GPS Tracked My Fiance

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[quote]Cockburn wrote:

[quote]LankyMofo wrote:

[quote]adamhum wrote:
Her explanation:

“I?ve been telling you the truth… I been hanging out with Priscilla at her house there is always so many people I been parking my car at my mom?s friend({Maria)?s moms. {Maria} lives right across from her mom and like the mom is never home she?s always in Mexico or California I was parking there safer than around the corner and Priscilla lives down the street… Priscilla works from 1pm to 9pm behind at boys and girls club that is why we used to hang out so late and specially because she was going to a rough time with Carlos situation…”

She has mentioned Priscilla having problem with Carlos and she has mentioned hanging with Priscilla a lot.

So this is a plausible scenario. although only 80-90%. The person i determined lives at the house she parks at is {Maria}, I didn’t even mention I knew that name to her, but that is who lives there according to the internet.

Could she have concocted this story based on what she’s able to look up on the internet in about an hours time? sure…but at least it’s plausible.[/quote]

Dude, she lied to you specifically about where she spent the night.

Go knock on that damn door and find out. At this point she already knows about the GPS, you might as well finish what you started. [/quote]

Just read the chick’s tale to a roomful of young professionals and the group erupted with laughter. Only a confused man would still want to marry her.

Why would an adult in a committed relationship regularly want to spend the whole damn night at a friend’s place? To engage in activities which are frowned upon at home. Usually drug use and fornication. Often both. Cause yolo is the mantra of this generation[/quote]

She’s really pissed at me right now, that’s good right? If I had caught her then she would just be pissed I caught her.

Really…cheating does not make any sense…She’s been wanting to get married for years, why risk cheating so close to your wedding. I know messed up stuff goes on everyday, but still.

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[quote]RampantBadger wrote:

[quote]adamhum wrote:

[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:
All I’m wondering is whether she’s fucking Carlos or some other guy.

She lied man, and she had a hell of a long time to come up with something. A ridiculously long time, if she couldn’t even remotely describe it the way that she just has to you back then, but can rattle it out through her teeth now, where does that leave you?

Even outside of the cheating, this marriage is rotten. Nothing about the whole circumstance tells me you should consider marrying her, maybe have sex with her a couple more times, but by no means marry her.

Meet Maria and Priscilla, if she’s going to marry you she’s not going to hide her friends from you, right? Don’t be blunt, but ask Priscilla, alone, how she knows your girl and when they get to see each other. Run this all by the story your girlfriend came up with, not just the fundamentals, every detail.
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I’ve met Priscilla…

I agree on asking Priscilla alone…I will confirm everything she has told me.[/quote]

By all means ask Priscilla and just maybe she contradicts your girl/acts shifty, but most likely she’s already been clued in.[/quote]

Don’t ask Priscilla anything it’ll just get back to your girl and make you look bad. Your girl had a reasonable explanation. Just drop it and go on with your life.

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You fucked up op she’s telling the truth

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[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]RampantBadger wrote:

[quote]adamhum wrote:

[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:
All I’m wondering is whether she’s fucking Carlos or some other guy.

She lied man, and she had a hell of a long time to come up with something. A ridiculously long time, if she couldn’t even remotely describe it the way that she just has to you back then, but can rattle it out through her teeth now, where does that leave you?

Even outside of the cheating, this marriage is rotten. Nothing about the whole circumstance tells me you should consider marrying her, maybe have sex with her a couple more times, but by no means marry her.

Meet Maria and Priscilla, if she’s going to marry you she’s not going to hide her friends from you, right? Don’t be blunt, but ask Priscilla, alone, how she knows your girl and when they get to see each other. Run this all by the story your girlfriend came up with, not just the fundamentals, every detail.
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I’ve met Priscilla…

I agree on asking Priscilla alone…I will confirm everything she has told me.[/quote]

By all means ask Priscilla and just maybe she contradicts your girl/acts shifty, but most likely she’s already been clued in.[/quote]

Don’t ask Priscilla anything it’ll just get back to your girl and make you look bad. Your girl had a reasonable explanation. Just drop it and go on with your life.[/quote]

I agree…I do appreciate everyone’s feedback…I really do…ultimately i have to live with decisions I make, but I like to make as informed decision as possible, that has served me well in life.

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Honestly I would sit down and have a serious face to face conversation with her and try to hash everything out maybe even go to counseling. To me if I really loved someone and believed they loved me it would be worth working out or at least getting some answers before you decide to leave PR marry her.

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Honestly I would sit down and have a serious face to face conversation with her and try to hash everything out maybe even go to counseling. To me if I really loved someone and believed they loved me it would be worth working out or at least getting some answers before you decide to leave PR marry her.

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Priscilla? Carlos? Sounds like a bad latin soap opera

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[quote]rds63799 wrote:
Priscilla? Carlos? Sounds like a bad latin soap opera[/quote]

(This is on in my gym every time I train.) The women they hire for Spanish soap operas are always pretty hot, way hotter than British soap opera females. Cough Gail Platt Cough.

