracks me up.
[quote]dt79 wrote:
I’m interested in knowing why you feel this way. I ask because I’ve always been able to separate casual sex and actual relationships. Is it because you consider casual sex somewhat taboo, or because you engaged in it while intoxicated? Just asking. If it’s too sensitive, you don’t have to reply. :)[/quote]
Can’t say I’m too sure. Some of it is feeling the girls didn’t deserve me. Some of it is probably not knowing them well enough. I guess I don’t have it in me to take a casual approach, I guess… and I don’t miss being single at all.
As far as being taboo… I wasn’t raised religious and a lot of my friends and brothers were man-sluts, so I don’t really know.
[quote]HotDecember wrote:
in my opinion, a guy actually knowing his exact number, if its a lot of partners, is kinda creepy and makes him seem like a narcissistic sociopath, i have a friend that literally has an excel spreadsheet of every girl hes hooked up with, what he did with her, and whether he wore a condom, also logging his STD tests (all clean so far), his personality is literally exactly like dennis reynolds on its always sunny in philadelphia, dont get me wrong, im not being judgmental, ive been with a lot of girls myself, but he cracks me up. [/quote]
Your nut of a friend aside, are you saying you wouldn’t find it stranger if someone had literally no clue. Even if the guy is very sexually successful, the resulting number is never going to be very big. I memorize double digit digit codes all the time.
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
im a virgin
24 y/o[/quote]
No two shits will be given for my opinion but if this is true than I think that’s cool. I was 17 and I wish I had waited.
[quote]IamMarqaos wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
im a virgin
24 y/o[/quote]
No two shits will be given for my opinion but if this is true than I think that’s cool. I was 17 and I wish I had waited.[/quote]
me too.
25 years old 8 chicks not including prostitutes
[quote]doogie wrote:
[quote]IamMarqaos wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
im a virgin
24 y/o[/quote]
No two shits will be given for my opinion but if this is true than I think that’s cool. I was 17 and I wish I had waited.[/quote]
me too.[/quote]
Do you wish he waited or you?
[quote]HotDecember wrote:
in my opinion, a guy actually knowing his exact number, if its a lot of partners, is kinda creepy and makes him seem like a narcissistic sociopath, i have a friend that literally has an excel spreadsheet of every girl hes hooked up with, what he did with her, and whether he wore a condom, also logging his STD tests (all clean so far), his personality is literally exactly like dennis reynolds on its always sunny in philadelphia, dont get me wrong, im not being judgmental, ive been with a lot of girls myself, but he cracks me up. [/quote]
I had two buddies that were having a “sex off” and seeing who could sleep with more chicks in the run of a year so it was of utmost importance that they remembered the exact number to see who would be named victorious. One of them ended up landing in the 120s somewhere but it was definitely quantity over quality at that point
Quality over quantity, I’m sure you could hit up POF and get your #'s up there in no time but for some reason playing Russian roulette with my dick as never been appealing.
“Some that I’ve cared about, and a few that I haven’t - a gentleman never tells”.
This is the response I give when asked that question.
I’m well into the triple digits so I try to exercise a little discretion.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
“Some that I’ve cared about, and a few that I haven’t - a gentleman never tells”.
This is the response I give when asked that question.
I’m well into the triple digits so I try to exercise a little discretion.[/quote]
Including the ones I paid for, which in one form or another means all of them, I dont know.
However, if someone asks me about a specific woman they are shit out of luck.
I cant afford a “kiss and tell” reputation.