[quote]adamhum wrote:
It will be a huge shame if something is up. I’m really crazy about this girl and I really want it to work out.
The intent of my monitoring activities was simple due diligence before we get married.
It’s not so much a trust issue as sometimes her behavior doesn’t make sense. Like she used to be a nympho and the past couple of months it’s been different. I know sex has its ups and down cycles when stress is present. She’s from Mexico and a lot of the time I can’t tell if it’s her culture I don’t always understand or is she playing me? For example she’s prob the least needy women I’ve ever met. She rarely misses me enough to come see me, I always have to come see her. That’s actually not rediculous for Mexican women, hence my confusion. [/quote]
I’m from England so we don’t really get that kind of shit, aren’t Mexican women an no go zone for the majority of the population? I could be well wrong of course.[/quote]
What do you mean “no go zone”?
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Over here, they are generally considered pretty nuts (not necessarily bad) just extremely outgoing and very laid back.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I really wish I wasn’t so far right now. I’d drive over there right now. I don’t really know people would knock for me. I’m new to the town. I was thinking of just paying some random person, but I think “what if that person causes a spiral out of control situation?” [/quote]
That’s not what you would need to worry about, what you would need to worry about is finding out this random person you paid either lives there, or are friends / colleagues with the home owner and pass on your information instead.
I do know a few people in town, I just don’t want them to know my relationship business. I’m dying to hear what she tells me she did last night, will she lie, will she give me a plausible response? Will she be vague?
On a positive note, there’s a red light district here. You can window shop hookers! So if the shit hits the fan, I’ll strongly consider it…
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I do know a few people in town, I just don’t want them to know my relationship business. I’m dying to hear what she tells me she did last night, will she lie, will she give me a plausible response? Will she be vague?
On a positive note, there’s a red light district here. You can window shop hookers! So if the shit hits the fan, I’ll strongly consider it…[/quote]
[quote]adamhum wrote:
It will be a huge shame if something is up. I’m really crazy about this girl and I really want it to work out.
The intent of my monitoring activities was simple due diligence before we get married.
It’s not so much a trust issue as sometimes her behavior doesn’t make sense. Like she used to be a nympho and the past couple of months it’s been different. I know sex has its ups and down cycles when stress is present. She’s from Mexico and a lot of the time I can’t tell if it’s her culture I don’t always understand or is she playing me? For example she’s prob the least needy women I’ve ever met. She rarely misses me enough to come see me, I always have to come see her. That’s actually not rediculous for Mexican women, hence my confusion. [/quote]
I’m from England so we don’t really get that kind of shit, aren’t Mexican women an no go zone for the majority of the population? I could be well wrong of course.[/quote]
What do you mean “no go zone”?
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Over here, they are generally considered pretty nuts (not necessarily bad) just extremely outgoing and very laid back.[/quote]
Yes Mexican women are very jealous and have bad tempers. I’m
Hooked though, they’re so sexy and they have good points too.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I’m sorry about all the suspense, I’m very unhappy I couldn’t get to the bottom of it before I had to leave for this trip. The suspense is killing me…
The only downside to having someone knock is the GPS may on be accurate with a couple houses. [/quote]
Deja vu with this thread…really bad, too. I can empathize, although I wasn’t engaged. Try to understand that you may seem ‘paranoid’ but this is what you feel and there’s no shame in that. She seems shady and you’ve every right to pursue and impose on her if need be. I hope things work out man, I’ll keep myself up to date.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I’m sorry about all the suspense, I’m very unhappy I couldn’t get to the bottom of it before I had to leave for this trip. The suspense is killing me…
The only downside to having someone knock is the GPS may on be accurate with a couple houses. [/quote]
Deja vu with this thread…really bad, too. I can empathize, although I wasn’t engaged. Try to understand that you may seem ‘paranoid’ but this is what you feel and there’s no shame in that. She seems shady and you’ve every right to pursue and impose on her if need be. I hope things work out man, I’ll keep myself up to date.
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Thank you…I took what you said to heart. This has been a stressful situation for me, I want to get to the bottom of it and move on, hopefully in her direction.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I’m sorry about all the suspense, I’m very unhappy I couldn’t get to the bottom of it before I had to leave for this trip. The suspense is killing me…
The only downside to having someone knock is the GPS may on be accurate with a couple houses. [/quote]
Wouldn’t your friend simply visit the street and look for the house that the car is parked at?
I think this would be a pretty good idea if you know someone willing.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I’m sorry about all the suspense, I’m very unhappy I couldn’t get to the bottom of it before I had to leave for this trip. The suspense is killing me…
The only downside to having someone knock is the GPS may on be accurate with a couple houses. [/quote]
Wouldn’t your friend simply visit the street and look for the house that the car is parked at?
I think this would be a pretty good idea if you know someone willing. [/quote]
Well it’s 4am on a weekday there…but yah a drive bye would be great. I just don’t know anyone who could manage it today…
[quote]espenl wrote:
Why are you getting married in two months if you are not even living together? It looks like you don’t even know her. It this an american thing?[/quote]
She wouldn’t move in
I tried, Mexicans don’t do that if they’re traditional.
It’s so confusing because she seems to love me very much and if something is up she must be some sort of KGB double agent with years of training in pretending.[/quote]
DOn’t worry, I don’t think she can be KGB if she is Mexican. Now if she is involved with the drug cartel in Monterrey, then you may want to change your name.
[quote]espenl wrote:
Why are you getting married in two months if you are not even living together? It looks like you don’t even know her. It this an american thing?[/quote]
She wouldn’t move in
I tried, Mexicans don’t do that if they’re traditional.[/quote]
Do they also sleep around if they are traditional? You are getting hoodwinked.
SOmeone once told me pussy is the most powerful force in the world, and he had an acronym for it: PotP. Once I learned that axiom, the world has been an easier place to navigate.
[quote]espenl wrote:
Why are you getting married in two months if you are not even living together? It looks like you don’t even know her. It this an american thing?[/quote]
She wouldn’t move in
I tried, Mexicans don’t do that if they’re traditional.[/quote]
I have a feeling that she is just plain using you. Especially since you’ve never been to her house.
