Has Society Become too Pussified?

I agree with this thread, When did " Hey Nice tits " turn into harrasment? I was only complimenting the female right.

On a serious note i agree though, i cant stand my college teachers that wont take a side when politics come up because there so afraid a student will turn them in and get fired. If you dont like what someone has to say then dont listen to them, forget about it. no need to go crying to an official…

( Cool sign off coming soon :slight_smile: )

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
zephead4747 wrote:

jaminscar is some random I don’t know anything about.

I wouldn’t worry about him. In a few years when the real world slaps the shit out of him, I bet he’ll actually be a pretty cool guy. Until then, eh… He’s passionate and seems driven I’ll give him that.

He is like a fungus. He grows on you. Watch out.[/quote]

hahaha
thanks god I went back to this thread

To be honest,like most guys in my age group(Early 20s),im confused as to what determines what masculinity is. We have guys today walking with their eyebrows trimmed,their face full of botox,and wearing designer brand name clothings and are consider pussies or faggots. On the other hand,we got guys huffing and puffing their chest, rocking Tap Out clothing,and get wasted every night and these guys are considered fake and douchebags.

I think its coming to the point where we are all walking the fine line of whats masculine and whats not. I genuinely love lifting weights and gaining muscles. I love Football and MMA,I appreciate fine,German cars,and I know how to shoot a gun. You can say that is what stereotypically defines me as a man. At the same time;I refuse to wear anything that isn’t European,If I had the time I would get my nails done,and my favorite hangout is at a club,coffee house,or a lounge. What does this make me? Im a man yes,but im a modern man. There isent anything ive listed that probally isent what our fathers wouldnt have done if they had the time or money.

[quote]SuperHuman25 wrote:
I agree with this thread, When did " Hey Nice tits " turn into harrasment? I was only complimenting the female right.

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Ha ha, I used to work with a guy who complimented one of our co-workers by telling her, “What a lovely dress.” She yelled at him in front of everybody that “he was making inappropriate comments and it made her very uncomfortable”. And I mean she YELLED it.

He told me about it later that afternoon to ask if I thought he was inappropriate, and I said NO (duh) and told him, next time you see both she & I in the same room just walk up to me & say, “Hey, Parker, nice tits!” and I’ll smile & say, “Gee, thanks!”. He said he would but chickened out.

About a year after he retired we saw each other across a store parking lot & he announced himself by yelling, “HEY, PARKER, NICE TITS!”

He’s a funny boy.

[quote]Miss Parker wrote:
SuperHuman25 wrote:
I agree with this thread, When did " Hey Nice tits " turn into harrasment? I was only complimenting the female right.

Ha ha, I used to work with a guy who complimented one of our co-workers by telling her, “What a lovely dress.” She yelled at him in front of everybody that “he was making inappropriate comments and it made her very uncomfortable”. And I mean she YELLED it.

He told me about it later that afternoon to ask if I thought he was inappropriate, and I said NO (duh) and told him, next time you see both she & I in the same room just walk up to me & say, “Hey, Parker, nice tits!” and I’ll smile & say, “Gee, thanks!”. He said he would but chickened out.

About a year after he retired we saw each other across a store parking lot & he announced himself by yelling, “HEY, PARKER, NICE TITS!”

He’s a funny boy.

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Your funny Parker. To bad the girls at my college wouldnt be down with such playful humor. I go to an Art Institute.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Grneyes wrote:

My dad’s had the “grey hair of experience” since he was 30. Now that he’s 71, it’s a nice shade of platinum. :slight_smile: He’s represented clients in front of the IRS and almost always won, even though some clients didn’t appreciate it in the end. He got one guy’s payments reduced to 10K from 50K and the idiot said “no thanx” so the IRS upped his total amount due to 80K, probably due to his douchebaggery.

I didn’t know your dad was a nerd too. I fucking love nerds!

