Regardless of a man or woman cheating, it hurts so much more when a woman does it to you. Its emasculating and as you’d know, pussy is power when it comes to using it.
Your wife/GF of how many years could walk into a bar/club and get a guy to sleep with her. How many non-cheating men in a “safe” relationship could do that?
[quote]challer1 wrote:
For the OP (who I think has a high likelihood of just trolling), I think it’d be pretty easy to confront your fiancee with the GPS evidence and justifying it via .
Say a few weeks ago your friend pointed out her car at XYZ location.
Since she told you she was staying home, you drove by to confirm the friend’s evidence, not wanting to place your friend’s word over your fiancees.
You visually confirmed her car on the street following your friend’s report.
The next day (after you supposedly visually confirmed) you asked her how her night was, she replied she stayed home.
Since suspicion was beginning to build, you got the GPS tracker and put it in her car. Tell her its been making regular trips to this house the whole time you are gone.
She can’t say “not true”. There is of course the distinct possibility that she is over there not necessarily cheating but doing something that she does not want you to find out about.
Worst case: She’s using drugs and that’s her dealers house. It can be difficult to spot someone on pills in the early stages of their addiction.
Possible case: She needs money for something she doesn’t want you to know about. She could have racked up a big debt from gambling, drugs, or even just shopping on a credit card. She might not be able to make rent because she got into debt and is just trying to make ends meet until you guys get married. Then you get surprised with the info that she has a mountain of debt.
Although the odds of this would be virtually zero, it would be fucked if she was over there babysitting to make some extra cash in order to surprise you with a gift on your wedding day or on the honeymoon.[/quote]
The only way I can make this make sense:
I’ve broke up with this girl three times in three years. I went through a nasty situation with my last relationship and i needed to sort through which issues I had were me and which ones were valid.
She really wants to get married, she’s 35 and the clock is ticking. It’s possible she thinks I might flake out on her again and she has herself a backup guy. The guy she was seeing before me wanted to get married too, but she didn’t love him.
So it’s possible she’s keeping this guy in the picture just in case I flake out again. Why this guy is ok with this I don’t know, perhaps he’s thankful for the bootycall.
This GPS device is accurate, I see when she’s home, I see when she’s at the mall, I see when she’s at home. Why would it be wrong?
I think if I confront her with the GPS…it’s going to be bad…
I guess I could do what you said, say that I’ve heard a few times that people have seen her at that address, I put the GPS in her car because i had to find out for myself before I married her to give me piece of mind leading up the the wedding.
You’re right, I most likely ruined any way of catching her in the act. I wish I had been in town to camp out at the address until she pulled out of the garage.
BTW i’m definitely not a troll…I like to get feedback from people who don’t know me in person. I need good ideas sometimes…
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
I think there is some truth to this as most women cheat because they are unhappy…if its sex there unhappy about may not always be the case.
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
false.
women love and fuck, opportunistically.
I have fucked women who were in relationships, because while their partner gently caressed her with his penis, I fucked her right.
However, that does not mean she would want to be in a relationship with me.
If you turn that around, if you fuck her right, she will fuck you even if she is in an relationship, but she has other needs too.
I would not want to be the one providing safety, security and emotional comfort though while she gets her freak on with someone else.
Dont know what lesson to draw from this, but I thought it was relevant to your question.
Well, maybe, if you can do both, you are a rare kind of bird indeed and she better apreciate what you are bringing to the table.
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
I think there is some truth to this as most women cheat because they are unhappy…if its sex there unhappy about may not always be the case.[/quote]
I think that is written as unhaaaaaaaappppyyyyy.
The center piece of frivources.
Note that you, as a man, are supposed to make her haaaappppyyy, even if she herself has no idea what is missing.
But, surely, a new dick will be the happyness injection she so desperately needa.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
I think there is some truth to this as most women cheat because they are unhappy…if its sex there unhappy about may not always be the case.[/quote]
I think that is written as unhaaaaaaaappppyyyyy.
The center piece of frivources.
Note that you, as a man, are supposed to make her haaaappppyyy, even if she herself has no idea what is missing.
But, surely, a new dick will be the happyness injection she so desperately needa. [/quote]
Its either that or she’s just a whore.
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
I think there is some truth to this as most women cheat because they are unhappy…if its sex there unhappy about may not always be the case.[/quote]
I think that is written as unhaaaaaaaappppyyyyy.
The center piece of frivources.
Note that you, as a man, are supposed to make her haaaappppyyy, even if she herself has no idea what is missing.
But, surely, a new dick will be the happyness injection she so desperately needa. [/quote]
Its either that or she’s just a whore.[/quote]
not as long as she is not taking money directly.
Low impulse control, thats what it is.
