Just ask to meet or hang out with some of them. I’m sure they’re great guys.
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
RESPECTFUL EQUALS?
Had to edit.
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
Yeah, respectful equals?
To quote Lord Vetinari:
“Democracy? Always fun to see them try”.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
Yeah, respectful equals?
To quote Lord Vetinari:
“Democracy? Always fun to see them try”. [/quote]
And to quote Dame Ivy Compton-Burnett:
“There is more difference within the sexes than between them.”
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
Yeah, respectful equals?
To quote Lord Vetinari:
“Democracy? Always fun to see them try”. [/quote]
And to quote Dame Ivy Compton-Burnett:
“There is more difference within the sexes than between them.”[/quote]
Lies, damn lies and Dame Ivy Compton-Burnett quotes.
The truth is, in any relationship one of the two is going to be the stronger one.
Period.
Usually, if you are not stronger and harder than the woman you are with you are turning your very own aggression inward to emotionally castrate yourself.
Furthermore, if you play the “we are all equal” game you are playing the same BS game women play among each other and there is probably not a single one among them who does not detest it every now and then.
That does not mean however that you get a tribal tatoo on your forehead and dominate her with a chainsaw, if she accepts your leadership she will sneak in some proposal in sideways.
“Would it not be nice if we”, " I always wanted to…"…
And most of the time you take her and its much more fun for her.
Same in the bedroom, dont ask, take.
You will know whether she is in for it or not (for now).
You Tarzan, she Jane, you lead, she follow and yeah its work.
Deal with it.
Its fun too though.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
Yeah, respectful equals?
To quote Lord Vetinari:
“Democracy? Always fun to see them try”. [/quote]
And to quote Dame Ivy Compton-Burnett:
“There is more difference within the sexes than between them.”[/quote]
Lies, damn lies and Dame Ivy Compton-Burnett quotes.
The truth is, in any relationship one of the two is going to be the stronger one.
Period.
Usually, if you are not stronger and harder than the woman you are with you are turning your very own aggression inward to emotionally castrate yourself.
Furthermore, if you play the “we are all equal” game you are playing the same BS game women play among each other and there is probably not a single one among them who does not detest it every now and then.
That does not mean however that you get a tribal tatoo on your forehead and dominate her with a chainsaw, if she accepts your leadership she will sneak in some proposal in sideways.
“Would it not be nice if we”, " I always wanted to…"…
And most of the time you take her and its much more fun for her.
Same in the bedroom, dont ask, take.
You will know whether she is in for it or not (for now).
You Tarzan, she Jane, you lead, she follow and yeah its work.
Deal with it.
Its fun too though. [/quote]
I couldn’t agree more. The man needs to be the strong one in the relationship.
Not saying the woman is weak but I’ve found out the same thing with dating. The man needs to be strong and assertive if not the women will walk on him like a doormat.
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.
[quote]Steel Nation wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
Guess what pal, there’s a very good chance your girl just prefers guys to girls as friends. A lot of girls I know do.
[/quote]
That’s because a same-sex friendship would require the girl in question to actually provide something to the equation other than the remote possibility of sex.
If a girl is hot, most guys are willing to overlook a lot of her personal flaws and will treat her like a princess just to be in her presence. The attractive girl loves this because the guys will constantly provide her with positive affirmation. All the girl has to do is be attractive and act mildly interested in the guy, which is a lot easier than being an actual friend.
EDIT: Also FWIW I agree that OP’s girl cheated. Even if she hasn’t actually fucked the guy yet, at the very least she’s having an emotional affair. I would cut off all communication with her immediately, without even telling her why. Hopefully you don’t live together.[/quote]
THIS.
And what’s worse, is that the hot girl in question knows she can pull her shit and get away with it, so long as she maintains her hotness.
Problem is, time is not on her side. As she gets older and loses her hotness, she loses her power over men and her ability to pull her shit on them.
I have seen this, so many times. A girl who is ridic hot and commands the attention of men, until a younger/thinner/hotter number comes into the equation. Then she former becomes like the old chick at the bar, who is mad jelly because she can’t compete with the younger ones, who end up usually alone and miserable.
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.[/quote]
Yes, this exactly.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.[/quote]
Yes, this exactly.
[/quote]
I don’t see any inappropriate boundaries here. That’s the thing. I talk to lots of people on Facebook, so does my girlfriend. It’s called being sociable. If two people trust one another then it works. This whole “power struggle” bullshit is just macho posturing. Not entirely surprising on a website dedicated to working out, but still achingly stereotypical. People who care for each other don’t cheat on each other, and no amount of “temptation” will change that. I dunno, maybe it’s an American thing. Too much advertising or some shit.
