PIIHB!!!
Okay number 1 I’ve never heard of anyone getting a call to be offered an 0321 contract. That comes after or near the end of SOI. But whatever…Maybe it does happen. Da fuck do I know?
Number 2. When you leave for bootcamp thats 3 months of no talking to this girl. Unless she actually writes you letter (which could happen). Then another 3 months of SOI. Then lets say you actually make the cut for the course. Then you’re going to rot in MART for awhile before finally getting to BRC. Where you have about another 2 months of training.
So lets say you make it this far and earn your black silkies. The holy grail of getting into women’s pants. Girls will to crazy shit to you just to have a pair of your shorts. Hopefully you get stationed in California.
What I’m trying to say is by this time, either this girl will now be on the back burner or you will. Or you marry the broad to get out of the barracks then she leaves you and takes half your shit. (Don’t get married, boot.)
And if you actually want to deploy your chances are pretty slim as a boot 0321.
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[quote]ChicagoLad wrote:
What if I fail? I’ve never failed at anything before. [/quote]
Look, this is life. You are going to fail at something, eventually.
People tend to learn better from their mistakes than their success.
What if you fail? You pick yourself up, brush yourself off, honestly evaluate why you failed (ie: don’t fucking blame other people), evaluate how you’ll do better next time and move forward.
Failing isn’t the problem, nor is it a bad thing. It’s how you react to failure that determines what kind of person you are and how successful you’ll be over time. If you lay down, roll over and show your belly at the first sign of hardship, you’re a bitch. If you get back up and keep fighting, keep trying, and keep working on improving, you’ll be fine in the long run.
That isn’t to say that sometimes retreat isn’t the best strategy. Sometimes it is. Don’t make every battle the one the wins or loses the war.
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this chick is using you for emotional support dangling the possibility of a romantic relationship to keep you on the hook.
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any girl that seems too good to be true, especially over a controlled medium such as texting or e-mail almost most certainly isn’t what she seems, shes playing into what you want her to be while at the same time flirting with you to keep you interested as a source of attention.
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she seems incredibly insecure and has probably carefully calculated and developed this intelligent down to earth personality to disguise her shallow selfish motivations using people for support and affirmation while offering nothing real in return except just the bare minimum so that she can continue to get what she wants.
im sorry, but any chick that seems well adjusted, intelligent, down to earth, and funny is playing your ass and laughing all the way to the emotional bank, how many dudes you know that do the same thing to chicks? play the ‘all american great guy’ and laugh with you while playing their desperate angry voicemails on speaker after they banged her a couple times and dropped her
anyone that doesnt reveal their FLAWS to you doesnt really care about you or want to connect with you, being depressed or sad over breakups or a death in the family isnt a flaw, its an emotional ploy for attention and pity, trust me, you stop talking to this girl and shell just keep blowing you up with new and different ‘tragedies’ in her life to get you to keep giving her attention,
bail and if she hits you up respond, but dont buy into it like before, shes using you, shes seems fake, insecure, and conceited.