you seem to think I was born this way, lol. I am who I am because I fucking decided to be. I never kissed a girl until I was 17. I didn’t get laid until I was 19. Neither of these were by choice, I was just completely unattractive to women. Instead of whining and bemoaning my shitty life growing up, I changed it. I put on 75 lbs of muscle since high school (picture below of when I was 18). I put countless hours of effort into learning to be social. Learning to be funny. Learning to be liked. I was bullied from the time I was about 7 all the way through high school. I was fortunate enough to realize the problem wasn’t the world, the problem was me. And I changed me. I went to college on a full academic scholarship. I hit the gym daily. And since college, I’ve continued to bust my ass in the gym and the workplace to change my lot in life from a dude that, in all honesty, probably should have ended up in the incel community, to who I am today.
Have I called anyone in here anything remotely close to this? I said the average American woman is overweight, just like the men. What is wrong with that?
You mean the part where men are visual based? They see wide hips and get turned on, they see red lips and get turned on, etc etc. Does this really need to be cited? Fuck. The bar can’t be this low.
Absolutely, but I’ve never had problems picking up women. I keep repeating this but apparently people here don’t like to believe someone can understand the social issues of a group without being in that group.
Yeah, i was wrong about the virtue signaling thing. It was more about chest beating.
I never said you were born this way, but in your current form you would not have a problem… and what are you trying to say with this exactly? you enhanced yourself (prob with help from some PEDS) got some muscle mass and put money in your pocket. That doesn’t bode well for the females are blameless viewpoint.
If anything it just solidifies what I have been saying about the current state of society.
I truly don’t get it. I improved myself. I added value to myself in the dating world. My self-improvement was rewarded. What, exactly, do you have a problem with in that regard? When I had no self confidence, no physical attractiveness, no money, and no social skills, I didn’t get women to like me. When I acquired those things, I did get women to like me. Isn’t that kind of how it should work? Why would I deserve to get ‘the girl of my dreams’, or even someone average, when I was a below average dude?
Also: since you brought up steroids, I’ll show you where I got before them. 90% of what I’ve achieved in the gym was PED-free. I’m not sure why PED use is really relevant to anything. Everyone has that option if they choose it. But I don’t think the muscular jump from the picture below to what I look like now really affected anything for me in the dating world.
You said this shit, that I ALREADY QUOTED below in another post, about working women. THERE ARE WORKING WOMEN HERE.
Second of all, you said the weight issues were WORSE for women and got corrected. You didn’t “just say” that whitewashed little bullshit sentence at any point. Go back and actually read what you wrote. You are literally trying to rewrite stuff that we can scroll up and see.
You’re right. But I wasn’t directing this at anyone specific.
It’s outrageous language to get the point across - why would you WANT to have your wife looking stressed and beat? Women do not age like men. Stress and hardship effects them worse, physically, then men. Women have lived longer than men on average because of a few factors, stress and work being one of them.
This may sound harsh, but is a question of WHY would you want that? I wouldn’t. I wouldn’t want my wife to go through hell in a corporate world, then give birth, then go back to this world to then look like she’s destroyed by 35.
Men can get destroyed by 35 if they’re working themselves to death as well, now imagine women. Men are bigger assholes about physical attributes than women are. Would we agree on this? at least?
And the point is my message to women- why do you want this idea of ‘equality’ when you don’t even know what it will mean.
You arent actually struggling to understand why men would want another source of income in a world where crippling debt controls over half the country… Right…?