I don’t mean to stir the pot more here but the last several posts made something click in my head a little. Wouldn’t calling someone a white nigger, or a wigger actually be non-racist? If racism is purely defined by hatred based on skin color, then calling someone who is white, a (w)nigger would either be one of two things, the person is insane or colorblind (just blind, Clayton Bigsby?) or the term does not mean what it used to and now more accurately classifies a subgroup with similar behaviors, mannerisms, slang, attitudes, etc…
I mean if white people can now be called niggers also, isn’t that what black people ultimately wanted? Equality?
Ok I know I am going to need to clarify that, so let me try to be pre-emptive. Say I see a chinese dude dressed in all Ghetto, gold chains, saggy pants, swaggering around, doing the whole yo-yo homie, sup my dawg, etc… Now what if I called him a Chigger? Would that be racist? How would it be? Am I calling him black?
What would make me think he is black? Do all black people dress and act like that? No, not even close. Sure some do, but as we have identified in this thread, so do some white people. Would I be being derogatory towards him because of his skin tone? Or would it be because he was acting like a fucking douchebag? I can still be deragotory towards douchebags right?
To further put a personal spin on why I have a pretty strong opinion and willingess to talk about this. I have two cousins who are a couple years younger than I am, we grew up together, roughoused at every christmas, thanksgiving, easter, holoween, etc… We spent most of every summer rotating whos house we would be at, I mean we were a pretty tight trio.
So one of my cousins goes away to school on a football scholarship. Gets in with a wrong crowd, gets into drugs and gets kicked off the team, shortly he gets in trouble with the law and gets kicked out of school and comes home. This happened over the time period of approx 2 years. Now I had seen him sparingly and I didn’t like what I saw over those 2 years, but it really struck me one day when he was back home for good. (he is a big kid too, much bigger than I am, though me being older I have always had the upper hand on him).
So anyways, we are sitting there one day, our first real one on one time and he’s all "yo son so you shoulda seen the bitches me and my niggas fuckin down at school yo… My jaw hits the floor. I’m like what the fuck did you just say to me? He responds with “What son what you talkin bout soooon…” I looked at him and said “motherfucker if you ever speak to me like that again it is going to be on.”
He started getting a little red and I could tell he was mad and he was like. “you this is who I am now” I responded with " fuck you, I know you, I grew up with you, this is the shit attitude that fucked your life up and you are going to come to me like that?"
Anyways, he wouldn’t knock it off, we wrestled, luckily I caught him in a gilloutine and made his big ass tap… I didn’t talk to him for about a moth. Next time I saw him. "hey whats up. … Nothing hows it going. … “good , hey sorry about last time and all.”… Oh no problem, yea what an asshole I was, fuck,… And that was pretty much the end of it. I don’t know if this story really has much to do with anything above, but hell.
It’s why I for one am not fond of the attitude that I associate with those two derogitory words we were discussing in this thread. Has nothing to do with skin color.
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