The irony here is we all reached the same conclusion. OP should leave his girlfriend. It’s just that you guys think he should do it because she’s a filthy slut who can’t go five minutes out of his gaze without ending up brimming over with semen, and I think he should do it because he’s obviously not mature enough to deal with adult relationships. Either way OP, cut and run.
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.[/quote]
Yes, this exactly.
[/quote]
I don’t see any inappropriate boundaries here. That’s the thing. I talk to lots of people on Facebook, so does my girlfriend. It’s called being sociable. If two people trust one another then it works. This whole “power struggle” bullshit is just macho posturing. Not entirely surprising on a website dedicated to working out, but still achingly stereotypical. People who care for each other don’t cheat on each other, and no amount of “temptation” will change that. I dunno, maybe it’s an American thing. Too much advertising or some shit.
The irony here is we all reached the same conclusion. OP should leave his girlfriend. It’s just that you guys think he should do it because she’s a filthy slut who can’t go five minutes out of his gaze without ending up brimming over with semen, and I think he should do it because he’s obviously not mature enough to deal with adult relationships. Either way OP, cut and run.[/quote]
Maybe one day, I’ll be cool with nuts that don’t belong to me hanging out of my gf. Maybe one day.
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.[/quote]
Yes, this exactly.
[/quote]
It’s just that you guys think he should do it because she’s a filthy slut who can’t go five minutes out of his gaze without ending up brimming over with semen, and I think he should do it because he’s obviously not mature enough to deal with adult relationships. Either way OP, cut and run.[/quote]
I don’t think many posters are categorizing things in this way. She’s spending a great deal of time communicating with and about this guy, which sounds like infatuation regardless of the physical piece. You ARE aware that some people highly value fidelity in a relationship, right? And you’re also aware that people sometimes break promises they’ve made?
Is this a hot-button issue for you, or are you always this hostile sounding?
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.[/quote]
Yes, this exactly.
[/quote]
I don’t see any inappropriate boundaries here. That’s the thing. I talk to lots of people on Facebook, so does my girlfriend. It’s called being sociable. If two people trust one another then it works. This whole “power struggle” bullshit is just macho posturing. Not entirely surprising on a website dedicated to working out, but still achingly stereotypical. People who care for each other don’t cheat on each other, and no amount of “temptation” will change that. I dunno, maybe it’s an American thing. Too much advertising or some shit.
The irony here is we all reached the same conclusion. OP should leave his girlfriend. It’s just that you guys think he should do it because she’s a filthy slut who can’t go five minutes out of his gaze without ending up brimming over with semen, and I think he should do it because he’s obviously not mature enough to deal with adult relationships. Either way OP, cut and run.[/quote]
Maybe one day, I’ll be cool with nuts that don’t belong to me hanging out of my gf. Maybe one day.[/quote]
Twill be a glorious day when you overcome your heteronomative cisgenderism…
Alternatively you could also kick the owner of said nuts in the kidneys and find a more reliable, um “equal”.
,
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.[/quote]
Yes, this exactly.
[/quote]
I don’t see any inappropriate boundaries here. That’s the thing. I talk to lots of people on Facebook, so does my girlfriend. It’s called being sociable. If two people trust one another then it works. This whole “power struggle” bullshit is just macho posturing. Not entirely surprising on a website dedicated to working out, but still achingly stereotypical. People who care for each other don’t cheat on each other, and no amount of “temptation” will change that. I dunno, maybe it’s an American thing. Too much advertising or some shit.
The irony here is we all reached the same conclusion. OP should leave his girlfriend. It’s just that you guys think he should do it because she’s a filthy slut who can’t go five minutes out of his gaze without ending up brimming over with semen, and I think he should do it because he’s obviously not mature enough to deal with adult relationships. Either way OP, cut and run.[/quote]
Negative. “We” think he should leave her because she went on a trip, met a guy, said her ‘sister’ fucked him, yet she has been texting him, facebooking him, and talking about him non-stop. And when he is trying to talk to her about this, fights are breaking out. But, go ahead and say HE is not mature enough for an adult relationship when it is HER actions that scream she is not mature enough for an adult relationship.
When did it become a bad thing for a man to stand up and stick to his beliefs on how an adult committed relationship should be? There are females on this site that are agreeing that this girl is being shady. How is it that you do not see how this is shady?
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Is this a hot-button issue for you, or are you always this hostile sounding?[/quote]
Does not sound hostile, sounds effeminate…
Well, you have a point.
[quote]mbdix wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.[/quote]
Yes, this exactly.
