Its weird if you make it weird. Some people go into their 20s without any action because of religious reasons.
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yep, time to bring out the GPSā¦
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Thatās what he should do! Find a girl, kiss her, fall head over heels, drive her away with his weirdness, start a thread about, āWhat should I do, guys?!ā and then lo-jack her. (Order isnāt important, just has to have the main elements.)
This thread has the potential to turn into this thread, three years down the road after op does a semester abroad.
Itās like you knew me when I was in high school
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GPS is old. I say go all Black Mirror on her and hack into her perception interface.
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Iāll tell you what I think but first, do you or does anyone in your family own guns? Also, are you now or have you ever been on psych meds and have you been diagnosed as being on the spectrum?
I didnāt consider that maybe thatās why he said that. He was a giant black dude so I donāt think heād be insecure about at least one of those things. The way Iāve always looked at it is that it doesnāt make sense biologically for a chick to like a guy whoās small/not well muscled. Maybe Iām completely overthinking biologyā¦ who knows. Guys are inherently attracted to wide hips and big breasts for reasons related to reproduction, and I always assumed that girls were inherently attracted to big muscles. Something about the primitive brain wanting to be safe with someone who could protect them and their child. I donāt know. The more I think about it, the less sense all of it makes.
I actually thought about this before. My theory is that since we donāt have to fight for land or food anymore, the scrawny guys with a good paying job are the āprovidersā and protectors. In this case they can protect the women from being broke or hungry. Its still a survival thing but not against physical dangers.
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Lmao.
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Being muscular/strong doesnāt guarantee that you could provide for your family in the 21st century.
Its all about what value people assign to certain attributes
hahaha thats funny af
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That is why I said āprimitive brain.ā We get our food from supermarkets and we have police to protect us from danger, so the primitive brain is obsolete in that sense, but it still functions every day. It still has a say in our decision making whether we realize it or not
Sorry if I misunderstood, I figured you meant the idea was earlier humans wanted someone to protect, provide and such?
Both of which are still around just in slightly different forms (like being able to provide for offspring now involves access to quality education. Ect)
Iām just saying thereās more important things in determining who can provide/protect than musclesā¦
Even then, youād be no good if you had muscles but couldnāt throw a spear right?
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Yeah thatās what I was talking about, and the best way to be protected and provided for in a hunter-gatherer type society is by someone with large muscles.
I agree. I suppose itās a conflict between conscious desires (someone who is educated/has money etc) and subconscious desires (big muscles and all that).
All other things being equal, I assure you there are zero conflicts here.
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Iām 44 and have never kissed a girl.
I started at 17 with an 18 year-old so I guess itās always been women for me.
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So the ideal man works supermarket security.
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