I actually hope all and any of the above happens as long as we get updates.
At least tell us you banged some German hookers
Why isn’t this shit concluded yet? Why won’t he do what push recommended?
[quote]PB Andy wrote:
Why isn’t this shit concluded yet? Why won’t he do what push recommended?[/quote]
Because the chick goes ass to mouth. a rare commodity these days.
[quote]dshroy wrote:
[quote]PB Andy wrote:
Why isn’t this shit concluded yet? Why won’t he do what push recommended?[/quote]
Because the chick goes ass to mouth. a rare commodity these days.[/quote]
I feel like that is the kind of information that needs to be told in the beginning. That changes EVERYTHING!!
oh wait…
Adam, I really think you should do what Push says about taking her for a ride. I know you said the GPS isn’t accurate to the exact house but does it really need to be? The woman you could have a family with and be with for life is big stakes. I think you can go to each house in a cluster in this circumstance. I really doubt you would have to go to a door anyway. I have a hunch an interesting conversation would begin before having to take that step.
I get the impression she is a fast talking quick witted latina who throws you on the defensive at will. I don’t mean this disrespectfully or anything, I’m just saying what my impression is from reading this. You’re a little scared to go up against her wit. Remember, you don’t have to have a come back for anything she says. At this point its on her to come up with a very plausible explanation. An accusation that you don’t trust her is not a plausible explanation.
By the way, as bleak as it looks, there could be a plausible explanation. The last year and a half has been very tuff for me at my work. Late last year I was told my boss was going to be removed by X date and I was going to get paid X amount. The date came and went with no supervisor change and my last bonus check came in way below what I was promised. The only conclusion I could make was that I was about to get fired. It turned out It just took them longer to implement the change and they (the owners) didn’t communicate to the controller what I was supposed to get paid. Sometimes the only explanation we can imagine is just not the correct one. This is why I previously urged you not to ever reveal your spying. You need to protect your relationship for that very small chance she’s not cheating.
One more thing. I urge you to get this matter wrapped up asap. You are being way too passive and it’s killing your physical and mental well being. What ever step you take, take it at your next possible opportunity. Stop dragging out the agony and move on with your life.
Putting a gps on your girls car is problem you need to fix internally, some kind of confidance issue, I’ve been with this girl for 6yrs, she’s half my age,we have a 5yr daughter. I told her if some Brad Pitt lookin guy wants to screw her, and she’s into it, call and let me know your out for the night, look we have a relationship, and a partnership, a daughter, couple house’s. and two buisness’s, and we try to have sex once and a while as well, if what she’s missing is a romp with some stud, good for her, I don’t want to know about it, we both screwed other people before we were togeather, so I don’t see the big deal, hopefuly she’s adult enough to keep it private and safe. Because of this I’ve never known her to spend a night away from me, but I love her and wouldn’t begrudge her a hour or two of fun. At the end of the day there’s only one person I have control over, and thats me, I have control only over my own feelings and emotions, and actions, my job is to work on me and make me the person she wants to be with, a person she’s proud to be with. At this point in my life through weights and work and buisness, I’m confidant in me, by alowing each other this kind of space and freedom, a relationship can grow.
What your talking about is insanity and imature, if you guys break up it’s your fault not hers, your focus is on her and on whatever guy you think she’s with, when it should be on you, and making you a guy she wants to be with, if you do you well enough, she’s not going to want to spend time with anyone else. Now I’m 39 and this girl is effectivly my third wife, but I’m still friends with the other two, first one shops with the girl I’m with now, so I had some lessons, if this girl wants to marry you, she loves you, you have no control over what she does when your not around, so worry about yourself bro, seems like you have alot to work on. goodluck
[quote]AnytimeJake wrote:
Putting a gps on your girls car is problem you need to fix internally, some kind of confidance issue, I’ve been with this girl for 6yrs, she’s half my age,we have a 5yr daughter. I told her if some Brad Pitt lookin guy wants to screw her, and she’s into it, call and let me know your out for the night, look we have a relationship, and a partnership, a daughter, couple house’s. and two buisness’s, and we try to have sex once and a while as well, if what she’s missing is a romp with some stud, good for her, I don’t want to know about it, we both screwed other people before we were togeather, so I don’t see the big deal, hopefuly she’s adult enough to keep it private and safe. Because of this I’ve never known her to spend a night away from me, but I love her and wouldn’t begrudge her a hour or two of fun. At the end of the day there’s only one person I have control over, and thats me, I have control only over my own feelings and emotions, and actions, my job is to work on me and make me the person she wants to be with, a person she’s proud to be with. At this point in my life through weights and work and buisness, I’m confidant in me, by alowing each other this kind of space and freedom, a relationship can grow.