[/quote]
I don’t see any inappropriate boundaries here. That’s the thing. I talk to lots of people on Facebook, so does my girlfriend. It’s called being sociable. If two people trust one another then it works. This whole “power struggle” bullshit is just macho posturing. Not entirely surprising on a website dedicated to working out, but still achingly stereotypical. People who care for each other don’t cheat on each other, and no amount of “temptation” will change that. I dunno, maybe it’s an American thing. Too much advertising or some shit.
The irony here is we all reached the same conclusion. OP should leave his girlfriend. It’s just that you guys think he should do it because she’s a filthy slut who can’t go five minutes out of his gaze without ending up brimming over with semen, and I think he should do it because he’s obviously not mature enough to deal with adult relationships. Either way OP, cut and run.[/quote]
Negative. “We” think he should leave her because she went on a trip, met a guy, said her ‘sister’ fucked him, yet she has been texting him, facebooking him, and talking about him non-stop. And when he is trying to talk to her about this, fights are breaking out. But, go ahead and say HE is not mature enough for an adult relationship when it is HER actions that scream she is not mature enough for an adult relationship.
When did it become a bad thing for a man to stand up and stick to his beliefs on how an adult committed relationship should be? There are females on this site that are agreeing that this girl is being shady. How is it that you do not see how this is shady? [/quote]
Beat me to it. But it seems the problem is America and all that beef we eat. Because in good ol Wales shit like this…
"recently she went on a business trip with her sister, they met a a group of guys and her sister fucked one of the guys, and my girlfriend has been talking about this new guy nonstop and im sure has texted him numerous times and has been on facebook with him for hours, Im not sure to what extent here. "
…Is cool.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
Is this a hot-button issue for you, or are you always this hostile sounding?[/quote]
Does not sound hostile, sounds effeminate…
Well, you have a point. [/quote]
HEY. Not funny.
[quote]four60 wrote:
[quote]mbdix wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]RelativeShoe wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
Lol @ machop. Have fun being cuckolded mate.[/quote]
Haha. Have fun conquering women bro. I’m sure all that “ground work” will help. I’ll have fun getting to know them, loving them and living alongside them as respectful equals. And if your missus ever tires of your shit, feel free to send her my way.
Don’t hate the player. Hate the game.[/quote]
I’m just saying, a respectful equal should know appropriate boundaries with her single male friends. Most people don’t leave home with a post-it note on their steering wheel saying “remember to cheat on your spouse today!”. Usually “it just happens”. Ever heard that one? It just happens when you put yourself in compromising situations. A big part of a committed relationship is keeping yourself out of those situations and having no desire to do otherwise. Girls who prefer to have guy friends and hang out with them without you and text and Facebook message them privately are making a conscious decision to jump into shark filled waters. And if she respected you at all, she wouldn’t.[/quote]
Yes, this exactly.
[/quote]
I don’t see any inappropriate boundaries here. That’s the thing. I talk to lots of people on Facebook, so does my girlfriend. It’s called being sociable. If two people trust one another then it works. This whole “power struggle” bullshit is just macho posturing. Not entirely surprising on a website dedicated to working out, but still achingly stereotypical. People who care for each other don’t cheat on each other, and no amount of “temptation” will change that. I dunno, maybe it’s an American thing. Too much advertising or some shit.
The irony here is we all reached the same conclusion. OP should leave his girlfriend. It’s just that you guys think he should do it because she’s a filthy slut who can’t go five minutes out of his gaze without ending up brimming over with semen, and I think he should do it because he’s obviously not mature enough to deal with adult relationships. Either way OP, cut and run.[/quote]
Negative. “We” think he should leave her because she went on a trip, met a guy, said her ‘sister’ fucked him, yet she has been texting him, facebooking him, and talking about him non-stop. And when he is trying to talk to her about this, fights are breaking out. But, go ahead and say HE is not mature enough for an adult relationship when it is HER actions that scream she is not mature enough for an adult relationship.
When did it become a bad thing for a man to stand up and stick to his beliefs on how an adult committed relationship should be? There are females on this site that are agreeing that this girl is being shady. How is it that you do not see how this is shady? [/quote]
Beat me to it. But it seems the problem is America and all that beef we eat. Because in good ol Wales shit like this…
"recently she went on a business trip with her sister, they met a a group of guys and her sister fucked one of the guys, and my girlfriend has been talking about this new guy nonstop and im sure has texted him numerous times and has been on facebook with him for hours, Im not sure to what extent here. "
…Is cool.
[/quote]
Right. It’s just all our American insecurities that makes us say ‘what the fuck is going on here?’ When we grow up and mature we will be like: Oh that’s cool beautiful, you met a new guy friend and have been texting and facebooking him a lot since you got back from your trip with your sister where she fucked him. I’m just gonna go look at my balls that you keep in the fridge now. Have fun talking to your new friend sweetheart, let me know when you are done.
/sarcasm