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I have a tinder and POF, tried OkCupid but got sick of going on dates with feminazis. I feel online dating has changed the dating scene. I also notice wonen have become more willing to ask a guy out.
For example, I am a pretty good dancer. Not the best but I can hold my own in a dance-off on the ghetto. Anyway, when I was 18-20 it was more common for me to ask a girl to dance or at least women were more receptive to being approached. Nowadays it is backward - I feel women have gotten less aproachable/more rude or dont like more assertive guys. If I just stand around though and do a few dances I now end up having women approach me. HOWEVER, once they approach me and start dancing, if make a pass at them they end up walking awayā¦ONLY to come back later and flirt or dance more. WHAT THE FUCK, why does this have to be such a god damn process! I do not remember it being this complicated years ago.
Men ask women to dance as a sign of interest. Women ask men to dance because they want someone to dance with. They figure that if you know how to dance you must know this.
I salsa and I get asked to dance a lot, all by women who have zero interest in me as anything other than a dance partner.
Itās really quite objectifying.
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they need to know youāre not just a piece of meat. A plaything for their amusement.
Youāre a person, Pangy. Donāt ever let them make you forget.
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Women are complicated
its all about the hunt
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Not sure if typo or notā¦
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I think my dating issues are becauseā¦
Her: How long have you been divorced?
Me: Four years now.
Her: Do you have any children?
Me: Yesā¦
Her: How many?
Me: Nine.
Her: ā¦
And that kills of any returns off text messages or calls.
With that, Iām going to go do deadlifts and kick Monday in the balls. 
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Oh come on now. You are a good looking guy andā¦Youāre a hockey player, how hard could it be?
Consider the followingā¦
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If she finds out, you say you told her nine. Then she looks back and you both laugh at the hysterical typo/autocorrect. Ofcourse by this time she cant leave because you have her tied up in yourā¦ errr I mean captivated her with your charm.
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Nah just go with my standard college keg party pick up line:
āYou are looking pretty good tonight. Why dont we skip the small talk and get right down to phucking. You interested?ā
White chicks are complicated.
Over dramatize everything and I mean everyfuckingthing 
x2 Iād shut up about the kids. At best say āa bunchā and change the subject.
NINE dammit iām getting a headache just thinking about it
Iāve tried.
Theyāl just pry and pry if they think youāre hiding something.
How old are they, again? I donāt think that would have been a deal breaker for me, but then I was having to float the word āfourā and am very romantic about big families, so maybe Iām an exception.
My four didnāt seem to put anyone off at all, and they were still teens when I started dating. When Kevin and I were a few months into our relationship he agreed to help move my sonās stuff out of his dorm and into storage nearby while we were in the area visiting his family. Turned out the storage place was closed, so Kevin had to drive around with my sonās shit in his car until he could get home and load it into his shed. The day of the mishap, we had to cram his elderly mother and her walker into the overloaded car. Good times. Then in the fall of course he had to load it back up, drive it back down, and help carry the shit up to the third floor apartment. More good times. Last weekend we had an emergency because my daughter drove her car into something right in front of her (āI thought it was a four-way stop, but I guess it was a Tā) with enough force to crumple and total her Taurus. Classes started Monday, so she needed the car.
I would have been more embarrassed if two weeks ago HIS daughter hadnāt driven HER Taurus into something right in front of her with enough force to crumple and total it. He took care of that emergency on Tuesday because her classes started on Thursday and she only had the insurance coās rental until Friday.
So I dunno, I guess my suggestion is that you find someone who also has a large family and additionally a sense of humor.
Usually between 40-50, Emily.
I had one coffee date pester me repeatedly when I said I had some kids. When I finally said nine, her first comment was āI donāt want to raise nine childrenā. My response was that I didnāt want her to raise my kids, I just wanted someone to see movies and concerts with.
She then got the bailout phone call and had to leave. Ha!
Iām ok with not being in a relationship. Iām busy with work, time with my kids, lifting and hockey.
No, I mean how old are the kids? lol
I donāt understand āthe bailout phone call.ā To me, youāre having coffee with someone presumably nice and interesting. Itās not Walmart - itās an opportunity to spend an hour or two with someone you might like a little (not a serious dating prospect) or someone you like a lot (maybe something big will come of it). What is the emergency? Show some class, people of the dating world!
Ah, lol.
26 to 8 years old. Five under 19 for now.
See for me, the number of children wouldnāt be a factor. The number of marriages that produced the children might. I have three friends that are at 6+. I think the world of them, but I have to wonder. The common denominator is them.
One.
One marriage of 25 years.