[quote]clip11 wrote:
[quote]TheBodyGuard wrote:
[quote]debraD wrote:
[quote]WestCoast7 wrote:
[quote]debraD wrote:
I dropped out at 16 and went on to get a math degree without ever getting my high school diploma. It’s not necessary IMO but a lot of people I know say they couldn’t have gotten through their first year at college without it. I don’t necessarily agree but we all have different needs. YMMV. I had to study a bit harder in first year though to pick up what I missed. [/quote]
I think the academic part is only half of why it’s so important. Developing as a person is also a huge part of high-school. Interacting with others, performing under pressure, working within time restraints, and working on subjects that you might not love among other things, are extremely important to YOUR development.
Developing interpersonal skills and the ability to understand, interact, and work with other people is also extremely important.
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I agree that those things are important but I’m not convinced high school is the place to gain them. It’s a contrived, controlled setting that doesn’t transfer well into the real world IMO. Not that I can say too much since I didn’t complete it, but high school social dynamics are not at all like real world social dynamics. For example, being popular in the real world doesn’t actually buy you anything if you’re incompetent and if you lack social skills getting stuffed into a locker is not going to improve them IMO.[/quote]
The above is completely untrue.
“Being popular” as you put it, means almost everything in Corporate America. I have seen it over a 20 year span in real life. The promotions rarely go to the best qualified or best performer - they go to those that are well-liked, regarded or connected within a company or network. That IS how the “real world operates”. “Being popular” is a skill. In adulthood, that skill may differ from what makes a kid in high school popular, but the basic social elements are still there. You can be a star athlete, but an asshole, and not be popular at all in high school. The social dynamic is still there and it’s an important one unless you’re an island. No one effectively networks without being is some shape or form, “popular” or well regarded. The best opportunities are not those that you blindly apply for or stumble upon, but those that you have an inside track for because of “who you know”. I’m assuming you have in your career, whatever that is, learned to work around what you dismiss above, but to correlate whatever relative success you enjoy to the point that you dismiss the obvious advantages of being well-liked and regarded in business is just erroneous. And I’m guessing you weren’t popular in high school? Is that correct?[/quote]
Where can I get a job being popular? In other words, where can I go and have my job description say “be popular” and get a check for it? If it’s so important, why dont high schools have classes on how to be popular. I dont have to go to high school to have social skills, in fact, that has nothing to do with the price of tea in china.
Someone can have a magnetic personality w/o ever having went to school at all![/quote]
You’re retarded if you think it’s that black and white. Hell, you even said it yourself with “my uncle can get me a job”, you think it’s any different once you’re in the position? Knowing people gets you in the job, having friends above you gets you promoted. It’s simple. I had a job a few years back where a new guy came in to replace another manager who transferred. The guy came from a parts department at a car dealership to manage a warehouse. I’d been there 6 months at the bottom of the line, and knew more about operations then all but 1 or 2 guys. The new manager fucked up something at 2a.m., I called him out on being incompetent. Guess who got fired? It sure wasn’t him.
You sit here and bitch that high school was a waste of time and all, but what did you do that was productive while you were there? Did you get an ASE certification, MSCE cert? Anything? Hell, in a few states you don’t even need to go to law school to take the bar exam.