71? He’s been around since GAAP was actually principle based. Lol (Fuck you guys, that shit is funny to another accountant)

I would love to pick his brain, I love listening to the guys who have been around awhile tell stories. Are you going into the field?[/quote]

Oh, hell no! I hate taxes! :slight_smile: My cousin is a CPA and works for Deloitte, though. I used to work for my dad, doing payroll and shit for his corporate clients. Payroll is a bitch! I like financial math, though. I really want to be in casinos, running the money part, like a VP of Finance or something.

[quote]Totenkopf wrote:
To be honest,like most guys in my age group(Early 20s),im confused as to what determines what masculinity is. [/quote]

You’ll find as you get older, being able to look yourself in the mirror becomes more important than the rest of the bullshit.

And that probably has nothing to do with the cloths you wear, if you wear makeup, or if you could rain hammer fists on Mike Tyson.

Being a man, being masculine starts with respect. Respect for yourself, respect for those that gave so you could have, respect for your wife/partner, respect for your children and respect for others even if they are different than you. (This DOES NOT mean you kiss everyone one’s ass. That makes you weak. Stand the fuck up for yourself, and don’t be a passive aggressive little bitch about it. But you don’t need to yell or fist fight to stand up for yourself either.)

You have to stand by what you believe in, and do what you know you should, because you should. Not for a reward, not because someone told you, but because you should.

That is where this shit starts, the rest starts to fall in place.

[quote]Zack Nelson wrote:
Grneyes wrote:

I completely agree, CB. My father takes 30 minutes to get ready every day, and he’s not a pussy. He looks very good when he’s all dressed up in a suit and smelling of Old Spice. If a man doesn’t take care of himself, he’s not going to be taken seriously by anybody, not just men. Who wants to go home to or wake up next to a slob?

You are actually female right? If not, if you are a male you seriously did not just post an opinion on whether society has become more pussified by stating “My daddy…whatever”.

Look at me…I am shaving just like daddy.

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Yes, I’m female. And I don’t see anything wrong with my post. Isn’t it nice to see someone who has a father and respects him? Especially in this day and age of no fathers or shitty fathers?

[quote]Grneyes wrote:
countingbeans wrote:
Grneyes wrote:

My dad’s had the “grey hair of experience” since he was 30. Now that he’s 71, it’s a nice shade of platinum. :slight_smile: He’s represented clients in front of the IRS and almost always won, even though some clients didn’t appreciate it in the end. He got one guy’s payments reduced to 10K from 50K and the idiot said “no thanx” so the IRS upped his total amount due to 80K, probably due to his douchebaggery.

I didn’t know your dad was a nerd too. I fucking love nerds!

71? He’s been around since GAAP was actually principle based. Lol (Fuck you guys, that shit is funny to another accountant)

I would love to pick his brain, I love listening to the guys who have been around awhile tell stories. Are you going into the field?

Oh, hell no! I hate taxes! :slight_smile: My cousin is a CPA and works for Deloitte, though. I used to work for my dad, doing payroll and shit for his corporate clients. Payroll is a bitch! I like financial math, though. I really want to be in casinos, running the money part, like a VP of Finance or something.
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I stayed out of Big Four for a reason. More opportunity at a small firm, but much more ball busting.

Payroll blows, absolutely BLOWS. So fucking boring. That is why ADP does so well, none of us want to do it anymore.

Casinos sound interesting, work there and then tell me stories ok?

I came back to say 2 things:

  1. I’m happy that I found this site and forum. Gives me hope, and makes me much calmer knowing that there are others that have the same (or similar) mindset as me, and that I’m not TOTALLY weird when I get angry about having to go through 5 different stores, in order to find normal (read- non faggy skinny) jeans

  2. I’m soooo fucking happy that my gf is the way she is.
    Her: “You know, I don’t mind that you’re manly. I don’t need some pussy emo faggot. I don’t even mind that you don’t shower every day. It’s your job to be manly and it’s my job as a woman to bitch about it…”

Ok ok one more thing: No I don’t think that I’m the shit, or a fucking manly beast or what have you. I understand that I have a boatload and a half of stuff to learn about life. But looking at the behavior displayed by most “males” that are around my age (and even some older),well, it sure as shit makes me feel better about myself
Kthnxbai

[quote]jCaesar88 wrote:
I don’t even mind that you don’t shower every day.
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One of the things you need to learn about life is to wash yourself everyday.

