1.) With an SAT score of 1200, you can certainly get in to college. A lower GPA is not ideal, but community college is a great place to start. Its less expensive, you can get the basic crap out of the way (English 101 is the same everywhere), and you can raise your GPA. All of this is, of course, assuming that college is the path you want to take and that is right for you.
2.) I will second the person who talked about useful vs. crap degrees. The idea of ?just get the degree? is total bullshit. Not all degrees are the same. A bachelors degree in psychology or communications or 15th century Russian pastry making is not the same as a degree in engineering, accounting, computer science, physics, etc. There is such a thing as ?value.? Speaking of value?
3.) Your ability to make a living and provide for yourself and your family has absolutely NOTHING to do with a degree, or your passion, or your love, or where your heart is, or anything Oprah tells you. It has to do with the VALUE you can bring to other people. Maybe that value is in the form of providing value to a company so that they will hire you. Maybe it is in the form of bringing value to others through a business you start on your own. Maybe it is in the form of bringing value to the needy by starting or working for a non-profit. Whatever it is, it is about bringing value to others.
4.) I?m not saying your passion doesn?t count. I?m just saying that if you can?t find a way to bring value to others via your passion, maybe its not a good idea to try to make a living at it.
5.) Also, don?t try to fight reality. If you want to be an accountant, get an accounting degree and do what you have to do. Don?t complain about the fact that you have to go through all the crap. If you want to be a teacher, get a degree and get your certification. If you want to be a pharmacist go through the schooling without complaining and get it done. Too many people say they want to do something, but then bitch and moan and complain about all of the stuff they have to do to get there. If you want to be lean and strong, you have to eat right and exercise. If you want to be a doctor you have to go to medical school. It is what it is.
6.) There are very few problems that can?t be overcome with hard work. 40 hours a week? Bullshit. More like 50 ? 60. 80 when it gets crazy.
7.) Make your decisions with purpose toward an end. Don?t spend the money on college ?just because.? Decide where you want to be and make a plan to get there. If college is part of the plan, great. If not, don?t do it.
8.) Learn to be CRAZY organized, responsible, and trustworthy. If you can track and manage and complete multiple projects at a time, you have tremendous value. Read the book Getting Things Done by David Allen.
9.) No credit card debt. Credit cards are fine if you pay them off in full every month. Never carry a balance from month to month. If you can?t do that, don?t use credit cards.
End of my “old guy rant” for now.