Either they act on the messages, ignore and continue their shit existences and wallow in grief. Fuck a vacant home sounds better then an sti infested coochie.
[quote]Jlabs wrote:
Either they act on the messages, ignore and continue their shit existences and wallow in grief. Fuck a vacant home sounds better then an sti infested coochie.[/quote]
Even if it’s in Detroit?
Depends on the demographic, there might be a high potential for crime…
ducks out quickly before the storm hits.
I guess you could wake up to being sodomized by crackheads. Stir shit up and leaves. I like it.Reminds me of a time when we were in junior high school. We walked up to a elementary school and told one of the kids in the yard that one of the other kids called him a doo doo head. Snow ball effect ensued and all the grade 1s were in an all out brawl. We laughed our asses off and ran for it.
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
Did you ever think to put your foot down and tell your best friend to stop seeing the guy and if she doesn’t, you would stop hanging out with her?
Be an influence on HER LIFE instead of her being an influence on YOUR LIFE.
Basically you just said that your best friend was quite stupid…
I went to a university with about 18,000 students and there was definetly trashy girls everywhere, heck I felt a lot like the way you do. However I wasn’t quite as hopeless, I stayed optimistic, knowing that they couldn’t ALL be like that.
If you keep finding trash, quit looking in dumpsters! It sounds like you plan* on going through life alone is this true?
[/quote]
im not exactly the controlling type… I made my opinion known and left it at that. I was there for her at every turn, as a good friend should have been.
my best friend still is quite stupid, she’s currently sleeping with a guy with genital herpes (I had to tell her… cuz he didn’t… that was an awkward conversation)
if by “alone” you mean single, then yes. I plan on going through life single at this point… women are the most treacherous and trifling creatures on the planet.
and for what it’s worth, ive never been cheated on, and have never had any real hurtful negative experience with a woman… ive never given them the chance. im going off of what ive seen in other’s lives[/quote]
But how do you not have the thirst?
I agree there are plenty of awful women out there but holy shit, when I see a hot woman my blood absolutely bubbles[/quote]
I believe in delayed gratification [/quote]
Delayed gratification would imply you anticipate having sex sometime in the future.
Like a couple of Christians waiting for a marriage.
You sound as though you’re taking a vow of celibacy.
[/quote]
it’s a vow of celibacy unless I can find a woman who is worth something…
it’s most likely going to be a vow of celibacy
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
Did you ever think to put your foot down and tell your best friend to stop seeing the guy and if she doesn’t, you would stop hanging out with her?
Be an influence on HER LIFE instead of her being an influence on YOUR LIFE.
Basically you just said that your best friend was quite stupid…
I went to a university with about 18,000 students and there was definetly trashy girls everywhere, heck I felt a lot like the way you do. However I wasn’t quite as hopeless, I stayed optimistic, knowing that they couldn’t ALL be like that.
If you keep finding trash, quit looking in dumpsters! It sounds like you plan* on going through life alone is this true?
[/quote]
im not exactly the controlling type… I made my opinion known and left it at that. I was there for her at every turn, as a good friend should have been.
my best friend still is quite stupid, she’s currently sleeping with a guy with genital herpes (I had to tell her… cuz he didn’t… that was an awkward conversation)
if by “alone” you mean single, then yes. I plan on going through life single at this point… women are the most treacherous and trifling creatures on the planet.
and for what it’s worth, ive never been cheated on, and have never had any real hurtful negative experience with a woman… ive never given them the chance. im going off of what ive seen in other’s lives[/quote]
But how do you not have the thirst?
I agree there are plenty of awful women out there but holy shit, when I see a hot woman my blood absolutely bubbles[/quote]
I believe in delayed gratification [/quote]
Delayed gratification would imply you anticipate having sex sometime in the future.
Like a couple of Christians waiting for a marriage.
You sound as though you’re taking a vow of celibacy.
[/quote]
it’s a vow of celibacy unless I can find a woman who is worth something…
it’s most likely going to be a vow of celibacy…[/quote] …because the problem is with me and I don’t know how to pick friends.
[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]carbiduis wrote:
Did you ever think to put your foot down and tell your best friend to stop seeing the guy and if she doesn’t, you would stop hanging out with her?
Be an influence on HER LIFE instead of her being an influence on YOUR LIFE.
Basically you just said that your best friend was quite stupid…
I went to a university with about 18,000 students and there was definetly trashy girls everywhere, heck I felt a lot like the way you do. However I wasn’t quite as hopeless, I stayed optimistic, knowing that they couldn’t ALL be like that.
If you keep finding trash, quit looking in dumpsters! It sounds like you plan* on going through life alone is this true?
