Growing Up in a Religious Family

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
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I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Eh, I’m not the most religious person, but inability to think for oneself would be more like blindly accepting a pastor/preacher/imam/whatever’s interpretation of a particular passage or whatnot, assuming that’s how sermon’s work. I dunno, I’ve been out of the loop.

I’d say in that respect it’s sort of like some art lecture or an english lecture. There are different ways to interpret books and there are different ways to interpret are and passages from one’s holy book.

I do, however think that those who say “I don’t like gay people because my pastor said so” are sheeple, but I digress. My 2 cents (10^-10^100 cents in USD)

[quote]Sloth wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]Sloth wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

Exactly. Modern civilized thought is all we really need in deciding what is “wrong” and what is “right” in society. [/quote]

Then why the need for quotation marks around right and wrong? It’s suggests an uncomfortableness with the distinction between right and wrong.[/quote]

I put quotations because some things that are considered right and wrong in modern civilized thought differ from what is considered right and wrong in religion.

According to the bible, stoning an adulterer is considered “right” but according to modern civilized thought it is considered “wrong”[/quote]

Well, it was Christian society that gave ‘modern civilized society’ the ideal. It didn’t take anything close to an atheistic or agnostic majority to overturn the practice. For Christians, despite continued wrongs committed in it’s name, Christ long ago gave the thumbs down to the practice of stoning sinners. Unfortunately, humanity is often extremely slow at taking things to heart and putting them into practice. For the Christian, while Christ may have left a path to walk, it was still human beings who had to travel it. Look, vengeance, to the point of blood, even death, against unfaithful spouses has been and will always be with humanity. I’m sure nonreligious and even atheists have cast their own stones in a fit of rage over unfaithfullness. Of course, today the stones exit the barrel of a firearm.

Christians (oh, I’m sure there are niche sects, don’t get me wrong) do not believe that old testament prescriptions reflect law fullfilled (as it was ultimately planned). We tend to believe they often reflected and even made concession to the people, and already established practices of the time. Today, many would say an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth, would be excessive. But, what if yester-year the most likely scenario would have been blood vengeance against an entire family or tribe for the loss of a finger of one’s own family or tribal member? What if the custom, in regards to unfaithful wives, led often led to not only the death of the wives, but the kinsmen who married them off?

There is a peculiar practice today of imagining an alternative and utopian trek through history. One guided by ‘modern thought.’ And there is an even more peculiar practice of forgetting the ‘civilizing’ that was nurtured in Christendom, often with devout men leading the way. Abolition, desegregation, DUTY to family and children, DUTY towards charity, etc. “Modern civilized society” is largely resting, even partying it up, on the surplus left by more devout forebearers, who already wrestled and tamed some of the biggest issues of history for us. “Modern civilized society” has it easy. Perhaps that’s why so many people can find the time to try to save cows from ending up on your dinner plate.

Even so, this MCS is doing rather well in spending off it’s social surplus. 50% out of wedlock rates for hispanics, 70% for blacks, now up to 20+ for whites. Then there’s the crime and poverty attributed with these and other broken homes. And, of course, there’s the resulting dependancy on government which follows. More prisons, and more welfare dollars and programs. And, of course, declining educational results.

Yeah, fathers, increasingly without a sense of familial duty, basically. Mothers who could’ve used alot more of that old-fashioned prudence and self mastery. And the predictably feral children who start building their rap sheets before graduating from high school. If they graduate. If, they weren’t just graduated to get such problem children out of the school’s hair…

Meh, looks like the troll post (op) got me. I’m out of here.[/quote]

I think you’re getting into the wide world of moral relativism here, and I like it.

Religion has largely served as a medium through which civilizations have established some sort of “ideal” or “absolute”, namely a rigid, unwavering standard that we can always look to as a measuring block of our own morality. How close do we come to that standard? With moral relativism, there is no higher authority that establishes this “absolute”. We are the standard because our morals are based on how WE feel about things, not how we are instructed to by another, more powerful being/entity/deity/etc.

While Christian thought and morality is largely (most would say almost entirely) responsible for Western society’s mores, Islam has had just as large an influence in other parts of the world. Essentially, the conflict between ANY two cultures who are shaped by different religions stems in varying degrees from the differences in what that “absolute” is.

