I don’t even know why guys make threads like this, you know what to do why do you need to hear it from strangers. Also its unlikely your going to take anyone’s advice on here.
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
I don’t even know why guys make threads like this, you know what to do why do you need to hear it from strangers. Also its unlikely your going to take anyone’s advice on here. [/quote]
I disagree, sometimes when we know things we need to hear it in order to realize how pertinent it is. Guys are usually completely lost and unable to seek help, so the fact that he is doing that, says a great bit.
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
[quote]conservativedog wrote:
Damn Beth.
…and just when I thought I had you pegged.
No pun intended.
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oh? how did you peg me?[/quote]
I want to know that too, because while being technically possible, I find it hard to believe that any pegging was involved. [/quote]
I always thought that pegging went the other way around?
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I knowwwww, but technically he could have done it.
Becaaaaaause, when a woman can peg another woman, he can do, he just cannot use his own penis.
I dont see any reason why anyone would do this, but maybe he has a bucket list.
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I don’t even.[/quote]
We were playing with a pun.
[quote]Claudan wrote:
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
I don’t even know why guys make threads like this, you know what to do why do you need to hear it from strangers. Also its unlikely your going to take anyone’s advice on here. [/quote]
I disagree, sometimes when we know things we need to hear it in order to realize how pertinent it is. Guys are usually completely lost and unable to seek help, so the fact that he is doing that, says a great bit. [/quote]
Yeah true hopefully he does take some of the advice on here.
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]Claudan wrote:
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
I don’t even know why guys make threads like this, you know what to do why do you need to hear it from strangers. Also its unlikely your going to take anyone’s advice on here. [/quote]
I disagree, sometimes when we know things we need to hear it in order to realize how pertinent it is. Guys are usually completely lost and unable to seek help, so the fact that he is doing that, says a great bit. [/quote]
Yeah true hopefully he does take some of the advice on here.[/quote]
like tits or gtfo?
[quote]rehanb_bl wrote:
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
[quote]Claudan wrote:
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
I don’t even know why guys make threads like this, you know what to do why do you need to hear it from strangers. Also its unlikely your going to take anyone’s advice on here. [/quote]
I disagree, sometimes when we know things we need to hear it in order to realize how pertinent it is. Guys are usually completely lost and unable to seek help, so the fact that he is doing that, says a great bit. [/quote]
Yeah true hopefully he does take some of the advice on here.[/quote]
like tits or gtfo?[/quote]
Those are good
You know what nobody ever fucking listens in these threads. GPS guy didn’t listen, and VT probably won’t either.
[quote]csulli wrote:
GPS guy didn’t listen.[/quote]
He’s a great example of what not to be
[quote]csulli wrote:
You know what nobody ever fucking listens in these threads. GPS guy didn’t listen, and VT probably won’t either.[/quote]
x2, I don’t think he’ll listen to anyone in here, but… I definitely think he’ll start listening to himself once he reaches bottom. If he ain’t listening yet, probably means he isn’t done hitting bottom.
[quote]csulli wrote:
You know what nobody ever fucking listens in these threads. GPS guy didn’t listen, and VT probably won’t either.[/quote]
GPS guy is prolly swinging off a rope in a closet by now.
Rob
I personally never understood why people air their personal laundry in a public forum. I can understand confiding in someone close to you, and no offense to you guys, but this kind of stuff doesn’t warrant sharing with a forum.
I suppose if one considers people on here their close friends/confidants, but its not like you can’t see where a thread like this will go before it even gets posted. But in general, there are almost no faces to real names, people posting have nothing to lose, and honestly, how much do people on a forum truly care for another poster?
Regardless, wish him luck.
[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
I personally never understood why people air their personal laundry in a public forum. I can understand confiding in someone close to you, and no offense to you guys, but this kind of stuff doesn’t warrant sharing with a forum.
I suppose if one considers people on here their close friends/confidants, but its not like you can’t see where a thread like this will go before it even gets posted. But in general, there are almost no faces to real names, people posting have nothing to lose, and honestly, how much do people on a forum truly care for another poster?
Regardless, wish him luck.[/quote]
Honestly, is this rocket science?
I mean, if he was not knee deep in it, would he not see the answer immediately?
He posted his situation, hopefully to the best of his knowledge, he got the same answer from several people.
Where is the problem?
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
I personally never understood why people air their personal laundry in a public forum. I can understand confiding in someone close to you, and no offense to you guys, but this kind of stuff doesn’t warrant sharing with a forum.
