Who’s definition of a man applies to how many women the guy could impregnate? To me that’s ussually far from being a real man. It’s not difficult to impregnate women, or am I missing something here?
Nephorm you make a valid point.
I have a pair of neighbors who are gay, live in the same house and exhist as a couple. One works at the Sherrifs department and the other is a contractor at a construction company (leave the Village people jokes alone). I can have conversations with those guys, I get along with them fairly well. They’ve helped me find my lost dog, gave me tips about my yard, and let friends park in their driveway when I’ve had parties. The guys I hate being around are the ones who act like women. Someone earlier in the string called it “efeminite” I believe. They make my skin crawl, gay or straight. I’m sure we all know a few guys out there who are straight but still act like little kids instead of men. Those are the ones I have problems with.
The A&F look is cool, I dig it. But when I thumb through the catalog I feel like I’m seeing something I’m not supposed to. Can’t these guys sell their clothes without having boys laying on each other and being in all kinds of permiscuous poses? Maybe I’m just being an old man about it, but that shit bugs me. At one of the local A&F stores where I live you walk in and staring back at you is a 8x6ft black and white poster of a dude with no shirt on. You can’t even see any clothes on him at all… How is that photo going to sell A&F clothes you ask? By attracting the gay guys I guess. It definitely seems strange to me. Perhaps they don’t want straight men to buy their clothes at all… who knows.
B.
Kind of funny, but we use A&F as a gay test. With men, A&F is only worn by college guys and homosexuals, so if the dude’s not in college, and he’s wearing A&F, well…
Why is it bothering you?
Do you want the attention they are getting?
do you want people to see your muscles?
Gess, get in touch with your EGO
thats right.
The fact of the matter is, these effeminent guys that are dying their hair, wearing all the A&F clothes, and what not don’t do it because they “see the results” from the girlies. They do it because they’re drones.
Somebody mentioned the Maxim hairdye commercials. They said that since the guys in the commercial got hot chicks then the hair dye must work to get chicks. This is the stupidest, fucking logic I’ve ever heard in my life. I hope you realize the stupidity in your comment and chastize yourself for making that comment because that was, honestly, one of the stupidest comments I’ve ever heard. You, my friend, are the perfect consumer. I coulda just pictured you watching that commercial and thinking “holy shit, man, if I dye my hair like that then maybe I’ll get women too.”
Wanna know something? I’ll give you a description of me: I don’t dye my hair, I don’t even gel my hair, the only shirts I wear are plain white shirts, I wear plain pants that don’t have brand names blazing all over the place, and I don’t have a tan. Wanna know something else. I’m currently dating what 95% of the guys at my school consider to be the hottest Asian girl at my school (my school is appx. half-Asian population). Was she won over by my clothes? Did she see the brand name tags or me?
Clothes don’t help you get women. Unless you consider women to be the shallow types that are a dime a dozen and waste precious oxygen, then you have your concepts messed up.
RS: Hey, chat me up whenever! We’ve both been around a while and you’re just now diggin’ my shit? Interesting. Got to agree on that trait you mentioned - but for both T-men and T-Vixens alike. Each should call eachother on their bullshit. If a T-Vixen is being a pissy little whiner (or whatever non T-Vixen characteristic it may be) - her shit should get called! If a T-man is being a pissy little whiner (again, fill in the blank) - his shit should get called! Provided both do it in the spirit of brotherhood/love and not just to be plain old mean.
The double standard thing fluctuates. Sometimes it’s really apparent, other times it’s not. Just happens to be one of my beefs about life. Glad you can take a possibly divergent view and use it to expand your own. You don’t have to adopt it, just understand and evaluate it’s place in your life.
And spankings? he he heee Don’t get me started…
KARMA: Big Question: No problem calling women on their shit…question is…can they take it…?
Belay that…Will they want to take it?
Can they handle the truth?
Thats the real acid test for T-Vixens: Does reality, including ones own bullshit, enter that skull when it is called on or is it just ego / male-female / double-standards / defensive / whiny / crying / finger-pointing / get even / no-responsibility answers?
Thats where they make or lose their respect in males eyes IMHO. How can I respect, or admire, a woman if she reverts to a kid at the first sign of bullshit calling? How can she call herself woman when not taking things like one?
DANC: I called that girl I referenced in the bad grammar thread on her bullshit. Not surprisingly, she got angry and I doubt I’ll ever hear from her again. I think a woman (which she is not) would react differently. I hope, anyway. You know, I’ve never actually dated one. Gotta do that soon.
CMC: They exist. They`re rare.
WARNING: If youre into quality relationships, dating a real woman (or T-Vixen) will force you to never accept bullshit again. Youll never go back to one nighters. =0) Better to have a high quality experience (and, when shit happens, souvenirs) once a while than to contaminate the few good ones you have with less than maximum ones in the meanwhile. But, hey, that`s your call! =0)
DAN C: Big Answer: Yes. A WOMAN, let alone a T-Vixen, can take it.
No, not every female out there can or will take it and yes, it matters how it is done. Is it mean or is it done in the spirit of brotherhood/love?