The Pope made the case in a speech of his right before he was named as Pope that the world may be experiencing some sort of moral decay due in large part to a general move away from recognizing some sort of absolute standard from a higher moral power, whether it be God or another name one assigns it. A loss of not only religion, but of spirituality as well.

I’m not into the Pope, but I think he’s on to something.

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
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I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

My dad has maybe spoke five minutes worth on God and Religion since I was 14 and I joined the Catholic Church five months ago…yeah. I can’t think for myself.

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

For what it’s worth. I view Mass as going to celebrate the sacrifice of Jesus and saying thanks. In a way to have a relationship with Jesus, but more important to that.

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

I don’t have a problem with people who hold themselves accountable to a higher authority. In fact, if they don’t, I probably don’t trust them. If you are able to do that through a relationship with “God”, that’s fine, whatever works for you.

I do have a problem with people like Brother Chris whose only motivation for doing the right thing is fear of going to hell. Hes said multiple times he doesnt enjoy going to church and he doesnt think theres any benefit to being religious in this life.

I also have a problem with people who interpret the metaphors in the Bible as literal fact and fight tooth and nail against rational thought, science and progress.

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

doesnt think theres any benefit to being religious in this life.

[/quote]

Actually, this is general Christian thinking. You suffer through life and by your good works and sacrifice you get to Heaven, which is the whole point of living. For Christians, Heaven is where you want to be, not on Earth. It’s getting to the afterlife that’s important.

[quote]Grneyes wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

doesnt think theres any benefit to being religious in this life.

[/quote]

Actually, this is general Christian thinking. You suffer through life and by your good works and sacrifice you get to Heaven, which is the whole point of living. For Christians, Heaven is where you want to be, not on Earth. It’s getting to the afterlife that’s important.[/quote]

I don’t know about that either, some people truly enjoy helping others, and doing good, it’s not just where it’s going to get you, it’s just that feeling you get when you are able to make someones day. I do agree though, the goal is to make it to Heaven.

[quote]Grneyes wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

doesnt think theres any benefit to being religious in this life.

[/quote]

Actually, this is general Christian thinking. You suffer through life and by your good works and sacrifice you get to Heaven, which is the whole point of living. For Christians, Heaven is where you want to be, not on Earth. It’s getting to the afterlife that’s important.[/quote]

Intriguing. I was raised to enjoy this life here on earth to the fullest, because life itself is a gift from the Almighty, not just something to be endured.

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

x2

I’ll give you a break because you’re part of the class 2010, and you do not have a clue of who I am or what I have said in my past.

Next time I am up to debate a subject, I’ll sub you in for me. Since you are so good at putting words into my mouth. I think from now on, or at least until you get a full grasp of what I reason and believe, you should address the topic at hand. And, not what you assume I believe or reason.

Retorts below.

[quote]overstand wrote:
I don’t have a problem with people who hold themselves accountable to a higher authority. In fact, if they don’t, I probably don’t trust them. If you are able to do that through a relationship with “God”, that’s fine, whatever works for you.

I do have a problem with people like Brother Chris whose only motivation for doing the right thing is fear of going to hell. Hes said multiple times he doesnt enjoy going to church and he doesnt think theres any benefit to being religious in this life. [/quote]

I’m sorry that you have a problem with me, you shouldn’t as you do not know me.

My main motivation for doing something right is because it is the right thing to do. Aquinas explained that there are three motivations for doing something which shows what kind of faith one has, child, adolescent, and adult. Child like faith is doing it because it like it, adolescent like faith is doing it so you won’t get in trouble, and adult like faith is doing it because it is the right thing to do. I have no fear of Hell, sir. Sorry to disappoint you. So, I have said multiple times that I do not enjoy going to Church? Really, that is interesting, because I must have lied to myself when I wrote that. Sorry about that as well, I do truly enjoy going to Mass.

I also challenge you to link to where I have said multiple times that I do not enjoy going to Mass.

What is wrong with interpreting metaphors as their literally meaning? Are we supposed to interpret them falsely, or not their literal meaning.

I have never gone against rational thought, science or progress. For fuck’s sake I’m an anarchist.

[quote]Grneyes wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

doesnt think theres any benefit to being religious in this life.

