I mean like, not banned from tinder but from her. Or deleted or whatever it was. There are too many apps to remember how each of em worked. I havent been on one for years now tho.
Opening with a sexual pick up line comes across as disrespectful. Some might want sex, but they’d also like to be treated as if they’re a human being as opposed to an object.
Yea, i understand, i just find it funny that the biggest sluts i have met actually acted like they are looking for someone to start a family with at the first dates. While some girls that actually turned out to be good and nice, where not THAT uptight.
People (sometimes) need to feel safe and secure before they can showcase vulnerability, let their guard down a little.
If someone is into rough, kinky sex it doesn’t automatically correlate to “this person is a trainwreck, an unstable individual with seriously repressed daddy issues” or whatever…
Sometimes the two variables coincide… Sometimes an individual might simply be into rough sex.
I believe the saying is “don’t read a book by it’s cover”.
Yea i know. Im just happy i havent had the need to go through all that again. It was very very fun for a while, but i think im just old and boring now, lol 
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Not really… People change. You teach combat sports… You’re an expert in Krav Maga, BJJ, god knows what else… You’re certainly not boring.
Casual sex is just that… Casual, meaningless…
Many grow out of the “whoring around” phase as they get older
I used to like partying, clubbing, festivals etc, I quickly got bored of it. Superficial, meaningless interactions, listening to shitty music, (unless it’s metal, classic rock, punk etc… Then I’m still down) repeating the same course of events time and time again. It’s boring, pointless, accomplishes nothing productive; though it can serve as an outlet to occasionally let off a bit of steam.
My point being, people change. Younger people sometimes crave excitement and adrenaline. Hedonism serves as an apt outlet. Though as this new paradigm becomes repetitive and tedious it loses its allure
Sexytimez is fun, especially when you’re relatively new to the game.
Some never grow out of it though… Each to their own; though I feel a little bit sorry for those in their 30’s who still behave like they’re seventeen.
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True for all women all over the world. It would be idiotic to put it out there if they wanted to. Women don’t want just sex, they want to fuck the hot guy.
True, but some do it as a trap. It’s called the thirst trap and it weeds out the socially retarded guys and the thirsty guys. It’s what the hit girl at the party does when she says something really dirty and all the men jump on that Landmine. They weed themselves out. Those who don’t react win.
That is the autistic mentality speaking. Women may want sex, but they have first to find out if you are worthy. Hot cold, I want you, I want you not - that’s the game they play to find out. They don’t just fuck a male 3 because a cultural norm dictates that they can’t. They don’t do it because it is a disaster for evolution and the survival of their offspring to fuck low value men
I think women don’t care about muscle but they care about their guy looking like he can protect them. Muscle mostly doesn’t get you laid but it gets a foot in the door.
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Yep. I’m of the opinion that game is a myth. Good looking men are genuinely confident. Faking it doesn’t work. If the girl thinks the guy is hot, unless he is autistic, interactions go well. A hot guy doesn’t need game. It’s icing on top.
If you can’t be traditionally attractive, it’s going to be a lot tougher. Appealing to a niche can work.
I’m of the opposite opinion it’s easier for good looking guys, but good looks like muscles are just a foot in the door. As soon as you open your mouth, it’s 100% game. Either that or you are an absolute 0.0001% stud.
I know too many guys who are good looking, attractive and get none. And then I know enough guys who look shitty or are just skinny and have bad style but kill with the ladies. Game can be everything, if you are not a traditionally hot guy.
Addendum: Game at some point in a man’s life becomes natural if he has enough conversations with women he finds attractive. I watched what I said for a few years when I was younger and now I don’t have to anymore. You somewhere along the road learn what’s unattractive to say and just stop it. I nowadays find girls mostly just amusing. I have so much fun with em
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I agree with this. I guess what I’m saying is that attractive men pick up game really easily. It’s a positive feedback loop.
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I like the saying about this topic - if she doesnt like the guy its - stalking and sexual harrassment. If a hot guy does the same, he is cute and attentive
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