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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
looks like rrjc has it all figured out lol[/quote]

Nope, just get my dick wet once in a while.[/quote]

lol… this is so… wow Im at an utter loss for words.

whatever you say rrjc

[quote]LoRez wrote:
Do you really not think your “friends” are low quality people?

Do you really believe that most people are like that?[/quote]

I do think they are low quality, I never said I thought otherwise.

and I used to believe it was “just them” who were like that… then I left for university and met dozens upon dozens more like them… of course I met a lot of people who were actually quality as well…

I guess I would say that my female friends represent a subculture in a way…[/quote]
Maybe your ability to judge people is the problem. Not judging here, but if you keep gravitating towards the same people, its probably a coping mechanism of yourself. This makes you feel better about yourself because you choose losers to hang with.
Just a thought[/quote]

interesting thought… however it’s the losers who end up being the most needy and selfish… not exactly my preference. [/quote]

It is your preference or you wouldnt surround yourself with them. Why dont you see that? What do you owe these people?

Your continuance to think you are always right and failling to admit faults is a red flag. You will not get far in any walk of life, professionally or socially like that.

They say with money, you usually make an average of your 5 closest friends or the people you spend the most amount of time with. If the same is true in the moral and social sense, maybe you are just as bad as the people you are around.

Seriously though, why would someone with so much to offer and who is such a saint hang around such ‘losers’? It makes no sense unless the one in question isnt so great or has that much more to offer. [/quote]

im not sure where I said I was “blameless” or “a saint”, then again, you all seem to be grasping at straws a good bit.

anyways, I haven’t completely given up on these people, because I do care about them. one of my closest friends, who was by far the biggest loser of the bunch, has completely turned his life around and is now doing incredibly well.

he said that I was a big part of what inspired him to change. hopefully my other “loser friends” can be rehabilitated. [/quote]

Glimmers of co-dependence.[/quote]

explain?

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[quote]Apoklyps wrote:
Alright, so I met this girl and we hit it off great. Even though she’s a bit odd, I really like her for some reason. Just felt a really good connection. And I’m 100% sure she felt the same way.

Whereas before she was texting/calling me all the time, she abruptly stopped and won’t answer my texts (well… text lol) either. And I’ve got a pretty good suspicion why.

I have a 2 year old son which I never told her about. I never lied about it, and I wouldn’t, either. It just never came up and I didn’t volunteer it. There’s a pretty high probability she found out about it, so I’m thinking she’s pretty pissed.

Any chance of salvaging this?[/quote]

Have you tried sending a dick pic yet?

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[quote]Apoklyps wrote:
Alright, so I met this girl and we hit it off great. Even though she’s a bit odd, I really like her for some reason. Just felt a really good connection. And I’m 100% sure she felt the same way.

Whereas before she was texting/calling me all the time, she abruptly stopped and won’t answer my texts (well… text lol) either. And I’ve got a pretty good suspicion why.

I have a 2 year old son which I never told her about. I never lied about it, and I wouldn’t, either. It just never came up and I didn’t volunteer it. There’s a pretty high probability she found out about it, so I’m thinking she’s pretty pissed.

Any chance of salvaging this?[/quote]

How long have you guys been texting/calling each other?

If it’s been a while (like 1-2 months) then she’s surely mad that you ‘‘omitted’’ to tell her you’ve got a kid and, she doesn’t want to deal with a single dad.

If it’s only been a few weeks, then maybe she’s probably busy, or she’s lost interest and, she’s fucking someone else. Sometimes you got to show your interest quickly. Some women hate playing games or slow movers.

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
5 women I threw out in the last year.
[/quote]

Why did you let them move in?[/quote]

They did not move in, they just were at my place and behaved badly. [/quote]

Ah, I see. What exactly does “behaved badly” in this case mean?[/quote]

Ordering me around in my own home in one case, trying to manipulate me with her sexuality in another.

They both got two warnings.

Most others fell in between, psycho-social manipulation mumbo-jumbo.

Sometimes I wonder, because the skill level on most women these days is not that high.

However, that means that men are lacking, because those girls get by with inferior skills. [/quote]

It sounds like a large number of women try to order you around…why do you think that is?

Curious. It just caught my eye.

Oh and I began to add “ery” to the end of all my words like you did to walkway, but I was laughing too hard to finish.

Edit: five is not “a large number”…maybe large percentage? I don’t know how many women frequent your home.

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[quote]Prof wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
5 women I threw out in the last year.
[/quote]

Why did you let them move in?[/quote]

They did not move in, they just were at my place and behaved badly. [/quote]

Ah, I see. What exactly does “behaved badly” in this case mean?[/quote]

Ordering me around in my own home in one case, trying to manipulate me with her sexuality in another.

They both got two warnings.

Most others fell in between, psycho-social manipulation mumbo-jumbo.

Sometimes I wonder, because the skill level on most women these days is not that high.

However, that means that men are lacking, because those girls get by with inferior skills. [/quote]

It sounds like a large number of women try to order you around…why do you think that is?
[/quote]

Because I dont get social dominance tests anymore, but congruence tests?

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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
looks like rrjc has it all figured out lol[/quote]

Nope, just get my dick wet once in a while.[/quote]

lol… this is so… wow Im at an utter loss for words.

whatever you say rrjc

[quote]LoRez wrote:
Do you really not think your “friends” are low quality people?