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Dude, Adam, this is some fucked up shit. I was in a situation quite similar to this not but half a year ago, and the more you pick at it, the more fucked up it gets. I had a God complex trying to rat my ex out thinking NO MATTER WHAT, I’d have the last laugh. This wasn’t the case. Once you fuck with it, it ain’t never going back. In fact, I didn’t prove a damn thing. I just made myself look foolish.

So, that being said…here’s what you can do. Get ready for the shit storm. Play it cool from here on out, but spend most of your time readying the tarps and fortified walls to ensconce yourself in because it’s gonna get bad. I remember when shit hit the fan for me, Adam. I cried like a fucking girl for an hour and felt worthless in my own name. Son, you best get out of there.

Get out of there Adam. Get out while you still can…can…can…(can…can…can…).

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Christ I can’t believe I have spent close to two weeks waiting for this and wasted all my evening reading this. Should have just skipped to the end to figure out OP was a huge pussy…fuck you OP…have fun raising another man’s child

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[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
Christ I can’t believe I have spent close to two weeks waiting for this and wasted all my evening reading this. Should have just skipped to the end to figure out OP was a huge pussy…fuck you OP…have fun raising another man’s child[/quote]

Bahahahahahaha, best post.

My personal vote is that it’s all Priscillas fault. Fucking Priscilla.

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Haha, this thread is so funny. The relationship/marriage is doomed to fail. It’s just a matter of time.

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[quote]Anonymity wrote:

[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
Christ I can’t believe I have spent close to two weeks waiting for this and wasted all my evening reading this. Should have just skipped to the end to figure out OP was a huge pussy…fuck you OP…have fun raising another man’s child[/quote]

Bahahahahahaha, best post.

My personal vote is that it’s all Priscillas fault. Fucking Priscilla.[/quote]
Maybe she is fucking Priscilla. Getting a little scissor action going on.

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This guy is an epic troll

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Very jealous woman marrying a passive-aggressive self-confessed paranoid guy? I don’t even think you’ll make it through the honeymoon period.
And, in the unlikely event that you two do breed, your poor kids are going to wind up traumatised.

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Sometimes you see a disaster happening and all you can do is watch. I feel sorry for the coming kids with their divorced parents.

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[quote]strongmanvinny wrote:
Dude, Adam, this is some fucked up shit. I was in a situation quite similar to this not but half a year ago, and the more you pick at it, the more fucked up it gets. I had a God complex trying to rat my ex out thinking NO MATTER WHAT, I’d have the last laugh. This wasn’t the case. Once you fuck with it, it ain’t never going back. In fact, I didn’t prove a damn thing. I just made myself look foolish.

So, that being said…here’s what you can do. Get ready for the shit storm. Play it cool from here on out, but spend most of your time readying the tarps and fortified walls to ensconce yourself in because it’s gonna get bad. I remember when shit hit the fan for me, Adam. I cried like a fucking girl for an hour and felt worthless in my own name. Son, you best get out of there.

Get out of there Adam. Get out while you still can…can…can…(can…can…can…).

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Too many unanswered questions about where she said she was and where she actually was. Putting a GPS on her car opened a huge can of worms for the OP.

I would avoid the ensuing drama and cut it off ASAP, too much future heartache with that one.

After a failed marriage and broken engagement, I got out a piece of paper and wrote down all the things I needed to have in a new relationship.

The one I was engaged to had a plethora of personal and family secrets. 1/2 of them were welfare cheats or scammers. The other 1/2 wanted the world to believe they were in the mafia. Her brother committed suicide on New Years Day of 1980. Another brother married some girl who had a baby by another guy (that didn’t last). She wasn’t able to hold a minimum wage job either.

The kicker was that she had a baby in high school that she gave up for adoption and never told me. I knew she graduated a 1/2 year earlier in December and was working as a nanny for some rich people out in The Hamptons. It wound up she cared for her baby that these people adpoted. I had the inkling, but finally put 2 + 2 together which one of her girlfriends confirmed after we broke up.

Rob

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]super saiyan wrote:

[quote]pushharder wrote:
Put her in your car. Tell her you’re taking her to the movies, grocery store, Bed and Bath, whatever. On the way to whatever swing by the place the GPS says she was at. Watch her reaction.

Get out of the car, take her by the hand and lead her to the door. Watch her reaction.

Knock on the door. Watch her reaction.

Wait to see who answers the door. Watch her reaction.

I’ve a hunch things will flush themselves out, one way or the other.[/quote]

Brilliant, Push.[/quote]

I was trying to get to the end of the thread in case things had already played out beyond this but, yes, this should have been the last piece of advice given in this thread. It is all that is needed. It is perfection.

My hunch is, however, that Adam will not have the sack to do it. But it’s what NEEDS to be done. [/quote]

I think you missed that it is obviously the right reaction to have a deep love and understanding for a potential need for some bad boy cock on the side.

Maybe raise the potential biker spawn too.

Something like this,see?

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Late again, but…

Good grief.

There is an enormous jar full of balls pickling on a shelf somewhere.