I am saving this thread to my favorites, so when the OP asks what to do three years from now when his wife gives birth to a black kid, i can just say told ya so.
When i first brought it up, all i said was “do you know someone who lives on this street”? I said “my friends Ex mentioned see saw you the other night” (I said it very casually) , later i mentioned it again she said "oh yah my friend priscilla lives there and I’ve been hanging out with her a lot lately.
The fact that Priscilla lives a block away was the part which made me very suspicious. So if her WEIRD parking story is true and she had the exact name of the person who lives there that I already knew…
I don’t understand why she’s been there so late…BUT we’re not married yet and as long as she’s not cheating, being inappropriate, or disrespectful. It’s really none of my business, right? Sometimes I’ll go to my friends house until one in the morning and I don’t even mention it because I’m not doing anything wrong and it’s not like she’s at my house waiting up. I realize once we’re married, things will be different in that respect.
I’ve definitely approached the GPS from a premarital due diligence direction. I shouldn’t have told her about the GPS…but I needed some damn closure because the situation has been murdering me on the inside and couldn’t take it anymore.
I’m definitely going to continue to inquire into the houses on the GPS. I have already done so much digging (coming up with nothing) it’s ridiculous…but i’ll always be curious about it going forward.
Trust but verify…
She still lied about being out all night. She told you she was home when she wasn’t. Why would she originally lie about it if she had such an innocent excuse all along?
[quote]pushharder wrote:
She initially forcefully lied and said she was never there, right?
The car was there overnight two or three times, right?
You refuse to drive her over there and meet Priscilla and Maria, right?[/quote]
I know Priscilla lives over there because I looked it up.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
She initially forcefully lied and said she was never there, right?
The car was there overnight two or three times, right?
You refuse to drive her over there and meet Priscilla and Maria, right?[/quote]
I know Priscilla lives over there because I looked it up.[/quote]
Does priscilla go out? party? have any houseguests? I had a buddy who suspected nothing of his wife, she would go out once in a while and stay overnight at a girlfriends house. which she did. along with whoever they dragged home from the bar. dude dump the chick.
[quote]dshroy wrote:
[quote]adamhum wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
She initially forcefully lied and said she was never there, right?
The car was there overnight two or three times, right?
You refuse to drive her over there and meet Priscilla and Maria, right?[/quote]
I know Priscilla lives over there because I looked it up.[/quote]
Does priscilla go out? party? have any houseguests? I had a buddy who suspected nothing of his wife, she would go out once in a while and stay overnight at a girlfriends house. which she did. along with whoever they dragged home from the bar. dude dump the chick.[/quote]
Well i’m going to be paranoid for a while…i’m hoping to get back to a good place.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
I don’t understand why she’s been there so late…BUT we’re not married yet and as long as she’s not cheating, being inappropriate, or disrespectful. It’s really none of my business, right?
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You could not be more wrong. Everything your wife (or future wife) does is your business. I talk with my wife about everything. If I’m going somewhere I let her know about it and it’s been like that since long before we were married.
I didn’t know Priscilla was a guys name these days. With a name like that he’s probably hung like a horse.
Coming back to this thread, the last time I was reading it was before my personal escapades at night. This happened on a thursday/friday over the past 4 weeks.
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Lithuanian girl here studying. Had a BF, didnt stop her and me frog-footing each other all night and in the morning. She wasn’t drunk.
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Other woman has a BF/husband. Not sure on the details but we had sex and plenty of making out before in the club. She wasn’t drunk.
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Police woman I pulled, has a guy she is seeing but just got out of a 15 month long relationship/fling with a married guy who has a child. We had sex all night and in the morning.
What can I take from this? Well i am learning that you cannot even trust the good girls just like the bar sluts. I am not trying to comprehend the behaviour of these women because quite frankly I dont care but to know they did it just made my trust in women become that much less.
[quote]harrypotter wrote:
Coming back to this thread, the last time I was reading it was before my personal escapades at night. This happened on a thursday/friday over the past 4 weeks.
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Lithuanian girl here studying. Had a BF, didnt stop her and me frog-footing each other all night and in the morning. She wasn’t drunk.
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Other woman has a BF/husband. Not sure on the details but we had sex and plenty of making out before in the club. She wasn’t drunk.
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Police woman I pulled, has a guy she is seeing but just got out of a 15 month long relationship/fling with a married guy who has a child. We had sex all night and in the morning.
What can I take from this? Well i am learning that you cannot even trust the good girls just like the bar sluts. I am not trying to comprehend the behaviour of these women because quite frankly I dont care but to know they did it just made my trust in women become that much less.[/quote]
Doesn’t this highlight your backassward moral compass as well?
A married woman who still hangs out in the club scene and a lady who had a 15 month affair with a married guy who has kids are considered the “good girls”?
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
A married woman who still hangs out in the club scene and a lady who had a 15 month affair with a married guy who has kids are considered the “good girls”?[/quote]
When compared to homeless heroin addicts I suppose…
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
A married woman who still hangs out in the club scene and a lady who had a 15 month affair with a married guy who has kids are considered the “good girls”?[/quote]
These are dire times friend.
I don’t think op is ever going to get us answers
You guys are being way too pessimistic. The chick had a plausible explanation that checked out. When Adam asked about the street initially, the name of the street probably didn’t even register because in her mind she was at the next street over. Case closed.
[quote]on edge wrote:
You guys are being way too pessimistic. The chick had a plausible explanation that checked out. When Adam asked about the street initially, the name of the street probably didn’t even register because in her mind she was at the next street over. Case closed.[/quote]
No man it still feels bad.
The explanation was great except I haven’t seen anything explaining her spending the night there. Did she ever say why she spent the night at her friend’s house? Did she say why she lied about spending the night there multiple times? That’s a hang up man. Big time.
Yea I’m with On Edge here. She had a very plausible reason and shows no other signs that she is unhappy or cheating. If she was cheating she would have felt like she was caught and she would have gone on the defensive. She was calm and just replied to his answer with out " uhh uhh uhh" fabricating the story.