Haha, oh my!!! That break up on the radio was too funny!!! Those guys on the radio are dicks though…
Yeah the video breakup thing was cool but the OP is gone and has left us hanging again.
[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
[quote]strungoutboy21 wrote:
[quote]atypical1 wrote:
[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
Jesus, that was harsh. I don’t know if I would’ve handled it the same way, but I can’t blame him for what he did.[/quote]
I don’t understand the point of publicly humiliating someone like that regardless of what she did. That was a pussy move on his part.
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I agree with you. It’s like he was sinking to her level. [/quote]
Ah, I wouldn’t go that far. If the broadcast was to be believed, she was out at bars making out with her friend Erik knowing full well her boyfriend of 5 years was going to propose. Was she humiliated on the air? Yeah, and it was tough to listen to. How do you think he felt when he found out his fiance-to-be was macking on other people? Probably humiliated as well.
He could’ve done any number of worse things: keyed her car, sent nudes of her to family and friends, posted vids online…instead he contributed to a 10 minute radio gag. She was ready to marry the poor sucker, honestly she got off easy.
In my opinion, living a good life is the best revenge. That being said, I understand why the guy did what he did.
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I can see your point. Personally I wouldn’t have done it, that’s just me though. You are right about living your life is the best revenge.
This thread: where T-Nation meets an episode of Gossip Girl.
XOXO Gossip Guy
I WANT TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENED NEXT!!! GOD DAMMIT…>TELL US
[quote]VTBalla34 wrote:
I WANT TO KNOW WHAT HAPPENED NEXT!!! GOD DAMMIT…>TELL US[/quote]
No kidding! I come back here every day with nothing!!!
We need to wait until he gets back from Europe before the spectacular final instalment.
Bump.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
[quote]challer1 wrote:
For the OP (who I think has a high likelihood of just trolling), I think it’d be pretty easy to confront your fiancee with the GPS evidence and justifying it via .
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Say a few weeks ago your friend pointed out her car at XYZ location.
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Since she told you she was staying home, you drove by to confirm the friend’s evidence, not wanting to place your friend’s word over your fiancees.
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You visually confirmed her car on the street following your friend’s report.
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The next day (after you supposedly visually confirmed) you asked her how her night was, she replied she stayed home.
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Since suspicion was beginning to build, you got the GPS tracker and put it in her car. Tell her its been making regular trips to this house the whole time you are gone.
She can’t say “not true”. There is of course the distinct possibility that she is over there not necessarily cheating but doing something that she does not want you to find out about.
Worst case: She’s using drugs and that’s her dealers house. It can be difficult to spot someone on pills in the early stages of their addiction.
Possible case: She needs money for something she doesn’t want you to know about. She could have racked up a big debt from gambling, drugs, or even just shopping on a credit card. She might not be able to make rent because she got into debt and is just trying to make ends meet until you guys get married. Then you get surprised with the info that she has a mountain of debt.
Although the odds of this would be virtually zero, it would be fucked if she was over there babysitting to make some extra cash in order to surprise you with a gift on your wedding day or on the honeymoon.[/quote]
The only way I can make this make sense:
I’ve broke up with this girl three times in three years. I went through a nasty situation with my last relationship and i needed to sort through which issues I had were me and which ones were valid.
She really wants to get married, she’s 35 and the clock is ticking. It’s possible she thinks I might flake out on her again and she has herself a backup guy. The guy she was seeing before me wanted to get married too, but she didn’t love him.
So it’s possible she’s keeping this guy in the picture just in case I flake out again. Why this guy is ok with this I don’t know, perhaps he’s thankful for the bootycall.
This GPS device is accurate, I see when she’s home, I see when she’s at the mall, I see when she’s at home. Why would it be wrong?
I think if I confront her with the GPS…it’s going to be bad…
I guess I could do what you said, say that I’ve heard a few times that people have seen her at that address, I put the GPS in her car because i had to find out for myself before I married her to give me piece of mind leading up the the wedding.
You’re right, I most likely ruined any way of catching her in the act. I wish I had been in town to camp out at the address until she pulled out of the garage.
BTW i’m definitely not a troll…I like to get feedback from people who don’t know me in person. I need good ideas sometimes…
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Honestly i would just say fuck it. The longer you wait, the worse off things are gonna be. Dont mention the GPS, just ask her whos house it is. Dont explain how you know or where you got this information, and if she tells you its just a friend, make her prove it.
[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:
Honestly i would just say fuck it. The longer you wait, the worse off things are gonna be. Dont mention the GPS, just ask her whos house it is. Dont explain how you know or where you got this information, and if she tells you its just a friend, make her prove it.
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His last response was so long ago by now he’s probably already drowning in the cataclysm of his actions. I wonder what those actions were in the end.
[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:
[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:
Honestly i would just say fuck it. The longer you wait, the worse off things are gonna be. Dont mention the GPS, just ask her whos house it is. Dont explain how you know or where you got this information, and if she tells you its just a friend, make her prove it.
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His last response was so long ago by now he’s probably already drowning in the cataclysm of his actions. I wonder what those actions were in the end.[/quote]
Or he’s been murdered by crystal meth tweakers and we’re shit out of luck
It has been a good while since I last posted here, but this is just what happened to me a while ago.