Do you really believe that most people are like that?[/quote]

I do think they are low quality, I never said I thought otherwise.

and I used to believe it was “just them” who were like that… then I left for university and met dozens upon dozens more like them… of course I met a lot of people who were actually quality as well…

I guess I would say that my female friends represent a subculture in a way…[/quote]
Maybe your ability to judge people is the problem. Not judging here, but if you keep gravitating towards the same people, its probably a coping mechanism of yourself. This makes you feel better about yourself because you choose losers to hang with.
Just a thought[/quote]

interesting thought… however it’s the losers who end up being the most needy and selfish… not exactly my preference. [/quote]

It is your preference or you wouldnt surround yourself with them. Why dont you see that? What do you owe these people?

Your continuance to think you are always right and failling to admit faults is a red flag. You will not get far in any walk of life, professionally or socially like that.

They say with money, you usually make an average of your 5 closest friends or the people you spend the most amount of time with. If the same is true in the moral and social sense, maybe you are just as bad as the people you are around.

Seriously though, why would someone with so much to offer and who is such a saint hang around such ‘losers’? It makes no sense unless the one in question isnt so great or has that much more to offer. [/quote]

im not sure where I said I was “blameless” or “a saint”, then again, you all seem to be grasping at straws a good bit.

anyways, I haven’t completely given up on these people, because I do care about them. one of my closest friends, who was by far the biggest loser of the bunch, has completely turned his life around and is now doing incredibly well.

he said that I was a big part of what inspired him to change. hopefully my other “loser friends” can be rehabilitated. [/quote]

Glimmers of co-dependence.[/quote]

explain?[/quote]

Obviously don’t know you, so take it FWIW, but:

Everyone (including you) seems to agree that the people you spend time with are pretty low class.

When asked why, you said it’s because you care about them, and are hoping they can be “rehabilitated.” In fact, you were responsible, I think for turning one guy’s life around.

I’m not going to go into the intricacies of what co-dependence entails, but that sort of “I’m sacrificing my own interests to ‘save’ someone who needs saving” is pretty typical of it.

An extreme example would be a woman who stays with an alcoholic and tries to save him by getting him to “change.” After all, he “needs” her help![/quote]

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Prof wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]LoRez wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
5 women I threw out in the last year.
[/quote]

Why did you let them move in?[/quote]

They did not move in, they just were at my place and behaved badly. [/quote]

Ah, I see. What exactly does “behaved badly” in this case mean?[/quote]

Ordering me around in my own home in one case, trying to manipulate me with her sexuality in another.

They both got two warnings.

Most others fell in between, psycho-social manipulation mumbo-jumbo.

Sometimes I wonder, because the skill level on most women these days is not that high.

However, that means that men are lacking, because those girls get by with inferior skills. [/quote]

It sounds like a large number of women try to order you around…why do you think that is?
[/quote]

Because I dont get social dominance tests anymore, but congruence tests?[/quote]

I like it

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[quote]Chushin wrote:
An extreme example would be a woman who stays with an alcoholic and tries to save him by getting him to “change.” After all, he “needs” her help![/quote]
Lol my roommate and I used to joke about this all the time in college. We would use it to justify all our faults, such as leaving clothes strewn all about our rooms and dishes everywhere and typical college stuff. Because women don’t want the perfect man, they want a project. They like to think “I can fix him!”

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[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:

[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:

[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
looks like rrjc has it all figured out lol[/quote]

Nope, just get my dick wet once in a while.[/quote]

lol… this is so… wow Im at an utter loss for words.

whatever you say rrjc

[quote]LoRez wrote:
Do you really not think your “friends” are low quality people?

Do you really believe that most people are like that?[/quote]

I do think they are low quality, I never said I thought otherwise.

and I used to believe it was “just them” who were like that… then I left for university and met dozens upon dozens more like them… of course I met a lot of people who were actually quality as well…

I guess I would say that my female friends represent a subculture in a way…[/quote]
Maybe your ability to judge people is the problem. Not judging here, but if you keep gravitating towards the same people, its probably a coping mechanism of yourself. This makes you feel better about yourself because you choose losers to hang with.
Just a thought[/quote]

interesting thought… however it’s the losers who end up being the most needy and selfish… not exactly my preference. [/quote]

It is your preference or you wouldnt surround yourself with them. Why dont you see that? What do you owe these people?

Your continuance to think you are always right and failling to admit faults is a red flag. You will not get far in any walk of life, professionally or socially like that.

They say with money, you usually make an average of your 5 closest friends or the people you spend the most amount of time with. If the same is true in the moral and social sense, maybe you are just as bad as the people you are around.

Seriously though, why would someone with so much to offer and who is such a saint hang around such ‘losers’? It makes no sense unless the one in question isnt so great or has that much more to offer. [/quote]

im not sure where I said I was “blameless” or “a saint”, then again, you all seem to be grasping at straws a good bit.

anyways, I haven’t completely given up on these people, because I do care about them. one of my closest friends, who was by far the biggest loser of the bunch, has completely turned his life around and is now doing incredibly well.

he said that I was a big part of what inspired him to change. hopefully my other “loser friends” can be rehabilitated. [/quote]

Glimmers of co-dependence.[/quote]
That was my point but I was trying to be nice.