I was mindblown when a 24year old girl told me shed been with 40ish people and that is was normal. a 30 year guy agreed and said hed been with low 30s.
when I told her my number she said “do you just not like it” “ar you sure your doing it right” - lol whilst I aren’t anything special or near that…i get offers from girls similar level of attractiveness or below imo. I could have racked up a highr no. (they wouldn’t be stunners) but If quantity was the sole purpose, like I say, I could be on more. but it just seems, wrong…
im 22 and have been with 2… all my mates are around the 10ish mark…
so…thoughts?! am I the weird one.
whats your number, (age is probably relevant)
whats acceptable?
I worked with a chick that kept a journal of her lovers. She was like 24 and in the 40+ range. She said she kept it because she started forgetting their names… so, I guess it made her feel less slutty?
just curious mate. I aren’t judging her or anyone. just wondering what others are like. I cant stand up in the office and go round with a clipboard lol
To all the girls I’ve loved before
Who travelled in and out my door
I’m glad they came along, I dedicate this song
To all the girls I’ve loved before
To all the girls I once caressed
And may I say I’ve held the best
For helping me to grow, I owe all that I know
To all the girls I’ve loved before
The winds of change are always blowing
And everytime I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
And they just carry me away
To all the girls who shared my life
Who now are someone else’s wives
I’m glad they came along, I dedicate this song
To all the girls I’ve loved before
To all the girls who cared for me
Who filled my nights with ecstasy
They live within my heart, I’ve always been a part
Of all the girls I’ve loved before
The winds of change are always blowing
And everytime I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
And they just carry me away
To all the girls I’ve loved before
Who travelled in and out my door
I’m glad they came along, I dedicate this song
To all the girls I’ve loved before
To all the girls I’ve loved before
Who travelled in and out my door
I’m glad they came along, I dedicate this song
To all the girls I’ve loved
I’ve loved
If anyone feels the need to tell anyone their hit list amount it screams of insecurity and the need for someone to think its impressive. It’s not. All it shows is that you have either insecurity issues or can’t hold on to a relationship. Be a man and don’t worry about it.
[quote]CarltonJ wrote:
24year old girl told me shed been with 40ish people and that it was normal[/quote]
[quote]CarltonJ wrote:
when you lost your virginity
she was 13
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Fucking lol dude. It’s gonna be hard to rack up more than a massive whore. I don’t know why you’re bothered.
[quote]CarltonJ wrote:
24year old girl told me shed been with 40ish people and that it was normal[/quote]
[quote]CarltonJ wrote:
when you lost your virginity
she was 13
[/quote]
Fucking lol dude. It’s gonna be hard to rack up more than a massive whore. I don’t know why you’re bothered.[/quote]
Wait- so he wasn’t saying the girl he slept with was 13 when he was 20? That’s how I read that. Thank god you commented to clear that up.
[quote]CarltonJ wrote:
24year old girl told me shed been with 40ish people and that it was normal[/quote]
[quote]CarltonJ wrote:
when you lost your virginity
she was 13
[/quote]
Fucking lol dude. It’s gonna be hard to rack up more than a massive whore. I don’t know why you’re bothered.[/quote]
Wait- so he wasn’t saying the girl he slept with was 13 when he was 20? That’s how I read that. Thank god you commented to clear that up.[/quote]
I had the same snap reaction when I read that. Was concerned for a second.
For all you know, being as this is the Interwebz, I could be a crazy misanthropic hermit who has a throat-beard selling alternative medicine grown in my backyard that only one psychotic 53-cat owning harpy would have.
But I felt compelled to add my two cents as I believe, and many others would I wager, that the number of sexual partners is not the measure of a man. Meaningful relationships my friend. Focus on that.
[quote]Captain Needa wrote:
One. My wife. I am 39.
For all you know, being as this is the Interwebz, I could be a crazy misanthropic hermit who has a throat-beard selling alternative medicine grown in my backyard that only one psychotic 53-cat owning harpy would have.
But I felt compelled to add my two cents as I believe, and many others would I wager, that the number of sexual partners is not the measure of a man. Meaningful relationships my friend. Focus on that.
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OP is 22
the only thing he can focus on is getting his dick wet right now
[quote]CarltonJ wrote:
24year old girl told me shed been with 40ish people and that it was normal[/quote]
[quote]CarltonJ wrote:
when you lost your virginity
she was 13
[/quote]
Fucking lol dude. It’s gonna be hard to rack up more than a massive whore. I don’t know why you’re bothered.[/quote]
Wait- so he wasn’t saying the girl he slept with was 13 when he was 20? That’s how I read that. Thank god you commented to clear that up.[/quote]
I had the same snap reaction when I read that. Was concerned for a second. [/quote]
[quote]Rockscar wrote:
If anyone feels the need to tell anyone their hit list amount it screams of insecurity and the need for someone to think its impressive. It’s not. All it shows is that you have either insecurity issues or can’t hold on to a relationship. Be a man and don’t worry about it. [/quote]
x2
Numbers don’t mean a damn thing.
Do what YOU feel comfortable with and on YOUR terms.
Seriously, OP, if you are comfortable with your values and who you are, why would you consider yourself weird just because others have had more sexual partners than you?
Having a lot of sex is fine if it is in your nature. Fucking around just to achieve some stupid number isn’t.
But if you’re just looking for justification, then yes, 30ish would be the norm for us horny fuckers.
[quote]dt79 wrote:
…30ish would be the norm for us horny fuckers.[/quote]
I think 30 is a number you can tell your grandchildren about and watch them beam with pride.
40? Well, that’s just too ostentatious for my sensibilities.
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Spend a few years in Southeast Asia and China and you’ll break 40 easily lol. My old buddies still make weekly sex trips to Guangzhou after doing so for nearly a decade.
