[quote]mbdix wrote:
Soooo, OP what’s up? It’s been a week since you created this thread…wus happnin?
Have you talked to your girl and straightened out that she banged this dude on her 26 year old ‘business trip’ with her sister? Have you been walking around looking over her shoulder while she texts and facebooks this dude on the regular? Have you PIIHB yet? Is she about to go on another ‘business trip’ to the same city? Have you stopped all contact with her and moved on? Have you brought up an open relationship with her and had a 3way? What’s the dealy-o? Or deal yo? However the kids are saying it these days[/quote]
Or most importantly, is he secretly tracking her with a GPS?[/quote]
A good way to end up with a criminal conviction.
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Huh?
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In most places it is illegal to use a gps to track someone w/o their knowledge.
[quote]Huh? wrote:
Who goes on a business trip with their sister anyway? Another thing that doesn’t really make sense and needs clarifying.
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I know people that do this. It’s at minimum a free hotel. [/quote]
Yeah, but the sister went to party or to see the sites…[/quote]
Ya, the one sister (non-business) does whatever druing the day and they both “visit” at night. I don’t know about this particular trip, I try and stay out of these threads, since the story is always one sided. Learned my lesson earlier with the “Wife is fat how do I cheat” thread…
wow this thing took off, some of the ideas here are fucking great. Update is I am still trying to figure it out and dont want to rush to any judgement, she refuses to let me see the texts at this point though. Worse case scenerio is I can parlay it into a three way with some chick if it goes to the shitter (or any more in the shitter), its not easy to just cut and run like suggested.
[quote]jeep69 wrote:
wow this thing took off, some of the ideas here are fucking great. Update is I am still trying to figure it out and dont want to rush to any judgement, she refuses to let me see the texts at this point though. Worse case scenerio is I can parlay it into a three way with some chick if it goes to the shitter (or any more in the shitter), its not easy to just cut and run like suggested.[/quote]
The mentioning it to her sister and gauging reaction I think is your best course of action.
[quote]jeep69 wrote:
Worse case scenerio is I can parlay it into a three way with some chick if it goes to the shitter (or any more in the shitter), its not easy to just cut and run like suggested.[/quote]
Three way with her sister? Sounds like a win to me.
OP has never seen the reports from abroad or comedians doing red pill standups.
When a woman says she is going with “friends” or a “sister”, it is usually to do things out of their social norms. Basically she is after attention in a different environment away from those who know her.
Most of the time these are husbands and boyfriends.
Your relationship is 3.5 years old, I am pretty sure that if she did this sort of thing now, she has done it earlier in your relationship. How else would she be so brazen in chatting to this guy?
Think about it;
She is with her sister, not likely to grass her up
Different location far from you
“Business trip” = code word for seeking strange on the fly
Sister got ploughed well and truly
She is talking to a guy who is friends with the guy who ploughed her sister. Girls in twos get fucked together and exchange stories, go to a nightclub or bar and you will see groups of twos seeking dick way more than a larger group
Yo potter you rail herminey yet?she could get it. Or you still busy waving your wand in dudes faces? OP find a side to the entree she won’t let you see the texts she is hiding something start to detach NOW!!
[quote]jeep69 wrote:
wow this thing took off, some of the ideas here are fucking great. Update is I am still trying to figure it out and dont want to rush to any judgement, she refuses to let me see the texts at this point though. Worse case scenerio is I can parlay it into a three way with some chick if it goes to the shitter (or any more in the shitter), its not easy to just cut and run like suggested.[/quote]
It’s much, much easier than the alternative, which is to become further enmeshed.
Seems like it’s time to wish her well and move on, whether that means dividing property or just saying goodbye.
[quote]Jlabs wrote:
Yo potter you rail herminey yet?she could get it. Or you still busy waving your wand in dudes faces? OP find a side to the entree she won’t let you see the texts she is hiding something start to detach NOW!![/quote]
Ginny, dude. Ginny.
[quote]jeep69 wrote:
wow this thing took off, some of the ideas here are fucking great. Update is I am still trying to figure it out and dont want to rush to any judgement, she refuses to let me see the texts at this point though. Worse case scenerio is I can parlay it into a three way with some chick if it goes to the shitter (or any more in the shitter), its not easy to just cut and run like suggested.[/quote]
You are kidding if you think you are getting a three way with another chick. Here’s your options at this point:
You accept that she unfaithful and not someone who has the maturity or disposition for a monogamous relationship and either
Live with it; or
Dump her and move on.
And, If you think it’s hard to cut and run now wait until you’re married and have kids.
And, If you think it’s hard to cut and run now wait until you’re married and have kids.