OP, listen man, this happened to me about two months ago and had I sacked up and confrontated my girl at the time, I would have saved myself a lot of time.
I was just like you are, except for the wanting-to-get-married part. We were together for a while and she seemed to be the nicest girl on the planet. Until something happened. I will not go through the details, but she started acting shady all of a sudden. She wouldn’t text me back or answer my calls later at night. I’d see that she was last seen on whatsapp at 3 AM on a Thursday. I had all the reasons to BE SURE something was wrong, but instead I always decided to hear what she had to say and she ended up convincing me it was just all in my head.
Until she broke up with me and showed up with the son of a state senator the next week.
Man, let me tell you… Man, we have a fucking sixth sense for bullshit. And it works. If it rings, and I’m sure as hell yours is, then THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG. Don’t ignore it. Don’t play it cool and wait to see what happens. If you give her a chance to explain herself, she’s most likely to convince you everything is ok (plus, if you like her, you’ll be willing to believe her in the first place).
However I do wish this is all a big misunderstanding and you guys can manage to work shit out.
But in case it isn’t, fuck her and move on.
[quote]Brant2 wrote:
Man, let me tell you… Man, we have a fucking sixth sense for bullshit. And it works.[/quote]
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:
[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:
Honestly i would just say fuck it. The longer you wait, the worse off things are gonna be. Dont mention the GPS, just ask her whos house it is. Dont explain how you know or where you got this information, and if she tells you its just a friend, make her prove it.
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His last response was so long ago by now he’s probably already drowning in the cataclysm of his actions. I wonder what those actions were in the end.[/quote]
Or he’s been murdered by crystal meth tweakers and we’re shit out of luck[/quote]
Hopefully he’s survived, and sooner or later he’ll reappear with a thread dedicated to his new wife and their cuckold relationship with Mr. House Number 47.
[quote]Big Kahuna wrote:
[quote]audiogarden1 wrote:
Honestly i would just say fuck it. The longer you wait, the worse off things are gonna be. Dont mention the GPS, just ask her whos house it is. Dont explain how you know or where you got this information, and if she tells you its just a friend, make her prove it.
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His last response was so long ago by now he’s probably already drowning in the cataclysm of his actions. I wonder what those actions were in the end.[/quote]
Shit, didnt notice. Was going off the date of the other recent responses LOL
Do they have internet in jail?
I know that its selfish, but I got to know whether she did it or not.
And what he did.
Pretty much all of the drama please.
Sorry for not responding sooner, sometimes just thinking about this stuff makes me feel like i got kicked in the stomach by a mule.
So i’m back from germany and she seems very happy and crazy about me. I’ve been losing a lot of sleep over it and i’m trying to play it smart.
So, i charged the GPS and put it back in her car. If she goes back there I will wait for her to leave and then break everything off with her. I know if i question her about it she’ll just deny it.
I’ve been racking my brain and the only thing that makes any sense is that over the years I’ve been flaky, i’ve broke up with her twice. Once because i was going through a very bad time and she was stressing me more. Second time she was presuring me to marry her. After about 5 months told her I was ready to commit. She took me back after thinking about it for about a month. She was dating a guy who she didn’t love, but did want to get married. She’s 36 and wants get married pretty badly. Her clock is ticking i guess.
So I think it’s possible she decided since I’m so flaky that she would keep this guy on the side just in case i backed out on the deal.
So i’m going to see if she goes back over there. What if she doesn’t see the guy again because she feels more secure in the relationship? then I’ll never trust her still.
I know i shouldn’t marry her…i’m not dumb…i’m just crazy about her and when we were apart for those 5 months i was miserable. So if there’s any chance she’s not a cheating a whore…
I really can’t think of anyway to find out who this guy is so i can track his address down easier. GPS is only accurate within so many feet.
[quote]adamhum wrote:
Sorry for not responding sooner, sometimes just thinking about this stuff makes me feel like i got kicked in the stomach by a mule.
So i’m back from germany and she seems very happy and crazy about me. I’ve been losing a lot of sleep over it and i’m trying to play it smart.
So, i charged the GPS and put it back in her car. If she goes back there I will wait for her to leave and then break everything off with her. I know if i question her about it she’ll just deny it.
I’ve been racking my brain and the only thing that makes any sense is that over the years I’ve been flaky, i’ve broke up with her twice. Once because i was going through a very bad time and she was stressing me more. Second time she was presuring me to marry her. After about 5 months told her I was ready to commit. She took me back after thinking about it for about a month. She was dating a guy who she didn’t love, but did want to get married. She’s 36 and wants get married pretty badly. Her clock is ticking i guess.
So I think it’s possible she decided since I’m so flaky that she would keep this guy on the side just in case i backed out on the deal.
So i’m going to see if she goes back over there. What if she doesn’t see the guy again because she feels more secure in the relationship? then I’ll never trust her still.
I know i shouldn’t marry her…i’m not dumb…i’m just crazy about her and when we were apart for those 5 months i was miserable. So if there’s any chance she’s not a cheating a whore…
I really can’t think of anyway to find out who this guy is so i can track his address down easier. GPS is only accurate within so many feet.[/quote]
Hire a private investigator.