Not as pleased as she was evidently … bow chikka bow wow
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LoL!!
Oh and he’s def not with other people right now. He’s been with fewer people than I have and I haven’t been with very many people.
Thanks so much everyone!! 
And mods can you please delete this thread now? Not that he would ever see it, but just out of respect.
Do I have to message them or something somehow?
Testing
Mods plz delete
Edit : never mind.
But Jenn, we are all to invested in this relationship now. Please at least give us proper closure!
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Lmao I thought the sex was the closure hahhah
Maybe you can give periodic top line updates on your log.
I’ve been following this story like a freaking tela novella.
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LoL!
I’m glad he got his act together and that everything is going so well!
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This in itself might appear awkward to some people. However, this doesn’t mean the awkwardness turns people off, especially kind and sensitive people. I’ve met many quirky, awkward people, but in nearly all cases these qualities have never turned me off considering they were nearly all good people.
One guy at my previous job was especially eccentric. A particularly odd behavior he had was to say greet everyone within sight, even if they were too far away to greet without raising one’s voice! He’d have to scurry around to give everyone a pound or handshake.
And ya know how many times family members and friends have said to me throughout the years, “You’re a strange guy”? 
They’re still with me, right?
You didn’t have to say that because astute men know that if a female strikes up spontaneous conversation, it is likely she likes him or that he might have a shot with her.
Don’t say this. There’s no need to.
Don’t do this.
You can say this during or after a conversation.
As said, you can provide your number without saying any of this. He will likely already know you’re interested.
With all of this said, it might not be advisable to give your number or imply any romantic interest in this day and age.
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Awkwardly late to the party 
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Lmao I wasnt gonna say anything 
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Anyway , its lame again, lol . Things can only be good for a 2 day maximum it seems .
When he left Friday I said I like you . He said nothing back. So i said you dont lik me ? He said I dont know you well enough to like you .
I thought that was weird . Hanging out with someone on three separate occasions until 2am, sleeping with someone, and chatting daily until bedtime should really give you an indication if you like them or not.
So he asked me what I was looking for last night , I basically just said something good.
He kept asking if I liked guys from the gym or mentioning about me being with lifters. I said no? I’m interested in you.
I said I cant tell if you’re not into me or just cautious or what .
He said again I still dont know you enough to be interested. I’m not cautious, I’m just a guy.
I said ok…
I said ok well here’s some stuff about me …then he stopped answering. This was 7pm and now nothing and I feel stupid.
Before the ‘give him a chance’ crew come on I’ll just say that in my experience in life, and that goes for most things really, if things don’t start well they rarely go well in the long run. You’ve made all the running and made yourself a ‘sitting duck’. A good person wouldn’t leave you to be a sitting duck on your own or for long.
Really I suppose its what type of person you are. Some are all or nothing, thats me, and some sit on the fence for ages.
Good luck spocko
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I feel like shit
Men
If you know a chick really likes you and you have hung a few times and dont even know if you like her, dont sleep with her.
This absolutely should be the standard men are held up to.
However, and whilst this may not be the time for tough love, ladies, if a guy hasn’t committed to you, clearly, (and you are looking for long term) don’t give up the goodies thinking this will get him over the line. The opposite is almost always true.
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See I thought he and I were on the same page. We talked about wanting relationships over friends with benefits and then right after that conversation he made plans to hang with me Friday night. And that was early in the day. So I thought ok good he doesnt just want a fuck buddy out of this.
I’m no expert, but I’m pretty sure this is not how you are supposed to feel in a relationship.
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