[/quote]
im not exactly the controlling type… I made my opinion known and left it at that. I was there for her at every turn, as a good friend should have been.
my best friend still is quite stupid, she’s currently sleeping with a guy with genital herpes (I had to tell her… cuz he didn’t… that was an awkward conversation)
if by “alone” you mean single, then yes. I plan on going through life single at this point… women are the most treacherous and trifling creatures on the planet.
and for what it’s worth, ive never been cheated on, and have never had any real hurtful negative experience with a woman… ive never given them the chance. im going off of what ive seen in other’s lives[/quote]
But how do you not have the thirst?
I agree there are plenty of awful women out there but holy shit, when I see a hot woman my blood absolutely bubbles[/quote]
I believe in delayed gratification [/quote]
Delayed gratification would imply you anticipate having sex sometime in the future.
Like a couple of Christians waiting for a marriage.
You sound as though you’re taking a vow of celibacy.
[/quote]
it’s a vow of celibacy unless I can find a woman who is worth something…
it’s most likely going to be a vow of celibacy…[/quote] …because the problem is with me and I don’t know how to pick friends.
[/quote]
more like we all went to Christian school and they changed once we graduated… and I didn’t
so find new friends. god damn man. this is like 3+ threads where it boils down to your insecurities and your crappy excuse for friends
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
so find new friends. god damn man. this is like 3+ threads where it boils down to your insecurities and your crappy excuse for friends[/quote]
Walkaway is too caught up in his blind, self indulgent humility to acknowledge that HIS bullshit and HIS choices are the root of his skewed perception. There is a secondary payoff going on here: he’s addicted to his struggle. And judging all those worthless whores gives him a VERY satisfying feeling of superiority. Some people need that.
So how’s everything with YOU, CND?
Oh, and re OP…
OP, if you believe your GF didn’t cheat on you, I’ve got some ocean front property in Kansas I’d LOVE to sell you for a cheap price.
LOL
Ditch the bitch, dumbass.
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
Oh, and re OP…
OP, if you believe your GF didn’t cheat on you, I’ve got some ocean front property in Kansas I’d LOVE to sell you for a cheap price.
LOL
Ditch the bitch, dumbass.[/quote]
Ocean front property for cheap you say?
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
[quote]coolnatedawg wrote:
so find new friends. god damn man. this is like 3+ threads where it boils down to your insecurities and your crappy excuse for friends[/quote]
Walkaway is too caught up in his blind, self indulgent humility to acknowledge that HIS bullshit and HIS choices are the root of his skewed perception. There is a secondary payoff going on here: he’s addicted to his struggle. And judging all those worthless whores gives him a VERY satisfying feeling of superiority. Some people need that.
So how’s everything with YOU, CND?[/quote]
you got me all figured out lol
[quote]SteelyD wrote:
LOL!! YES
[quote]SteelyD wrote:
LOL
[quote]VTTrainer wrote:
I just feel so vulnerable, and weak, and disgusting. I’m worried she’ll leave me whenever she finds something better. I know I need to get my shit together, and it will happen, but I’m worried she will get fed up too soon, even tho she says she’s in this for the long run.
Any ideas, guys? I’ve been bugging out, and it sucks.
[/quote]
I’ll try
[quote]I’m worried she’ll leave me whenever she finds something better. [/quote]Not only that - seems she’s actually looking
But you might disagree on that - doesn’t really matter - consider your quote above
[quote]VTTrainer wrote:
Sorry guys, I’m kinda distraught and not typing everything well.
SHE NEVER CHEATED ON ME… She fucked this dude when we were broken up, but she lied about his advances while we were together. I trust that she didn’t cheat on me, even with all the pessimism about everything else. Me not having my shit together and her lies about her past with a friend in the group is what’s throwing me off and making me feel so bad. Sorry for the confusion. Had she cheated I’d be done and would have turned the house upside down already, trust me, without skipping a beat.[/quote]
It doesn’t really matter if she has cheated on you or not - you can’t trust her (you said so above, just different wording)
I hope you wouldn’t feel guilty about not giving her the benefit of the doubt or something like that. You don’t owe her the benefit of the doubt. You can’t trust her - I mean that literally. It seems to me you’re actually trying to trust her, but it’s an exercise in futility. She has aligned herself in such a way
It’s not worth it in the long run - and it possibly could drag out for a very long time. If you can’t trust her now, then you know enough - you don’t need to catch her cheating. Skip the rest of the bullshit - that’s all that’s left
Dammit man - this one line says it all
Now you know what others have said is true - leave her and watch what happens to your Testosterone. You shouldn’t be worried about her like that (stress was the real issue of you’re post, she was just the biggest source of it). You’re right that you need to get your shit together tho - but for you, not her. I’d bet that if you cut her out the rest starts falling back into place, just from the Testosterone returning - imagine that
Good luck
This is all just a troll job
[quote]angry chicken wrote:
So how’s everything with YOU, CND?[/quote]
I’ve had a pretty terrible/tragic couple of days here recently but other than that I’m good. Hope you are doing well. You still moving into my neck of the woods? Hit me up