*** Right. As I said before wait until you find out the child you are forced to pay court ordered child support to isn’t even yours. It belongs to one of the fellows she was seeing on the side before, during, and after your marriage. You married her, you pay the tab.
Point of fact from years of wisdom. If she has male friends on the side she won’t part with in committing to you, you can bet the farm she is screwing them on the side. Guaranteed.
[quote]jeep69 wrote:
wow this thing took off, some of the ideas here are fucking great. Update is I am still trying to figure it out and dont want to rush to any judgement, she refuses to let me see the texts at this point though. Worse case scenerio is I can parlay it into a three way with some chick if it goes to the shitter (or any more in the shitter), its not easy to just cut and run like suggested.[/quote]
You are kidding if you think you are getting a three way with another chick. Here’s your options at this point:
You accept that she unfaithful and not someone who has the maturity or disposition for a monogamous relationship and either
Live with it; or
Dump her and move on.
And, If you think it’s hard to cut and run now wait until you’re married and have kids.
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Yep.
If my boyfriend was concerned about texts or FB messages to another man, I wouldn’t hesitate to show him. In fact, I offered to stop posting at TNation when the guy I was with expressed weirdness over it. Once in a blue moon, “the bodybuilders” or “one of the bodybuilders” would come up in conversation. He was okay with it, but if he wasn’t - home is my priority.
[quote]jeep69 wrote:
wow this thing took off, some of the ideas here are fucking great. Update is I am still trying to figure it out and dont want to rush to any judgement, she refuses to let me see the texts at this point though. Worse case scenerio is I can parlay it into a three way with some chick if it goes to the shitter (or any more in the shitter), its not easy to just cut and run like suggested.[/quote]
You are kidding if you think you are getting a three way with another chick. Here’s your options at this point:
You accept that she unfaithful and not someone who has the maturity or disposition for a monogamous relationship and either
Live with it; or
Dump her and move on.
And, If you think it’s hard to cut and run now wait until you’re married and have kids.
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Yep.
If my boyfriend was concerned about texts or FB messages to another man, I wouldn’t hesitate to show him. In fact, I offered to stop posting at TNation when the guy I was with expressed weirdness over it. Once in a blue moon, “the bodybuilders” or “one of the bodybuilders” would come up in conversation. He was okay with it, but if he wasn’t - home is my priority.[/quote]
Aren’t you glad now you kept us. Well, some anyhow.
[quote]jeep69 wrote:
wow this thing took off, some of the ideas here are fucking great. Update is I am still trying to figure it out and dont want to rush to any judgement, she refuses to let me see the texts at this point though. Worse case scenerio is I can parlay it into a three way with some chick if it goes to the shitter (or any more in the shitter), its not easy to just cut and run like suggested.[/quote]
You are kidding if you think you are getting a three way with another chick. Here’s your options at this point:
You accept that she unfaithful and not someone who has the maturity or disposition for a monogamous relationship and either
Live with it; or
Dump her and move on.
And, If you think it’s hard to cut and run now wait until you’re married and have kids.
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Yep.
If my boyfriend was concerned about texts or FB messages to another man, I wouldn’t hesitate to show him. In fact, I offered to stop posting at TNation when the guy I was with expressed weirdness over it. Once in a blue moon, “the bodybuilders” or “one of the bodybuilders” would come up in conversation. He was okay with it, but if he wasn’t - home is my priority.[/quote]
Aren’t you glad now you kept us. Well, some anyhow.
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I’d have come running right back.
It’s funny, I don’t think my real life people would look any more surprised if I said that I was once a circus clown than they do when I mention TNation.
It can be bad and mean she is ultra competitive and possessive with men. The competitive and possessive lady may call you for revenge sex when she’s having issues with her boyfriend and is a manipulator who likes to control guys and gets what she wants by creating jealousy and insecurity. They tend to ruin everything in their wake, run away, fast and don’t sleep with her unless you want that jealous boyfriend after you.
The other type I know is a woman who grew up in a mostly male household, who may have trouble relating or keeping many female friends because she has trouble relating, or lacks similar interests. The lady who has dude friends will want to hang out with her dude friends from time to time, and she should be okay with you joining. So should her guy friends if they are really friends. The type of dude should be pretty stand up when you meet, he should be suspicious of you and question your motives because he likely treats this sort of lady like a sister and is a sort of protector, probably a dude with little sisters. If he flirts, or if he’s always calling to hang out, or if he acts jealous towards you there’s something wrong.
These dudes should be willing to meet you. And you wanting to meet these dudes should be a sign to your girl that you are serious about her. But always be wary, guys are guys. It’s the very very rare dude who won’t sleep with a woman if she initiates.
