Before I continue I’d like to clarify something- In the following I’m addressing Nikki and Nikki alone, not her unnamed efriends who send PMs full of motivational and commiserating words. I’m saying this publicly because well, that’s my style.
Long, long ago in a galaxy far far away I almost quit Figure Athlete because a (formerly) high profile “coach” made fun of my lifting videos and called me out. I was angry, my feelings were hurt, and there was absofuckingloutely no way I was about to defend MY lifting on the fucking internet to some goddamned stranger.
I got even more upset about “losing” the ability to post on a website I liked. I vented to my BF at the time, and he made sure to point out that I was too old to act like such an immature little cunt, that I was without real coaching, and that I had to learn many things the hard way. That was before he pointed out that my videos actually DID suck and that if I didnt want to be mocked I shouldnt post at all ever.
So I changed my mind and joined in the mockery. Oh, sure, lots of other people were still upset and that’s fine. There are very few epeople about whom I consider giving half a shit, and they know who they are. Most of this is purely entertainment anymore.
You as an eperson annoy the fuck out of me by claiming shit lifts and adding MP to your total, but if I didn’t take an interest I wouldn’t have ever clicked on your log in the first place, or second…
Your persistence and (somewhat) consistent positive attitude are admirable and will carry you far, both in and out of the gym.
However, I don’t want you to feel as though you have to defend your lifts to me. There’s nothing to defend. I can see your spotter flexing as he pulls a 165 bench off of you and I can see your form collapse before you rerack the weight, something that couldnt happen without injury if you were bearing the weight yourself.
I see that your deadstop rows are sloppy and do not stop dead until the end of the set when you get tired.
I’m not questioning your integrity or doubting your character as an IRL person, I’m saying that some of your lifts suck, and were this a competition, you’d have appreciated the spotters on that bench.
SO WHAT. It happens to all of us, me included.
pssst-
you’re not the only person who’s heard me say that their lifts suck. I’m just as happy to celebrate someone elses PR as I am my own, but we learn more from the fuckups than we do the good shit, and thats why MOST of us are here.
If you’d like to stay SO touchy, defensive, and immature then by all means do so. I’ll tell you now that it’s a fucking waste of energy better spent elsewhere.
HOWEVER. I’d like to see you stick around, grow a set of balls, and learn to lift/take criticism properly. You’re already strong and could do very well in competition if you chose to go that route, ESPECIALLY because you’re so young and have made so much progress in the last year.
and, because it’s my style, here’s a link to that thread on FA-
http://figureathlete.T-Nation.com/free_online_forum/sports_model_body_women_training_beauty_figure_train/cbear_lifting_vids
If I can find both, I’ll also post the video of my “155x3” bench and my “15 pullups.” I put both in quotations because they’re so awful I cant list them seriously.