Tenyearsgone, I will never understand why would someone want to beat up a guy who fucked his woman. Is it his fault or hers? Who should be trusted here in the first place? The guy has nothing to do with it, he should not take the beating.
Excuse me for being blunt here, but what the fuck are you doing asking the forum for advice on this topic? No one can diagnose you over the internet. Get your dumb, procrastinating, in-denial ass over to a doctor immediately and get a qualified medical opinion. Do not post here again or read any more replies until you do this. THEN, and ONLY THEN, you will have some legitimate basis from which to proceed … and the rest of us might be able to help out with something other than random speculation. Now GO!
Ditch the Witch. Even if she isn’t cheating, which I think she probably is, just saying what she has in the past is enough evil for one life time. If you can catch her cheating, its that much better. Then you have ammunition to counter an claim for alimony.
Run, do not walk, to a clinic and get a blood
test for HSV I/II IgM and IgG antibodies as
well as a lesion culture (and get tested
for other STD’s as well). Sounds JUST like
an initial outbreak of genital herpes. I know,
my cunt, soon to be ex-wife (may she fry in
Hell) cheated on me and had unprotected
sex and guess what? She now has “pets for
life” (no, I do not have Herpes, SHE DOES!).
If you have Herpes and what you wrote is
true, get rid of her NOW!!! Then get an
Rx for Valtren TODAY. If you start taking
anti-virals during the initial outbreak, it
can lessen the severity and frequency of other
outbreaks.
I did not kill my wife for this though the
thought did cross my mind.
Brock
Axy, in my case I was sort of to blame for the actions my wife had taken to some degree. At the time it happened to me I was 27 and married for four years. I treated my wife like a piece of shit which I admit to this day was wrong, I called her a cunt and various other things for no reason. I can understand to some degree why she looked to sommeone else for comfort BUT two wrongs don’t make a right! The only problem I have with the other guy in my situation was that he knew that my wife was married and you know guys are supposed to haave an unwritten rule about that! Therefore I felt the need to take action but that doesn’t necesarrly make it right either!
You might take BHT and Monolaurin (coconut oil)as well
get tested and get rid of her immediatelty, that’s just so low!
You had a complicated situation for sure… however, everything depends on one’s morality. Somebody who is free can consider every woman a “game” if he is so inclined, married or not. It is up to the woman (or the man) to decide whether to engage in cheating his/her man/woman. I cannot blame the other guy or girl who got involved eventhough it shows his/her moral fibre to a degree. You were not married to the guy, you were married to that woman and she should have known better - in your case, you too.
I can’t speak to the herpes symptoms, as I thankfully have no experience in that area. IF you do have it, it is your fault, even if you got it from your wife. You state that she has been coming home at 3AM on a regular basis for the last 6 months? She has to go see this military guy off? Where’s his girlfriend and family? Dude, the fact that you put up with this shit for so long, and have obviously suspected without doing anything about it reveals a lack of character. Your procrastination and reluctance to take action have put you in a perilous situation. Take responsibility for it, decide on a course of action, and get moving!