[/quote]

Actually, this is general Christian thinking. You suffer through life and by your good works and sacrifice you get to Heaven, which is the whole point of living. For Christians, Heaven is where you want to be, not on Earth. It’s getting to the afterlife that’s important.[/quote]

That is not the general thought for Catholics (not saying that Catholics are not Christians, just saying that is not the thought Catholics should have). Yes, you suffer in this life, but you do it with Joy. I want to be on Earth, but I know my destination is pointed towards eternal happiness at the same time. Those that wish not to be on this earth are upset with God’s will. I try not to be upset with God’s will. However, at the same time I do not treasure (or attempt not to) earthy living.

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

Yeah, I’m pretty sure Jesus gave the thumbs down on execution of women when he saved the prostitute from being stoned by the Pharisees. I can quote the Bible better.[/quote]

Haha. You react the same way as Muslims do when you quote the Quran.

The circle is now complete.

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]Grneyes wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
.[/quote]

I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

doesnt think theres any benefit to being religious in this life.

[/quote]

Actually, this is general Christian thinking. You suffer through life and by your good works and sacrifice you get to Heaven, which is the whole point of living. For Christians, Heaven is where you want to be, not on Earth. It’s getting to the afterlife that’s important.[/quote]

That is not the general thought for Catholics (not saying that Catholics are not Christians, just saying that is not the thought Catholics should have). Yes, you suffer in this life, but you do it with Joy. I want to be on Earth, but I know my destination is pointed towards eternal happiness at the same time. Those that wish not to be on this earth are upset with God’s will. I try not to be upset with God’s will. However, at the same time I do not treasure (or attempt not to) earthy living.[/quote]

What do you mean by “earthy living”? Sex? Alcohol? How do you have joy without treasuring?

[quote]DBCooper wrote:

[quote]Sloth wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

[quote]Sloth wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:

Exactly. Modern civilized thought is all we really need in deciding what is “wrong” and what is “right” in society. [/quote]

Then why the need for quotation marks around right and wrong? It’s suggests an uncomfortableness with the distinction between right and wrong.[/quote]

I put quotations because some things that are considered right and wrong in modern civilized thought differ from what is considered right and wrong in religion.

According to the bible, stoning an adulterer is considered “right” but according to modern civilized thought it is considered “wrong”[/quote]

Well, it was Christian society that gave ‘modern civilized society’ the ideal. It didn’t take anything close to an atheistic or agnostic majority to overturn the practice. For Christians, despite continued wrongs committed in it’s name, Christ long ago gave the thumbs down to the practice of stoning sinners. Unfortunately, humanity is often extremely slow at taking things to heart and putting them into practice. For the Christian, while Christ may have left a path to walk, it was still human beings who had to travel it. Look, vengeance, to the point of blood, even death, against unfaithful spouses has been and will always be with humanity. I’m sure nonreligious and even atheists have cast their own stones in a fit of rage over unfaithfullness. Of course, today the stones exit the barrel of a firearm.

Christians (oh, I’m sure there are niche sects, don’t get me wrong) do not believe that old testament prescriptions reflect law fullfilled (as it was ultimately planned). We tend to believe they often reflected and even made concession to the people, and already established practices of the time. Today, many would say an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth, would be excessive. But, what if yester-year the most likely scenario would have been blood vengeance against an entire family or tribe for the loss of a finger of one’s own family or tribal member? What if the custom, in regards to unfaithful wives, led often led to not only the death of the wives, but the kinsmen who married them off?

There is a peculiar practice today of imagining an alternative and utopian trek through history. One guided by ‘modern thought.’ And there is an even more peculiar practice of forgetting the ‘civilizing’ that was nurtured in Christendom, often with devout men leading the way. Abolition, desegregation, DUTY to family and children, DUTY towards charity, etc. “Modern civilized society” is largely resting, even partying it up, on the surplus left by more devout forebearers, who already wrestled and tamed some of the biggest issues of history for us. “Modern civilized society” has it easy. Perhaps that’s why so many people can find the time to try to save cows from ending up on your dinner plate.

Even so, this MCS is doing rather well in spending off it’s social surplus. 50% out of wedlock rates for hispanics, 70% for blacks, now up to 20+ for whites. Then there’s the crime and poverty attributed with these and other broken homes. And, of course, there’s the resulting dependancy on government which follows. More prisons, and more welfare dollars and programs. And, of course, declining educational results.

