[quote]pat wrote:
[quote]ephrem wrote:
good = benefits society / bad = detriment to society
[off to bed, early shift tomorrow][/quote]
That’s call “utilitarianism” and it’s not a good model for morality. By that model, killing off the decreped, retards, really old people, or anything obviously useless to society as a whole would an acceptable act.
We can bitch, moan, whine and complain about each other’s point of view however, getting these words defined is the key to having a productive discussion.
What makes an act, good? Is something that is good always an act. Same for evil.
Let’s take some extreme examples and discuss what makes them what they are:
A good act:
You find a staving sick orphan, you take him, get him medical care, feed and care for him.
Would this be a good act? Why? Would it still be a good act even it society was against it?
A evil act:
Raping a child.
Would this be an evil act? Why? Would it still be evil if perfectly acceptable by society?
Morality is a difficult thing to discuss because we all have sense of it, we just cannot define it.[/quote]
I can agree with everything you have pointed out here, even though I am not a theist. I would describe morality as the set of principles we should live by when interacting with others. I think we’re all shit out of luck when it comes to constructing a perfect system of morality. Nevertheless, I also think we’re shit out of luck when it comes to knowing whether any sort of god exists, or whether that god gives one damn about us one way or another, or knows how we should act any better than anyone. Furthermore, I think there’s no way to set one faith as better than any other without a human standard apart from religion. For instance, I judge Christianity to be morally superior to Islam, by what I consider human standards, even though I don’t find either one more believable than the other.
Moving on, acknowledging that you won’t agree with everything written here, we still have to live with each other, and hopefully we’re not interested in killing each other in order to settle our disagreements. We both possess a sense of self-worth (you may see yours as coming from God, while I see mine as intrinsic). We both want to be free to live our own lives. Neither of us wants to be controlled by another person. (Well, you may want God to control your life, but I’m also sure that you believe that God has your best interests in mind.) We have stuff to work with here, we still have things in common - all of us do. Furthermore, I still believe in the Golden Rule. Looking out for each other has proven benefits to everyone individually. People still matter. I don’t have to trade the altar of God for the altar of “society” to figure out how to do right by others. I just have to be able to imagine myself in that other person’s shoes, and realize I could be this person, or someone I care about could be this person.