Jesus dude, IF your chick puts your smelly dick in her mouth, I feel bad for her. lol.

Dude that is so gross… ha ha

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
jCaesar88 wrote:
I don’t even mind that you don’t shower every day.

One of the things you need to learn about life is to wash yourself everyday.

Jesus dude, IF your chick puts your smelly dick in her mouth, I feel bad for her. lol.

Dude that is so gross… ha ha[/quote]

Wash? Yes. Shower every day? Not entirely necessary. Idk why Americans are so fucking obsessed with showering 2-3 times a day.
And for the record I wash my dick every day. At least a couple of times. Even if I’m at school. I’ll be damned if I get caught with a filthy dick. I would NEVER let a girl (gf or not) touch my dick if it was dirty.

[quote]jCaesar88 wrote:
countingbeans wrote:
jCaesar88 wrote:
I don’t even mind that you don’t shower every day.

One of the things you need to learn about life is to wash yourself everyday.

Jesus dude, IF your chick puts your smelly dick in her mouth, I feel bad for her. lol.

Dude that is so gross… ha ha

Wash? Yes. Shower every day? Not entirely necessary. Idk why Americans are so fucking obsessed with showering 2-3 times a day.
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I think it goes back to the whole “cleanliness is next to Godliness” thing…

[quote]Grneyes wrote:
jCaesar88 wrote:
countingbeans wrote:
jCaesar88 wrote:
I don’t even mind that you don’t shower every day.

One of the things you need to learn about life is to wash yourself everyday.

Jesus dude, IF your chick puts your smelly dick in her mouth, I feel bad for her. lol.

Dude that is so gross… ha ha

Wash? Yes. Shower every day? Not entirely necessary. Idk why Americans are so fucking obsessed with showering 2-3 times a day.

I think it goes back to the whole “cleanliness is next to Godliness” thing…[/quote]

Right. Then they turn around and stuff chemicals right into their body, and down it with a cigarette. But hey, w/e makes ppl sleep at night. Speaking of which, buenas noches.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Totenkopf wrote:
To be honest,like most guys in my age group(Early 20s),im confused as to what determines what masculinity is.

You’ll find as you get older, being able to look yourself in the mirror becomes more important than the rest of the bullshit.

And that probably has nothing to do with the cloths you wear, if you wear makeup, or if you could rain hammer fists on Mike Tyson.

Being a man, being masculine starts with respect. Respect for yourself, respect for those that gave so you could have, respect for your wife/partner, respect for your children and respect for others even if they are different than you. (This DOES NOT mean you kiss everyone one’s ass. That makes you weak. Stand the fuck up for yourself, and don’t be a passive aggressive little bitch about it. But you don’t need to yell or fist fight to stand up for yourself either.)

You have to stand by what you believe in, and do what you know you should, because you should. Not for a reward, not because someone told you, but because you should.

That is where this shit starts, the rest starts to fall in place. [/quote]

Thanks for the advice. You dont even really have to say but im starting to look at things differently than I have when I was in Highschool. Respect is everything.

Btw,this is directed towards the 88 guy;Uh…Why dont you shower everyday again? Do you feel like its a waste of time? Money? Environmental issues? Thats one thing I dont envy about Europeans,they have a problem with showering. Let me tell ya something,if you have the means to rid yourself of germs and filth every night,by all means do it. Theres nothing worse than to sit in a classroom and have “that guy” walking down the hallway and you can smell him before he sets foot in the room. If there was just some way to tell him. Sucks that there isent any etiquette technique to inform people of their stench.

