Nah, M&M I’m not dumping her. Last night she relented (unsolicited) and simply asked me what I did to loose the weight. Understand, my girl weight trains heavy and does intense cardio (step class) 5-6 days/week. Shes only gained 6# since I met her a year ago and some of that is muscle. As far as attention and support we are together constantly (except when we’re at work) and I treat her very well. She admits to be spoiled. Anyway…I think she’s coming out of this funk and shes leaning towards trying some diet changes. We’ll see how it goes.
It sounds very much like she’s frustrated with her success, or better lack of such. And not only that, but she also has to see someone (you) everyday who, to his own account, seems to respond very well to these type of things. Simply put it seems that she sees your success as her failure. Of course this is not right, but understandable. Maybe you can help her find something that works for her. Suggest and get her to try different diets, workout routines etc. to find something that she’s comfortable with and that works for her. It’s out there somewhere, you just needs to find it. I’m pretty sure once she starts having success things will change.
Any relationship based upon appearances is eventually doomed
Its not based on appearance. That would be stupid. Its based on sex.