[quote]on edge wrote:
You guys are being way too pessimistic. The chick had a plausible explanation that checked out. When Adam asked about the street initially, the name of the street probably didn’t even register because in her mind she was at the next street over. Case closed.[/quote]
No man it still feels bad.
The explanation was great except I haven’t seen anything explaining her spending the night there. Did she ever say why she spent the night at her friend’s house? Did she say why she lied about spending the night there multiple times? That’s a hang up man. Big time.[/quote]
back 10yrs or so, before I grew up, I had sex at one time or another with most of my friends girls, alot of them are still togeather today, anyway most of these guys were working for me, in one form or another, most of these chicks had witnessed or at least heard some tales of my violent behaviour, this was when I was living a bullshit life depended on my bullshit reputation.
Point is for what ever reason, chemical or whatever, chicks dig alpha males, they want to screw their brains out. I tried to give the op some good advice earlier, but dude you need to man up, in some form, this isn’t somthing you can just weasel out of, and let blow over, you were man enough to bring this chick home from the club, you need to show here somthing, or spend the rest of your life swallowing your pride, and living with a lump in your stomach
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I realize once we’re married, things will be different in that respect.
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If you are weeks away from marriage, nothing should be different between before and after regarding such things. You have some weird marriage customs in the states.
[quote]on edge wrote:
You guys are being way too pessimistic. The chick had a plausible explanation that checked out. When Adam asked about the street initially, the name of the street probably didn’t even register because in her mind she was at the next street over. Case closed.[/quote]
Honestly, I think she aught to leave him, dude is stalking her.
All I’m wondering is whether she’s fucking Carlos or some other guy.
She lied man, and she had a hell of a long time to come up with something. A ridiculously long time, if she couldn’t even remotely describe it the way that she just has to you back then, but can rattle it out through her teeth now, where does that leave you?
Even outside of the cheating, this marriage is rotten. Nothing about the whole circumstance tells me you should consider marrying her, maybe have sex with her a couple more times, but by no means marry her.
Meet Maria and Priscilla, if she’s going to marry you she’s not going to hide her friends from you, right? Don’t be blunt, but ask Priscilla, alone, how she knows your girl and when they get to see each other. Run this all by the story your girlfriend came up with, not just the fundamentals, every detail.
[quote]orourkei wrote:
Yea I’m with On Edge here. She had a very plausible reason and shows no other signs that she is unhappy or cheating. If she was cheating she would have felt like she was caught and she would have gone on the defensive. She was calm and just replied to his answer with out " uhh uhh uhh" fabricating the story. [/quote]
The best liars are the ones who can do it without breaking a sweat.
[quote]orourkei wrote:
Yea I’m with On Edge here. She had a very plausible reason and shows no other signs that she is unhappy or cheating. If she was cheating she would have felt like she was caught and she would have gone on the defensive. She was calm and just replied to his answer with out " uhh uhh uhh" fabricating the story. [/quote]
The best liars are the ones who can do it without breaking a sweat.[/quote]
You could not be more wrong. Everything your wife (or future wife) does is your business. I talk with my wife about everything. If I’m going somewhere I let her know about it and it’s been like that since long before we were married. [/quote]
It needs to be this way. It just does.[/quote]
Have you ever dated a mexican women? They are very jealous…
What I plan to tell her is that i’m going to hang out with friends and stuff sometimes and I hope she’s secure in the relationship, but if she ever has any doubts, she’s welcome to come check on me. I think this should go both ways.
[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:
All I’m wondering is whether she’s fucking Carlos or some other guy.
She lied man, and she had a hell of a long time to come up with something. A ridiculously long time, if she couldn’t even remotely describe it the way that she just has to you back then, but can rattle it out through her teeth now, where does that leave you?
Even outside of the cheating, this marriage is rotten. Nothing about the whole circumstance tells me you should consider marrying her, maybe have sex with her a couple more times, but by no means marry her.
Meet Maria and Priscilla, if she’s going to marry you she’s not going to hide her friends from you, right? Don’t be blunt, but ask Priscilla, alone, how she knows your girl and when they get to see each other. Run this all by the story your girlfriend came up with, not just the fundamentals, every detail.
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I’ve met Priscilla…
I agree on asking Priscilla alone…I will confirm everything she has told me.
[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:
All I’m wondering is whether she’s fucking Carlos or some other guy.
She lied man, and she had a hell of a long time to come up with something. A ridiculously long time, if she couldn’t even remotely describe it the way that she just has to you back then, but can rattle it out through her teeth now, where does that leave you?
Even outside of the cheating, this marriage is rotten. Nothing about the whole circumstance tells me you should consider marrying her, maybe have sex with her a couple more times, but by no means marry her.
Meet Maria and Priscilla, if she’s going to marry you she’s not going to hide her friends from you, right? Don’t be blunt, but ask Priscilla, alone, how she knows your girl and when they get to see each other. Run this all by the story your girlfriend came up with, not just the fundamentals, every detail.
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I’ve met Priscilla…
I agree on asking Priscilla alone…I will confirm everything she has told me.[/quote]
By all means ask Priscilla and just maybe she contradicts your girl/acts shifty, but most likely she’s already been clued in.
“I?ve been telling you the truth… I been hanging out with Priscilla at her house there is always so many people I been parking my car at my mom?s friend({Maria)?s moms. {Maria} lives right across from her mom and like the mom is never home she?s always in Mexico or California I was parking there safer than around the corner and Priscilla lives down the street… Priscilla works from 1pm to 9pm behind at boys and girls club that is why we used to hang out so late and specially because she was going to a rough time with Carlos situation…”
She has mentioned Priscilla having problem with Carlos and she has mentioned hanging with Priscilla a lot.
So this is a plausible scenario. although only 80-90%. The person i determined lives at the house she parks at is {Maria}, I didn’t even mention I knew that name to her, but that is who lives there according to the internet.
Could she have concocted this story based on what she’s able to look up on the internet in about an hours time? sure…but at least it’s plausible.[/quote]
Dude, she lied to you specifically about where she spent the night.
Go knock on that damn door and find out. At this point she already knows about the GPS, you might as well finish what you started. [/quote]
Just read the chick’s tale to a roomful of young professionals and the group erupted with laughter. Only a confused man would still want to marry her.
Why would an adult in a committed relationship regularly want to spend the whole damn night at a friend’s place? To engage in activities which are frowned upon at home. Usually drug use and fornication. Often both. Cause yolo is the mantra of this generation
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
You know what you gotta love about this guy? He’s started so many threads and gotten so much shit from so many people on this site (remember the “Am I a Beast?” thread part 1 and 2, when he asked how beastly he was based on his leg extension strength?), but the guy just doesn’t give a shit.
His only responses are as if everyone here is taking this issue as seriously as he is.
I’m serious, I really like the OP.
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What I particularly like is that he never ever shifts even a tiny bit in response to feedback. He always ends doing exactly what he was at the start.
My favorite thread was the My Wife Talks Too Much thread. That was before he got divorced and wound up with the girl who talked too little.
Good times.[/quote]
This post by EmilyQ needs to be reposted. She said this a month ago and holy moly, is this dead on or what?