I suppose if one considers people on here their close friends/confidants, but its not like you can’t see where a thread like this will go before it even gets posted. But in general, there are almost no faces to real names, people posting have nothing to lose, and honestly, how much do people on a forum truly care for another poster?
Regardless, wish him luck.[/quote]
Honestly, is this rocket science?
I mean, if he was not knee deep in it, would he not see the answer immediately?
He posted his situation, hopefully to the best of his knowledge, he got the same answer from several people.
Where is the problem?
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in our hearts
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
I personally never understood why people air their personal laundry in a public forum. I can understand confiding in someone close to you, and no offense to you guys, but this kind of stuff doesn’t warrant sharing with a forum.
I suppose if one considers people on here their close friends/confidants, but its not like you can’t see where a thread like this will go before it even gets posted. But in general, there are almost no faces to real names, people posting have nothing to lose, and honestly, how much do people on a forum truly care for another poster?
Regardless, wish him luck.[/quote]
Honestly, is this rocket science?
I mean, if he was not knee deep in it, would he not see the answer immediately?
He posted his situation, hopefully to the best of his knowledge, he got the same answer from several people.
Where is the problem?
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in our hearts[/quote]
Admittedly, but since I do not share his I can see pretty clearly that he has no place in hers.
If she even has one.
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
I personally never understood why people air their personal laundry in a public forum. I can understand confiding in someone close to you, and no offense to you guys, but this kind of stuff doesn’t warrant sharing with a forum.
I suppose if one considers people on here their close friends/confidants, but its not like you can’t see where a thread like this will go before it even gets posted. But in general, there are almost no faces to real names, people posting have nothing to lose, and honestly, how much do people on a forum truly care for another poster?
Regardless, wish him luck.[/quote]
Honestly, is this rocket science?
I mean, if he was not knee deep in it, would he not see the answer immediately?
He posted his situation, hopefully to the best of his knowledge, he got the same answer from several people.
Where is the problem?
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in our hearts[/quote]
Admittedly, but since I do not share his I can see pretty clearly that he has no place in hers.
If she even has one. [/quote]
I reckon she has a cow heart
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
[quote]Quasi-Tech wrote:
I personally never understood why people air their personal laundry in a public forum. I can understand confiding in someone close to you, and no offense to you guys, but this kind of stuff doesn’t warrant sharing with a forum.
I suppose if one considers people on here their close friends/confidants, but its not like you can’t see where a thread like this will go before it even gets posted. But in general, there are almost no faces to real names, people posting have nothing to lose, and honestly, how much do people on a forum truly care for another poster?
Regardless, wish him luck.[/quote]
Honestly, is this rocket science?
I mean, if he was not knee deep in it, would he not see the answer immediately?
He posted his situation, hopefully to the best of his knowledge, he got the same answer from several people.
Where is the problem?
[/quote]
in our hearts[/quote]
Admittedly, but since I do not share his I can see pretty clearly that he has no place in hers.
If she even has one. [/quote]
I reckon she has a cow heart[/quote]
More valves than usual?
I hope this helps… it’s taken from a different site obvi
I’m not claiming to be anything that I’m not. But I know girls and women. I’ve had a few relationships lasting a couple years each. One of which ended a month ago… These were hand picked successively as the best in whatever ways I imagined at the time. I mostly tried to avoid relationships more and more as I got older. You know the story, you find somebody amazing who you really click with, above and beyond the rest. I have my own faults, but nothing like I’ve been subjected to.
I have befriended and bedded maybe 100 or more. I work with 40+ girls and women on any given day/night and have for years. I meet more every day. In a bigger city I see and hear a lot of my friends experiences besides my own. Plus my own family and old friends and their relationships.
In 2013 I don’t see the point. Selfish, empty, negative, emotional, lazy, self-entitled, uninspired, cruel, insatiable, easily bored, gullible, impressionable, unfaithful, immoral to the core. The whole fucking lot. From 18-menopause its all the same. Some grow up slightly over time. Some are better as they’re younger and develop worse and worse habits along the way.
An individual is obviously different than the next but mostly its all the same shit. I’m not saying men are perfect or anything but I know quite a few good guys. And I don’t know a single truly good woman.
Truly good… out of all of them? Definitely zero. They all share the above characteristics. Not all at once and some worse than others. But none are to be trusted with, say, my life or even property. I’m a successful, good-looking, intelligent, athletic guy. I care deeply about those i love and I make a lot of sacrifices for those close to me and balanced dedication becomes who I am and what i do. I help people flourish as their own person while a relationship blossoms. Truth be told if you want a woman around, to truthfully stay around, they need to be treated poorly. I’m not into that.
