Lets forget the possibility she found your little device and is fucking wiht you.
Call her when she gets up and strike up a normal conversation. Then at some point where it is natural ask her if she did anythign fun last night. I assume her answer will be, “no, not really, just hung out” or some such variation.
even if she doesn’t mention going over a friends house you say, “yeah, too funny, insert marginally close friend’s name called and told me he thought he saw your car on insert street name.” Don’t give a date, don’t give a time, just state it like it was passing conversation between you and your boy, and then drop the subject.
If she gets defensive, accusatory or bitchy and keeps talking about it, even though you try and drop it, she will talk herself into admission, assuming she is guilty. If she drops it the subject quick, you have to remain calm and then just wait and see whrn the next time she sleeps over the house again. If she spends the next couple nights there, you know as well as I do what is up.
All this being said, you need to just end this now. bang some hookers and find a girl you don’t want to GPS track to marry when you get home. Your never going to enjoy your marriage at this point, even if it turns out to be her aunt sally’s house…
[quote]adamhum wrote:
It will be a huge shame if something is up. I’m really crazy about this girl and I really want it to work out.
The intent of my monitoring activities was simple due diligence before we get married.
It’s not so much a trust issue as sometimes her behavior doesn’t make sense. Like she used to be a nympho and the past couple of months it’s been different. I know sex has its ups and down cycles when stress is present. She’s from Mexico and a lot of the time I can’t tell if it’s her culture I don’t always understand or is she playing me? For example she’s prob the least needy women I’ve ever met. She rarely misses me enough to come see me, I always have to come see her. That’s actually not rediculous for Mexican women, hence my confusion. [/quote]
I’m from England so we don’t really get that kind of shit, aren’t Mexican women an no go zone for the majority of the population? I could be well wrong of course.[/quote]
What do you mean “no go zone”?
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Over here, they are generally considered pretty nuts (not necessarily bad) just extremely outgoing and very laid back.[/quote]
Adam, what ever you do, DO NOT EVER LET HER KNOW YOU TRACKED HER OR SPYED ON HER IN ANYWAY. If all else fails come up with some kind of fictitious note that was anonymously left on your car or something.
Not trying to sound like Orion… but I do believe girls are “programmed” to be able to epically pull this kind of shit off. She can seem all lovey dovey and all the while be doing the double agent deal better than James Bond and can probably lie to you with a straight fucking face about it. So don’t trust anything you can’t verify.
Just tell your girl you tried to call her last night but she didn’t answer. Ask her if she stayed home or went out. If she says she stayed home she’s a liar. If she says she went out, ask where and if she stayed overnight somewhere or came back home. If she says some place different, she’s a liar.
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
Just tell your girl you tried to call her last night but she didn’t answer. Ask her if she stayed home or went out. If she says she stayed home she’s a liar. If she says she went out, ask where and if she stayed overnight somewhere or came back home. If she says some place different, she’s a liar.
[quote]csulli wrote:
Not trying to sound like Orion… but I do believe girls are “programmed” to be able to epically pull this kind of shit off. She can seem all lovey dovey and all the while be doing the double agent deal better than James Bond and can probably lie to you with a straight fucking face about it. So don’t trust anything you can’t verify.[/quote]
It’s not so much a trust issue as sometimes her behavior doesn’t make sense. Like she used to be a nympho and the past couple of months it’s been different. [/quote]
I hate to say it, but this jumped out at me.[/quote]
That could be a variety of things though:
-No more honey moon phase
-Individual stress
-Relationship stress
etc.
Though I would be concerned with her not banging your face off before you go off to europe…