I’m gonna try to be as nice as possible

[quote]Totenkopf wrote:
Btw,this is directed towards the 88 guy;Uh…Why dont you shower everyday again? Do you feel like its a waste of time? Money? Environmental issues? [/quote]
None of those. And the answer to that is really that simple: there’s no need to. I’m not one of those people that walk down the block and they’re already sweaty. I hardly ever sweat (not counting gym and sex). More importantly, I do not stink, if I don’t shower every 3 hours. You do NOT need to be showering twice a day, unless you’re one of the people who sweat a lot, or you live somewhere where it’s humid all the time. Summertime comes and I do shower every day.

That’s one thing I don’t envy about Americans, they’re presumptuous bastards, they think they know everything, and they think they’re better than everyone else. They pretend to be nearly germophobes, yet they don’t even wash their hands after coming off the train or the bus. They yawn with their mouths wide open w/o covering them. And the list goes on(Here’s where I point out that I love this country even though sometimes I think it’s full of self absorbed idiots, and that of course not all of them are like that. Just so we don’t get into a debate about generalizations)

Once again, I do NOT stink. My nose is quite good and I’m the guy you might see in schools’ bathroom with his shirt off washing his armpits. If I’m home or at someone’s house I wash my face, armpits, and crotch. Also there is a way to tell THAT guy he stinks: “Hey man, do you need some change for a deodorant?” Works even better if you get a girl to tell him. I guarantee you that he’ll never come back stinky again.
It’s funny how you have the balls to tell me via the internet that you think my hygiene is less than sufficient even though you don’t KNOW whether I stink or not, but you tuck your dick between your legs when you’re supposed to tell that to someone sitting next to you.
What gives? (That was a rhetorical question)

One last thing: It’s spelled “isn’t” and not isent. waits for “duurrr dis iz da interwebz doood, aint no grammer hear”

[quote]countingbeans wrote:
Totenkopf wrote:
To be honest,like most guys in my age group(Early 20s),im confused as to what determines what masculinity is.

You’ll find as you get older, being able to look yourself in the mirror becomes more important than the rest of the bullshit.

And that probably has nothing to do with the cloths you wear, if you wear makeup, or if you could rain hammer fists on Mike Tyson.

Being a man, being masculine starts with respect. Respect for yourself, respect for those that gave so you could have, respect for your wife/partner, respect for your children and respect for others even if they are different than you. (This DOES NOT mean you kiss everyone one’s ass. That makes you weak. Stand the fuck up for yourself, and don’t be a passive aggressive little bitch about it. But you don’t need to yell or fist fight to stand up for yourself either.)

You have to stand by what you believe in, and do what you know you should, because you should. Not for a reward, not because someone told you, but because you should.

That is where this shit starts, the rest starts to fall in place. [/quote]

This.

[quote]jCaesar88 wrote:
I’m gonna try to be as nice as possible

Totenkopf wrote:
Btw,this is directed towards the 88 guy;Uh…Why dont you shower everyday again? Do you feel like its a waste of time? Money? Environmental issues?
None of those. And the answer to that is really that simple: there’s no need to. I’m not one of those people that walk down the block and they’re already sweaty. I hardly ever sweat (not counting gym and sex). More importantly, I do not stink, if I don’t shower every 3 hours. You do NOT need to be showering twice a day, unless you’re one of the people who sweat a lot, or you live somewhere where it’s humid all the time. Summertime comes and I do shower every day.

Thats one thing I dont envy about Europeans,they have a problem with showering. Let me tell ya something,if you have the means to rid yourself of germs and filth every night,by all means do it.
That’s one thing I don’t envy about Americans, they’re presumptuous bastards, they think they know everything, and they think they’re better than everyone else. They pretend to be nearly germophobes, yet they don’t even wash their hands after coming off the train or the bus. They yawn with their mouths wide open w/o covering them. And the list goes on(Here’s where I point out that I love this country even though sometimes I think it’s full of self absorbed idiots, and that of course not all of them are like that. Just so we don’t get into a debate about generalizations)