Women encouraged to pursue puerile fantasies.
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
I think there is some truth to this as most women cheat because they are unhappy…if its sex there unhappy about may not always be the case.[/quote]
I think that is written as unhaaaaaaaappppyyyyy.
The center piece of frivources.
Note that you, as a man, are supposed to make her haaaappppyyy, even if she herself has no idea what is missing.
But, surely, a new dick will be the happyness injection she so desperately needa. [/quote]
Its either that or she’s just a whore.[/quote]
Also, whores are great.
The most honest women you will ever meet.
Some of them.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
false.
women love and fuck, opportunistically.
I have fucked women who were in relationships, because while their partner gently caressed her with his penis, I fucked her right.
However, that does not mean she would want to be in a relationship with me.
If you turn that around, if you fuck her right, she will fuck you even if she is in an relationship, but she has other needs too.
I would not want to be the one providing safety, security and emotional comfort though while she gets her freak on with someone else.
Dont know what lesson to draw from this, but I thought it was relevant to your question.
Well, maybe, if you can do both, you are a rare kind of bird indeed and she better apreciate what you are bringing to the table. [/quote]
Hold on, you’re looking at it from two perspectives and focusing predominantly on the guy she’s cheating with. I’m talking about the guy she’s currently seeing. The fact you said the hypothetical chick you’re cheating with doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you suggests my statement to be true.
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
false.
women love and fuck, opportunistically.
I have fucked women who were in relationships, because while their partner gently caressed her with his penis, I fucked her right.
However, that does not mean she would want to be in a relationship with me.
If you turn that around, if you fuck her right, she will fuck you even if she is in an relationship, but she has other needs too.
I would not want to be the one providing safety, security and emotional comfort though while she gets her freak on with someone else.
Dont know what lesson to draw from this, but I thought it was relevant to your question.
Well, maybe, if you can do both, you are a rare kind of bird indeed and she better apreciate what you are bringing to the table. [/quote]
Hold on, you’re looking at it from two perspectives and focusing predominantly on the guy she’s cheating with. I’m talking about the guy she’s currently seeing. The fact you said the hypothetical chick you’re cheating with doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you suggests my statement to be true. [/quote]
To get to the heart of the matter:
Either Socrates or Plato said something like “too much gymnastics and boys become more wild than is right, too much music and they become more soft than is beautiful”.
Gymnastics meaning the art of war, mostly, music meaning, well, music, poetry and whatnot.
The trouble is, most men these day fall firmly in the latter camp.
Human sexuality, male sexuality specifically, does not work without directed, controlled, aggression.
Most men have such a block in their heads regarding aggression against females that they cannot do that even if she desperately craves it.
Now you know why assholes do get all the girls, because they do not give a fuck.
If you however are able to be sexually aggresive not in spite of loving her but because you love her, you are the light and the assholes are the shadow.
If you cant, because she is a “good” woman who just has sex because she does you a favor, or so you think, she will get it somewhere else.
Finally, hypergamy.
If someone offers a better deal, in her mind at least, she will leave.
Does not matter what you do.
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
[quote]mbdix wrote:
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
Also, the thing is the chick cheated IN PUBLIC. She was caught fucking around in public and even admitted to it WHILE she was engaged.
I’m sorry, but mercy in this case should not be on the table. Maybe if she had privately admitted it to him and asked his forgiveness.
Thing is…chicks that cheat…typically continue to cheat. It’s tough to remove the stripes from a tiger. Trust me, I know.[/quote]
Queue cliche - “An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind”
To me it’s not about demonstrating mercy, but rather showing restraint and control of your own emotions even in the face of blind anger. To me it’s more about not giving into your darker side of vengeance.
Is she deserving of what she got? Absolutely, No question.
But I think it suffices perfectly just to dump her on her ass and never speak to her again.
Everyone would have found out she was a cheating whore anyways when they asked why he dumped her.[/quote]
Dude the chick is a cheater, and lies. Why would you think she would be honest about why he broke up with her? [/quote]
What I meant was when people ask him, not her.
[/quote]
I just read that wrong then. My bad
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Gettnitdone wrote:
True or False: If you fuck your girl right there’s no reason she should cheat on you…?[/quote]
false.
women love and fuck, opportunistically.
I have fucked women who were in relationships, because while their partner gently caressed her with his penis, I fucked her right.
However, that does not mean she would want to be in a relationship with me.
If you turn that around, if you fuck her right, she will fuck you even if she is in an relationship, but she has other needs too.
I would not want to be the one providing safety, security and emotional comfort though while she gets her freak on with someone else.
Dont know what lesson to draw from this, but I thought it was relevant to your question.
