adamhum,
Hi, Im theBird. You have probably have heard of me.
Ive been keeping quiet for this whole thread, waiting to see what you do. You have received some decent advice from my fellow t-men, yet you have done nothing. Zero. Zilch. Nought. Zip.
Get of your ass, and do some investigation. Find out who lives at this house. Stake it out. Or even just confront her.
Dont respond to this post until you have a plan of what you are going to do.
Uncle Bird.
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[quote]Makavali wrote:
Maybe the fiance is planning a surprise bachelor party for OP.[/quote]
Mind = Blown…
This is one of the saddest threads in a while. It’s SAMA without the pics. OP do you have no self respect?
OP ask your soon to be for an MMF, see if she take you to her “friends” house.
Do you guys still regularly have sex? Not talking BJ’s and crap like that. If not, and she is ‘tired’ alot or ‘sick’ or something everytime it comes up then I would be worried about her having another man.
Sorry if that was already touch but I am late to this thread.
[quote]Waittz wrote:
Do you guys still regularly have sex? Not talking BJ’s and crap like that. If not, and she is ‘tired’ alot or ‘sick’ or something everytime it comes up then I would be worried about her having another man.
Sorry if that was already touch but I am late to this thread. [/quote]
More importantly, OP when’s the last time you’ve been tested for an STD?
OP-
She’s not the one. You don’t trust her, and she lies to you. You may love her sincerely - but you will always, always have doubt. See the endstate to this thing, and begin planning the confrontration.
She’s not the one.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
this…I mean, you know for a fact she was somewhere she is denying to be. Whether she was getting a mustache ride at the time, or babysitting some kid with down synrdrome, the fact is she completely is bullshitting you on where she was. And bitches that don’t have shit to hide shouldn’t be this scandalous–at least not ones that are wifey material.
If it were me, I would replant the GPS and wait for her to go to the place…then I would institute a fucking stake-out…wait up all night over there if you have to…catch her in the act when she is leaving, and maybe video tape it for us to laugh at…but I am a mother fucker that likes to have closure…any normal person would just realize he is being bullshitted, figure out that ain’t right, then dump the sorry whore. I prefer to ride things out to the end, even if I know they are inevitable. [/quote]
I’m with my good friend, BF, on this one.
You’ve got to nail this down. Quit pussyfootin’ around and get the job done. If you (and all us) are wrong, so be it. That’s better than bashing your head in with a concrete block for the next couple of years trying to figure things out.[/quote]
In agreement with this. Also like push’s idea about walking up to the door. Be careful that you don’t end up in jail for assault there because that is a prime head kicking in moment. Once you know just walk away.
[quote]bpick86 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
this…I mean, you know for a fact she was somewhere she is denying to be. Whether she was getting a mustache ride at the time, or babysitting some kid with down synrdrome, the fact is she completely is bullshitting you on where she was. And bitches that don’t have shit to hide shouldn’t be this scandalous–at least not ones that are wifey material.
If it were me, I would replant the GPS and wait for her to go to the place…then I would institute a fucking stake-out…wait up all night over there if you have to…catch her in the act when she is leaving, and maybe video tape it for us to laugh at…but I am a mother fucker that likes to have closure…any normal person would just realize he is being bullshitted, figure out that ain’t right, then dump the sorry whore. I prefer to ride things out to the end, even if I know they are inevitable. [/quote]
I’m with my good friend, BF, on this one.
You’ve got to nail this down. Quit pussyfootin’ around and get the job done. If you (and all us) are wrong, so be it. That’s better than bashing your head in with a concrete block for the next couple of years trying to figure things out.[/quote]
In agreement with this. Also like push’s idea about walking up to the door. Be careful that you don’t end up in jail for assault there because that is a prime head kicking in moment. Once you know just walk away.[/quote]
or shot…
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
[quote]bpick86 wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
this…I mean, you know for a fact she was somewhere she is denying to be. Whether she was getting a mustache ride at the time, or babysitting some kid with down synrdrome, the fact is she completely is bullshitting you on where she was. And bitches that don’t have shit to hide shouldn’t be this scandalous–at least not ones that are wifey material.
If it were me, I would replant the GPS and wait for her to go to the place…then I would institute a fucking stake-out…wait up all night over there if you have to…catch her in the act when she is leaving, and maybe video tape it for us to laugh at…but I am a mother fucker that likes to have closure…any normal person would just realize he is being bullshitted, figure out that ain’t right, then dump the sorry whore. I prefer to ride things out to the end, even if I know they are inevitable. [/quote]
I’m with my good friend, BF, on this one.
You’ve got to nail this down. Quit pussyfootin’ around and get the job done. If you (and all us) are wrong, so be it. That’s better than bashing your head in with a concrete block for the next couple of years trying to figure things out.[/quote]
In agreement with this. Also like push’s idea about walking up to the door. Be careful that you don’t end up in jail for assault there because that is a prime head kicking in moment. Once you know just walk away.[/quote]
or shot…[/quote]
That too.
Hey Adam, BE STRONG.
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
Is this a sexy enough pic for you usmccds?[/quote]
By T-Nation standards he’s actually been pretty good at updating us
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
Is this a sexy enough pic for you usmccds?[/quote]
lil skinny for my taste, but I’d stil bone…
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
Is this a sexy enough pic for you usmccds?[/quote]
lil skinny for my taste, but I’d stil bone…[/quote]
Man you get a gold star for the day. God I love puns.
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
Is this a sexy enough pic for you usmccds?[/quote]
lil skinny for my taste, but I’d stil bone…[/quote]
Man you get a gold star for the day. God I love puns.[/quote]
Yesssssssssss
Op, please tell me you are trolling. I feel bad for your situation, but you have gotten 16 pages of good advice, and havent dont shit. you are just as much at fault as she is for the way you are feeling. I was in the same situation a few years back, so i am talking from experience.
God this thread drives me NUTS
[quote]setto222 wrote:
God this thread drives me NUTS[/quote]
pics or it didnt happen?
OP, given from what you’ve told us, you’re ignoring your instincts because you believe that they may be playing you false.
Is this correct?
If so, have you done anything to actively address this issue - your issue with jealousy, paranoia, whatever?
If you have, then sadly you know your answer.
If you haven’t, then THAT problem needs to be addressed or re-addressed no matter what happens. If you don’t, then your future relationships will probably get sabotaged the same demons - either with this girlfriend or a future one. It might be time for counseling and/or medication. There is no shame in fixing a problem. There is shame in knowing that you have a problem and failing to address it.
Push has the best solution - confront the problem. If you are totally wrong, then you can honestly tell her that you have a problem and you’re working on it. If you’re right and she is cheating, then move on.
For the record, I wouldn’t admit to the GPS. It’s good to keep some things in your back pocket. Even if you show up there, and she asks how did you know - lie. A friend saw her car there, whatever.
Either way, the sooner you find out the truth, the happier you’ll be.
Sorry that you’re going through this, but thanks for bringing us along for the ride.
I sincerely hope OP does not back out at the last second and wait so long he actually ends up marrying her. Please just take some of the advice presented here, put the relationship down for good, and enjoy your time frolicking in happiness with single women. Do not try to cling onto this because society tells you to try and salvage the relationship, she is simply not that important.
