OP has trolled us all.
what is this bullshit.
Will be raging in a couple of days.
FOR THE LOVE OF TROLL!!!
Waiting…
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I can’t believe I read this whole thing for nothing! Where you at OP?
Germany?
[quote]espenl wrote:
Germany?[/quote]
Norway?
I read the whole thing. I too have to join the bandwagon of knowing what is up.
Test
Ok sorry I’ve been away so long, I’m actually on a business trip to Nuremberg Germany for a conference, I arranged a 36 hour layover in London.
Ok I put a real time GPS in her car. I know it’s not a good idea, I’m just thinking of it as due diligence. I agree though, I should be more trusting.
Ok it’s 2:00am where I live and she is at that f’n house. I tried to call at 11pm, no answer. I’m trying not to freak out…I’m going to call her in the morning and casually ask her about her evening. So she could be hanging out with her female friend again. The suspense is killing me. I won’t be able to call her for another 5 hours.
She’s feeding my dog and fish while I’m in Germany for another week. So I’m considering not confronting her until I get back…I don’t want my animals to die if she gets pissed off.
I’m thinking about saying “I’m really happy with how things are going with our relationship, excited about marriage, but I need to understand what’s going on with this address” I’ve mentioned before that I know someone who lives on that street. Even though its a lie…
It’s so confusing because she seems to love me very much and if something is up she must be some sort of KGB double agent with years of training in pretending.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
Ok sorry I’ve been away so long, I’m actually on a business trip to Nuremberg Germany for a conference, I arranged a 36 hour layover in London.
Ok I put a real time GPS in her car. I know it’s not a good idea, I’m just thinking of it as due diligence. I agree though, I should be more trusting.
Ok it’s 2:00am where I live and she is at that f’n house. I tried to call at 11pm, no answer. I’m trying not to freak out…I’m going to call her in the morning and casually ask her about her evening. So she could be hanging out with her female friend again. The suspense is killing me. I won’t be able to call her for another 5 hours.
She’s feeding my dog and fish while I’m in Germany for another week. So I’m considering not confronting her until I get back…I don’t want my animals to die if she gets pissed off.
I’m thinking about saying “I’m really happy with how things are going with our relationship, excited about marriage, but I need to understand what’s going on with this address” I’ve mentioned before that I know someone who lives on that street. Even though its a lie…
It’s so confusing because she seems to love me very much and if something is up she must be some sort of KGB double agent with years of training in pretending.[/quote]
Shit man, yeah put your animals first! lol
I would suggest just asking a friend that you don’t see too often whom she doesn’t know.
Get them to go knock on the door, asking to see some random guy, like make up some shit they arranged to meet an old friend called blah blah and that was the address they gave.
Depending on who answers the door ask them to ask their partner if they know (if they are around) about the old friend they have come to visit.
If necessary make up some email (printed) showing a post code and a house number just chatting some friendly shit to one another to make the mistake seem legit.
/End
It will be a huge shame if something is up. I’m really crazy about this girl and I really want it to work out.
The intent of my monitoring activities was simple due diligence before we get married.
It’s not so much a trust issue as sometimes her behavior doesn’t make sense. Like she used to be a nympho and the past couple of months it’s been different. I know sex has its ups and down cycles when stress is present. She’s from Mexico and a lot of the time I can’t tell if it’s her culture I don’t always understand or is she playing me? For example she’s prob the least needy women I’ve ever met. She rarely misses me enough to come see me, I always have to come see her. That’s actually not rediculous for Mexican women, hence my confusion.
Arrange a movie evening with your girlfriend and her friend at her friends house, that way you will find out.
Just do what I said, you will straight up clear the problem.
You will have a rough idea of the person / people living at the place, just simply by getting your friend whoever to ask the person who answers the door if whoever else is home may be able to help.
If they are out, you would get “sorry my partner is working today” or blah blah.
That way you know already that one / two people live at the address.
You could also get your mate to scale, ie is the bloke that answers the door better looking then you haha
[quote]espenl wrote:
Arrange a movie evening with your girlfriend and her friend at her friends house, that way you will find out.[/quote]
How’s he going to do that without suggesting which friend specifically he wants to see? Lol
[quote]adamhum wrote:
It will be a huge shame if something is up. I’m really crazy about this girl and I really want it to work out.
The intent of my monitoring activities was simple due diligence before we get married.
It’s not so much a trust issue as sometimes her behavior doesn’t make sense. Like she used to be a nympho and the past couple of months it’s been different. I know sex has its ups and down cycles when stress is present. She’s from Mexico and a lot of the time I can’t tell if it’s her culture I don’t always understand or is she playing me? For example she’s prob the least needy women I’ve ever met. She rarely misses me enough to come see me, I always have to come see her. That’s actually not rediculous for Mexican women, hence my confusion. [/quote]
I’m from England so we don’t really get that kind of shit, aren’t Mexican women an no go zone for the majority of the population? I could be well wrong of course.
I really wish I wasn’t so far right now. I’d drive over there right now. I don’t really know people would knock for me. I’m new to the town. I was thinking of just paying some random person, but I think “what if that person causes a spiral out of control situation?”
[quote]Sawinwright wrote:
[quote]adamhum wrote:
It will be a huge shame if something is up. I’m really crazy about this girl and I really want it to work out.
The intent of my monitoring activities was simple due diligence before we get married.
It’s not so much a trust issue as sometimes her behavior doesn’t make sense. Like she used to be a nympho and the past couple of months it’s been different. I know sex has its ups and down cycles when stress is present. She’s from Mexico and a lot of the time I can’t tell if it’s her culture I don’t always understand or is she playing me? For example she’s prob the least needy women I’ve ever met. She rarely misses me enough to come see me, I always have to come see her. That’s actually not rediculous for Mexican women, hence my confusion. [/quote]
I’m from England so we don’t really get that kind of shit, aren’t Mexican women an no go zone for the majority of the population? I could be well wrong of course.[/quote]
What do you mean “no go zone”?