Yeah, fathers, increasingly without a sense of familial duty, basically. Mothers who could’ve used alot more of that old-fashioned prudence and self mastery. And the predictably feral children who start building their rap sheets before graduating from high school. If they graduate. If, they weren’t just graduated to get such problem children out of the school’s hair…

Meh, looks like the troll post (op) got me. I’m out of here.[/quote]

I think you’re getting into the wide world of moral relativism here, and I like it.

Religion has largely served as a medium through which civilizations have established some sort of “ideal” or “absolute”, namely a rigid, unwavering standard that we can always look to as a measuring block of our own morality. How close do we come to that standard? With moral relativism, there is no higher authority that establishes this “absolute”. We are the standard because our morals are based on how WE feel about things, not how we are instructed to by another, more powerful being/entity/deity/etc.

While Christian thought and morality is largely (most would say almost entirely) responsible for Western society’s mores, Islam has had just as large an influence in other parts of the world. Essentially, the conflict between ANY two cultures who are shaped by different religions stems in varying degrees from the differences in what that “absolute” is.

The Pope made the case in a speech of his right before he was named as Pope that the world may be experiencing some sort of moral decay due in large part to a general move away from recognizing some sort of absolute standard from a higher moral power, whether it be God or another name one assigns it. A loss of not only religion, but of spirituality as well.

I’m not into the Pope, but I think he’s on to something.[/quote]

from the Pope to the Sceptic

[quote]krazykoukides wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
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Yeah, I’m pretty sure Jesus gave the thumbs down on execution of women when he saved the prostitute from being stoned by the Pharisees. I can quote the Bible better.[/quote]

Haha. You react the same way as Muslims do when you quote the Quran.

The circle is now complete.[/quote]

I’m not sure what that is supposed to mean, but I’ll take it as a compliment.

On the topic of Muslims, a lot of my friends in the business are Muslims.

[quote]Grneyes wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]Grneyes wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]austin_bicep wrote:

[quote]overstand wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
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I get out of bed at 5 in the morning. Does that answer your question? By the way, going to Church is not about what I want.[/quote]

Yeah, its more about what was pounded into your head since birth and your inability to think for yourself.[/quote]

Ehhh, didn’t know taking the time to pray with my brothers and sisters in Christ was “not thinking” for myself.

I actually rarely go to Church for what it’s worth, because I don’t feel as though I need Church to have a relationship with God, but because you do go to Church does not mean you don’t think for yourself.

Atheists are always on the defensive, makes you sound pretty pathetic when you insult someone that is doing something they enjoy, take pride in and that does no harm to anyone else.[/quote]

doesnt think theres any benefit to being religious in this life.

[/quote]

Actually, this is general Christian thinking. You suffer through life and by your good works and sacrifice you get to Heaven, which is the whole point of living. For Christians, Heaven is where you want to be, not on Earth. It’s getting to the afterlife that’s important.[/quote]

That is not the general thought for Catholics (not saying that Catholics are not Christians, just saying that is not the thought Catholics should have). Yes, you suffer in this life, but you do it with Joy. I want to be on Earth, but I know my destination is pointed towards eternal happiness at the same time. Those that wish not to be on this earth are upset with God’s will. I try not to be upset with God’s will. However, at the same time I do not treasure (or attempt not to) earthy living.[/quote]

What do you mean by “earthy living”? Sex? Alcohol? How do you have joy without treasuring?[/quote]

Sex is good, alcohol is good. Sex outside marriage, no. Drunkenness, no.

You are joyful for what God has given you on Earth, while not making idols out of material things.

Being joyful that God gave you beer, but not becoming an alcoholic. It is a balancing act, really.

Basically if you hate fun, become a Catholic.

[quote]therajraj wrote:
Basically if you hate fun, become a Catholic. [/quote]

I love having fun. I think you’re just an old man with something up his craw and is upset because he can’t have no more fun himself. So he’s just hating on other dudes.

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

I’m not sure what that is supposed to mean, but I’ll take it as a compliment.

On the topic of Muslims, a lot of my friends in the business are Muslims.[/quote]

Maybe I confused you with somebody else. Nevermind. I wasn’t here.

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]therajraj wrote:
Basically if you hate fun, become a Catholic. [/quote]

I love having fun. I think you’re just an old man with something up his craw and is upset because he can’t have no more fun himself. So he’s just hating on other dudes.[/quote]

lol - this coming from a guy who is against premarital sex. Yeah, I’M the one who doesn’t have fun.