This past relationship was the worst. We started out as really good friends. Started dating, went through thick and thin together, bettered each other and ourselves, accomplished goals, had a lot of fun, really truly loved each other, and dreamed of the future and fully appreciated every waking day.
Right around the time of her birthday last month, she left me for a fucking pizza boy that she knew for a couple weeks. Im not lying… I couldn’t make this shit up if I tried. She went from an angel to the devil that needs to be pushed back into the depths of hell. Doesn’t care what she did, what she’s going to do. No apology, no time lapse between me and him. Just a totally and completely different person at the flip of a switch and there were no warning signs at all.
Same old shit, different face. Just completely reliably standard crazy shit. I don’t know what her explanation will be and I won’t be around to hear it. Its so common and normal, how could I possibly care?
I contact old girlfriends, friends, and meet girls I don’t know yet. I need sex obviously, especially in this lonely state. We can be civil, hang out, fuck, carry on convos. Then its time for them to go. Half of them probably just have the same needs as me and even head out in their own when its time.
I sit here alone with my dog on nights like this, taking a break after blasting through my hobbies for a while, training hard, getting a lot done at work, just getting my shit together, and I feel the coldest loneliness that I can remember. Depressing shit, really.
I do not want to be like 90%+ of married men. So miserable, broken, defeated, used and abused. Not for me. Having a girlfriend is the mild equivelant… where it slowly breaks down just the same and becomes just a huge waste of time, energy, happiness and sanity.
But now approaching 30, I can’t always pull 18-21s anymore and even if I do get regular good random sex there are the obvious std scares, which I have been through. I just don’t enjoy this as much as when I was just a couple years younger. I need to have sex regularly, we all do.
What’s the point? What’s a good goal? I see what marriage is and what it does. No fucking thank you. I occasionally slip up and start thinking about any current long time gf that way and I realize how it would just be miserable. Realizing this as I’m happy in the moment, mind you.
I’m really stuck here. In my state we are in our 7th month of winter. Everybody is stir crazy, and as much as I want to meet new girls, im starting to find less and less quality so its fewer and farther between. I can’t pull 8 girls in 7 nights anymore lol
I immerse myself in my hobbies, pursuits, and work. I talk to and hang with my friends as much as possible. My dog is always in my lap.
I’m still lonely as hell, completely isolated with the knowledge that I have. Its hard to know what to want at this point.
Let me also say that i love time to myself. I read a lot and I have a lot of hobbies. I have often thought about living in a cabin in the woods an hr away. That’s how much I enjoy my “me” time. But some of my cabin daydreams involve my head splattered on the wall, purely because of the extreme isolation.
Bitches… can’t live w em, truly can’t live without them. Hard not knowing what to do. I see other s currently happily in love. And although it most likely wont last and the pain will be monument Al to the good things they felt, I still want that, sometimes
Edit: I was going to edit the jumping around of my thought processes and typos. Then I thought, fuck it. This is a counseling forum. Nothing to hide
If he has not done so already, he should, in no particular order 1) hit her in the face 2) squats and milk 3) foam rolling 4) PIIHP. Simple as that. I am rather surprised that someone did not offer this quick solution earlier. Just breaking it down.
Walkway, you do see that the guy that wrote that has issues right? Searching for a worthwhile girl in a group of women (100+) to which he has slept with? Do you really think he’s looking in the right places, or different places from where he picks the other girls up? Doubt it. He’s in the same spinning cycle and wondering why he can’t get out.
Pizza boy part was funny though.
People will never understand that relationships take effort. From both parties. Trying to find two people that match up is incredibly difficult. Similar interests, but not physically attracted, or vice versa. Then you have all bases met, but one or both doesn’t want to work through the problems or baggage. These are bound to fail.
If someone is truly that lonely, then maybe the answer is 1) get fixed, then you won’t dwell in the shallow reality of just trying to “bed” females; 2) end it… seriously. He talks about how strong, attractive, and confident he is, but its all superficial. Hopefully its not someone you know.
Men have helped to create the situation we are currently in. We all want to get laid when we want, but yet we want a good, faithful girl. How many do you really think are out there that are attractive, fun to be around, share common interests? I mean really, the pool dwindles, and when you consider population is about 50/50, there’s only a certain number of times you can pass around the same girl. Each party learns that having fun is more important than commitment, and when it comes time to “settle down” neither party can do it. Its a vicious cycle. And honestly, bromski in that post doesn’t deserve a great girl, one that’s maybe “waited” and hasn’t been sleeping around. He deserves exactly what he has, 1 night stands and meaningless relationships.