Theres nothing worse than to sit in a classroom and have “that guy” walking down the hallway and you can smell him before he sets foot in the room. If there was just some way to tell him. Sucks that there isent any etiquette technique to inform people of their stench
Once again, I do NOT stink. My nose is quite good and I’m the guy you might see in schools’ bathroom with his shirt off washing his armpits. If I’m home or at someone’s house I wash my face, armpits, and crotch. Also there is a way to tell THAT guy he stinks: “Hey man, do you need some change for a deodorant?” Works even better if you get a girl to tell him. I guarantee you that he’ll never come back stinky again.
It’s funny how you have the balls to tell me via the internet that you think my hygiene is less than sufficient even though you don’t KNOW whether I stink or not, but you tuck your dick between your legs when you’re supposed to tell that to someone sitting next to you.
What gives? (That was a rhetorical question)

One last thing: It’s spelled “isn’t” and not isent. waits for “duurrr dis iz da interwebz doood, aint no grammer hear”[/quote]
Getting abit touchy aren’t we? It isnt that im scarred to tell a guy that he stinks but its incredibly rude to just go up to him and say
“Hey dude,try not to stretch in my direction” But I will answer him honestly if he ask me about it. I would even strike up a conversation by saying “Hey Michael,you should check out this new cologne I got from Diesel. Ive been getting compliments from girls all day.” Btw,I apologize if I offended you but I had to laugh when you were getting defensive and calling me an “American,Presumptuous Bastard” And I presume correct. You are European,aren’t you? Oh and thank you for pointing out my grammatical error. No,Im not going to insult you for being right. On that issue anyway. Well,I guess we can agree to disagree. I like showers,you dont.

[quote]Totenkopf wrote:
Getting abit touchy aren’t we? It isnt that im scarred to tell a guy that he stinks but its incredibly rude to just go up to him and say
“Hey dude,try not to stretch in my direction” But I will answer him honestly if he ask me about it. I would even strike up a conversation by saying “Hey Michael,you should check out this new cologne I got from Diesel. Ive been getting compliments from girls all day.” Btw,I apologize if I offended you but I had to laugh when you were getting defensive and calling me an “American,Presumptuous Bastard” And I presume correct. You are European,aren’t you? Oh and thank you for pointing out my grammatical error. No,Im not going to insult you for being right. On that issue anyway. Well,I guess we can agree to disagree. I like showers,you dont.[/quote]

The only person getting touchy and defensive here is you.
So let me get this right: telling a dude next to you that his hygiene sucks is rude, but doing so over the net isn’t (never mind the fact that you’re wrong). Riiiiight. Him being right next to you, and me being a safe distance away has NOTHING to do with it.
I didn’t call you directly a presumptuous bastard, but way to take it personally.
And just for the record: I like showers, but prefer baths

[quote]jCaesar88 wrote:
Totenkopf wrote:
Getting abit touchy aren’t we? It isnt that im scarred to tell a guy that he stinks but its incredibly rude to just go up to him and say
“Hey dude,try not to stretch in my direction” But I will answer him honestly if he ask me about it. I would even strike up a conversation by saying “Hey Michael,you should check out this new cologne I got from Diesel. Ive been getting compliments from girls all day.” Btw,I apologize if I offended you but I had to laugh when you were getting defensive and calling me an “American,Presumptuous Bastard” And I presume correct. You are European,aren’t you? Oh and thank you for pointing out my grammatical error. No,Im not going to insult you for being right. On that issue anyway. Well,I guess we can agree to disagree. I like showers,you dont.

The only person getting touchy and defensive here is you.
So let me get this right: telling a dude next to you that his hygiene sucks is rude, but doing so over the net isn’t (never mind the fact that you’re wrong). Riiiiight. Him being right next to you, and me being a safe distance away has NOTHING to do with it.
I didn’t call you directly a presumptuous bastard, but way to take it personally.
And just for the record: I like showers, but prefer baths[/quote]

Who let stinky in here again?