What your talking about is insanity and imature, if you guys break up it’s your fault not hers, your focus is on her and on whatever guy you think she’s with, when it should be on you, and making you a guy she wants to be with, if you do you well enough, she’s not going to want to spend time with anyone else. Now I’m 39 and this girl is effectivly my third wife, but I’m still friends with the other two, first one shops with the girl I’m with now, so I had some lessons, if this girl wants to marry you, she loves you, you have no control over what she does when your not around, so worry about yourself bro, seems like you have alot to work on. goodluck
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I sincerely envy you for being so open minded, I really do. Unfortunately not everyone can (or wants to) play things out like this.
And about what you said regarding him needing to fix his shit up - your fears and insecurities, while part of it comes from your own personality, are there for a reason. And as far as we all understood, this shit is growing on him. Again, for a reason. If she really was the girlfriend next door and treated him well and honestly we wouldn’t have this thread in the first place.
Again, I think it is very dope of you to be so cool with your girl. My hat is off to you. Could never do this myself.
[quote]AnytimeJake wrote:
this girl is effectivly my third wife, but I’m still friends with the other two
[/quote]
how much did those two divorces cost you?
…
[quote]AnytimeJake wrote:
Putting a gps on your girls car is problem you need to fix internally, some kind of confidance issue, I’ve been with this girl for 6yrs, she’s half my age,we have a 5yr daughter. I told her if some Brad Pitt lookin guy wants to screw her, and she’s into it, call and let me know your out for the night, look we have a relationship, and a partnership, a daughter, couple house’s. and two buisness’s, and we try to have sex once and a while as well, if what she’s missing is a romp with some stud, good for her, I don’t want to know about it, we both screwed other people before we were togeather, so I don’t see the big deal, hopefuly she’s adult enough to keep it private and safe. Because of this I’ve never known her to spend a night away from me, but I love her and wouldn’t begrudge her a hour or two of fun. At the end of the day there’s only one person I have control over, and thats me, I have control only over my own feelings and emotions, and actions, my job is to work on me and make me the person she wants to be with, a person she’s proud to be with. At this point in my life through weights and work and buisness, I’m confidant in me, by alowing each other this kind of space and freedom, a relationship can grow.
What your talking about is insanity and imature, if you guys break up it’s your fault not hers, your focus is on her and on whatever guy you think she’s with, when it should be on you, and making you a guy she wants to be with, if you do you well enough, she’s not going to want to spend time with anyone else. Now I’m 39 and this girl is effectivly my third wife, but I’m still friends with the other two, first one shops with the girl I’m with now, so I had some lessons, if this girl wants to marry you, she loves you, you have no control over what she does when your not around, so worry about yourself bro, seems like you have alot to work on. goodluck
[/quote]
I hope you are exaggerating about the age thing, if not she was fourteen when you knocked
her up.
Seriously, very mature post otherwise.
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
[quote]AnytimeJake wrote:
Putting a gps on your girls car is problem you need to fix internally, some kind of confidance issue, I’ve been with this girl for 6yrs, she’s half my age,we have a 5yr daughter. I told her if some Brad Pitt lookin guy wants to screw her, and she’s into it, call and let me know your out for the night, look we have a relationship, and a partnership, a daughter, couple house’s. and two buisness’s, and we try to have sex once and a while as well, if what she’s missing is a romp with some stud, good for her, I don’t want to know about it, we both screwed other people before we were togeather, so I don’t see the big deal, hopefuly she’s adult enough to keep it private and safe. Because of this I’ve never known her to spend a night away from me, but I love her and wouldn’t begrudge her a hour or two of fun. At the end of the day there’s only one person I have control over, and thats me, I have control only over my own feelings and emotions, and actions, my job is to work on me and make me the person she wants to be with, a person she’s proud to be with. At this point in my life through weights and work and buisness, I’m confidant in me, by alowing each other this kind of space and freedom, a relationship can grow.
What your talking about is insanity and imature, if you guys break up it’s your fault not hers, your focus is on her and on whatever guy you think she’s with, when it should be on you, and making you a guy she wants to be with, if you do you well enough, she’s not going to want to spend time with anyone else. Now I’m 39 and this girl is effectivly my third wife, but I’m still friends with the other two, first one shops with the girl I’m with now, so I had some lessons, if this girl wants to marry you, she loves you, you have no control over what she does when your not around, so worry about yourself bro, seems like you have alot to work on. goodluck
[/quote]
I hope you are exaggerating about the age thing, if not she was fourteen when you knocked
her up.