Well, maybe, if you can do both, you are a rare kind of bird indeed and she better apreciate what you are bringing to the table. [/quote]
Hold on, you’re looking at it from two perspectives and focusing predominantly on the guy she’s cheating with. I’m talking about the guy she’s currently seeing. The fact you said the hypothetical chick you’re cheating with doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you suggests my statement to be true. [/quote]
To get to the heart of the matter:
Either Socrates or Plato said something like “too much gymnastics and boys become more wild than is right, too much music and they become more soft than is beautiful”.
Gymnastics meaning the art of war, mostly, music meaning, well, music, poetry and whatnot.
The trouble is, most men these day fall firmly in the latter camp.
Human sexuality, male sexuality specifically, does not work without directed, controlled, aggression.
Most men have such a block in their heads regarding aggression against females that they cannot do that even if she desperately craves it.
Now you know why assholes do get all the girls, because they do not give a fuck.
If you however are able to be sexually aggresive not in spite of loving her but because you love her, you are the light and the assholes are the shadow.
If you cant, because she is a “good” woman who just has sex because she does you a favor, or so you think, she will get it somewhere else.
Finally, hypergamy.
If someone offers a better deal, in her mind at least, she will leave.
Does not matter what you do. [/quote]
Damn, this is gold.
RE: that radio show video
Wow. She got what was coming to her. I don’t know how I’d feel if I was that guy, so I can’t say that I wouldn’t have done it, but I hope I wouldn’t have. I certainly understand why he did it. Those radio guys were shock jocks… so I understand (and avoid) them.
If that would have been my friend, I would have counseled him NOT to do it though. Not because she didn’t deserve it (she did), but because it’s just adding more pain to an already horrible situation. And those radio guys struck me as being trash.
That said, what would YOU do? What would you advise that guy on the video?
I’m thinking I’d put her stuff in boxes, throw them in the stoop, and give her a call. She would NOT be allowed back inside. I’d probably also call a buddy for some moral support and to stop me from ending up in jail. She lies. Whose to say she wouldn’t be lying about that. That and I’d be tempted to hit her or go after that guy.
In conclusion: wow, what a bitch.
[quote]orion wrote:
Well, maybe, if you can do both, you are a rare kind of bird indeed and she better apreciate what you are bringing to the table. [/quote]
So if i were an advanced delusionary schizophrenic with involuntary narcissistic rage, she would appreciate me more? (Me, Myself and Irene.)
[quote]dmaddox wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
OP, unfortunately, you will have to find evidence and do this ^^^^.
Your hands are really bound now. [/quote]
OMG!!! That was awesome.[/quote]
Jesus, that was harsh. I don’t know if I would’ve handled it the same way, but I can’t blame him for what he did.
[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
Jesus, that was harsh. I don’t know if I would’ve handled it the same way, but I can’t blame him for what he did.[/quote]
I don’t understand the point of publicly humiliating someone like that regardless of what she did. That was a pussy move on his part.
james
[quote]atypical1 wrote:
[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
Jesus, that was harsh. I don’t know if I would’ve handled it the same way, but I can’t blame him for what he did.[/quote]
I don’t understand the point of publicly humiliating someone like that regardless of what she did. That was a pussy move on his part.
james
[/quote]
I agree with you. It’s like he was sinking to her level.
[quote]strungoutboy21 wrote:
[quote]atypical1 wrote:
[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
Jesus, that was harsh. I don’t know if I would’ve handled it the same way, but I can’t blame him for what he did.[/quote]
I don’t understand the point of publicly humiliating someone like that regardless of what she did. That was a pussy move on his part.
james
[/quote]
I agree with you. It’s like he was sinking to her level. [/quote]
Ah, I wouldn’t go that far. If the broadcast was to be believed, she was out at bars making out with her friend Erik knowing full well her boyfriend of 5 years was going to propose. Was she humiliated on the air? Yeah, and it was tough to listen to. How do you think he felt when he found out his fiance-to-be was macking on other people? Probably humiliated as well.
He could’ve done any number of worse things: keyed her car, sent nudes of her to family and friends, posted vids online…instead he contributed to a 10 minute radio gag. She was ready to marry the poor sucker, honestly she got off easy.
In my opinion, living a good life is the best revenge. That being said, I understand why the guy did what he did.
[quote]strungoutboy21 wrote:
[quote]atypical1 wrote:
[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
Jesus, that was harsh. I don’t know if I would’ve handled it the same way, but I can’t blame him for what he did.[/quote]
I don’t understand the point of publicly humiliating someone like that regardless of what she did. That was a pussy move on his part.
james
[/quote]
I agree with you. It’s like he was sinking to her level. [/quote]
That is a trope I am tired of.
If you retaliate you do not sink to someone elses level.
For that, you would have needed to start it, like she did.