Seriously, very mature post otherwise.[/quote]
Ahahah, that’s what I was wondering.
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
Put her in your car. Tell her you’re taking her to the movies, grocery store, Bed and Bath, whatever. On the way to whatever swing by the place the GPS says she was at. Watch her reaction.
Get out of the car, take her by the hand and lead her to the door. Watch her reaction.
Knock on the door. Watch her reaction.
Wait to see who answers the door. Watch her reaction.
I’ve a hunch things will flush themselves out, one way or the other.[/quote]
Brilliant, Push.[/quote]
I was trying to get to the end of the thread in case things had already played out beyond this but, yes, this should have been the last piece of advice given in this thread. It is all that is needed. It is perfection.
My hunch is, however, that Adam will not have the sack to do it. But it’s what NEEDS to be done.
[quote]Cortes wrote:
[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
Put her in your car. Tell her you’re taking her to the movies, grocery store, Bed and Bath, whatever. On the way to whatever swing by the place the GPS says she was at. Watch her reaction.
Get out of the car, take her by the hand and lead her to the door. Watch her reaction.
Knock on the door. Watch her reaction.
Wait to see who answers the door. Watch her reaction.
I’ve a hunch things will flush themselves out, one way or the other.[/quote]
Brilliant, Push.[/quote]
I was trying to get to the end of the thread in case things had already played out beyond this but, yes, this should have been the last piece of advice given in this thread. It is all that is needed. It is perfection.
My hunch is, however, that Adam will not have the sack to do it. But it’s what NEEDS to be done. [/quote]
I think you missed that it is obviously the right reaction to have a deep love and understanding for a potential need for some bad boy cock on the side.
Maybe raise the potential biker spawn too.
Something like this,see?
It is my fiancees birthday this weekend.
My plan:
- Tell her about this thread.
- Cancel our dinner reservations.
- Get a bottle of Jameson.
- We read this thread and every time Adam gets good advice we take a shot, every time he is told his girl is cheating we take 2.
- ???
- Birthday sex. (profit)
- Eagerly await Adam’s weekend confrontation.
[quote]setto222 wrote:
It is my fiancees birthday this weekend.
My plan:
- Tell her about this thread.
- Cancel our dinner reservations.
- Get a bottle of Jameson.
- We read this thread and every time Adam gets good advice we take a shot, every time he is told his girl is cheating we take 2.
- ???
- Birthday sex. (profit)
- Eagerly await Adam’s weekend confrontation. [/quote]
You think you can do that and still do the deed?
My girl is 25 and I’m 40, it’s still a little wierd because she was 19 when we met, but at that time I was just comming out of my criminal years, and she was a hot little chick that wanted to hang out with an outlaw, she got pregos, and I got straight, and we,ve built a great life togeather, sober and legit, no law breakin for 6yrs now, thats amazing for me, but the relationship part is the advice I was concerned with, goodluck
[quote]AnytimeJake wrote:
My girl is 25 and I’m 40, it’s still a little wierd because she was 19 when we met, but at that time I was just comming out of my criminal years, and she was a hot little chick that wanted to hang out with an outlaw, she got pregos, and I got straight, and we,ve built a great life togeather, sober and legit, no law breakin for 6yrs now, thats amazing for me, but the relationship part is the advice I was concerned with, goodluck[/quote]
Just good natured ball busting. I didn’t figure she was really half your age.
[quote]Testy1 wrote:
[quote]AnytimeJake wrote:
My girl is 25 and I’m 40, it’s still a little wierd because she was 19 when we met, but at that time I was just comming out of my criminal years, and she was a hot little chick that wanted to hang out with an outlaw, she got pregos, and I got straight, and we,ve built a great life togeather, sober and legit, no law breakin for 6yrs now, thats amazing for me, but the relationship part is the advice I was concerned with, goodluck[/quote]
Just good natured ball busting. I didn’t figure she was really half your age.[/quote]
But it’s still good to have confirmation, lol.
[quote]setto222 wrote:
It is my fiancees birthday this weekend.
My plan:
- Tell her about this thread.
- Cancel our dinner reservations.
- Get a bottle of Jameson.
- We read this thread and every time Adam gets good advice we take a shot, every time he is told his girl is cheating we take 2.
- ???
- Birthday sex. (profit)
- Eagerly await Adam’s weekend confrontation. [/quote]
No chance either of you makes it past page 5…